]DS was in pain at that time too .she cared for Anandi she was not sleeping in her room peacefully or dancing around but was looking after Anandi but at same time we can't expect her to heartless towards her grandson too ..she didn't ask or stopped Anandi's bidaai from house she let it happen so what is point of objecton here ?we can't expect her to dance around o yeah o yeah A's bidaai from my house J bhaad mein jaye? you cannot expect this from a grandmother there is nothing wrong in caring for feelings ..your point would have been valid if she would asked not to let it happen because J's in home but she let it happen so what's wrong DS did i dont understand and the question is not of J feelings only she was also worried he is in home does it look awesome Anandi with her new husband , his all family , all baraatis getting bidaai from house ex husband too there ...it looks awkward not for J but will be for A too ..can be a problem for her too