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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 13 years ago

See how her 'maafi drama' backfired on her! And this time Anandi is responsible...

She was overtly obsessed about giving their son back to them. But the question is, had she ever taken their son away from them that she thought it was her responsibility to return him to his family? What right did Anandi have to ask Jagya to live in the haveli when Bhairo had flatly refused him? Wasn't it enough just to forgive him and let him go?

First she took care of him acting as his wife inadvertently making him feel that she still cares for his well-being, then she pronounced her maafi in front of all and she also allowed him to live in the haveli. If Jagya wasn't living there, all this drama would have never taken place. So who is responsible? Why is everyone blaming dadisa and Jagya? They both have not done anything unusual.

If for our mahan madam, Singh's happiness is all that matters, then I think she should agree to remarry Jagya and leave that poor Shiv alone. In due course he will forget her. But enough of this nautanki in his life.

Anandi also seems to have forgotten about the promise given to her own mom. She did not oppose dadisa today, but she gave lame excuses like how will shiv feel if she backs off and blah blah. If Ashima's tears had no meaning to dadisa, then how can Shiv's tears have? Shrewd person that this dadisa is, she surely found a clue of what she needs to do next to break this rishta.

If viewers could applaud dadisa for using manipulative tactics to get Shiv and Anandi together, if breaking Shiv's rishta with Urmi' daughter was not a selfish act and using Bhago who was on deathbed to make Anandi agree to marry Shiv because she herself was helpless after she promised not to force Anandi into second marriage is acceptable and commendable, then I think viewers must also accept what she is doing now which is nothing different than what she did in the past. A completely selfish act!!

If dadisa could win with her manipulative tactics in the past, why cant she win now? She surely knows her success mantra.

Edited by Shinya - 13 years ago

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Sree

@Katyayani_devi

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Posted: 13 years ago

instead of bhairo all take decisions abt his family matters. he has to stand strong n make his decisions firmly n confidently n not let others influence his decisions. it's high time for bhairo to make DS to go to pilgrimage or tell her to take rest n leave his family responsibilities to him.

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am worried about Bhairon's words., Inadvertently he has put ideas into the old lady's head that she must not talk about this to Shiv.

I think,that is what exactly she will do now. Talk to Shiv personally and ask him to back off. We all know how much Shiv loves her and he may do it. More than the pota it is the dadi who will be able to convince Shiv to let go off Anandi.

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

DS was very good till she was hooking Anandi with Shiv ji...definitely today she is going to be worst...

The day she took the photo of Shiv to Bilaria without the consent of Anandi...she was called a very caring, loving and far sighted woman who wants to see Anandi settle in the life but she never realised she is putting chains and hand cuffing Anandi because for me, Anandi never made a decision in her childhood for marriage at her own and even at adulthood..she was dicated by DS what to do and what not to do for her marriage...

I always wanted Aandi to talk to her mentor Teacher ji...

So you rightly said...Anandi is a blind supporter of DS and she should follow DS today too...

Afterall, DS has always thought good for Anandi and why not today...

As we closed our previous topic..."Ansh will be reduced to AShes" by this lady...she will prove that..

Edited by bhach - 13 years ago

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 13 years ago

I too am surprised , why DS is blamed? She did nothing unusual. She loves her pota and makes no bones abt it.

J should also not be blamed. Anandi always forgave him and bent to his demand. So much so that she agreed to act his wife to cure him. All this happened in front of Shiv's eyes. She also allowed Jagia to stay in haveli without paying any heed to CM's warnings.

When she herself shows no respect to her would be husband and sasural , then why would DS and her pota will show any regards?

Her excuses given to DS for not marrying Jagia again appeared very lame to me. Neither DS is convinced by them nor am I.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

i am very much convieced by anandi answer .the person who i am not at all convieced is dadisa .if dadisa is taking wrong meaning of anandi's forgiveness to jagya then it is dadisa problem not anandi problem .let dadisa think that anandi forgive jagya because she want jagya back her in her life but truth is that anandi never wanted jagya back her in life she forgive jagya so that jagya can get his family back and so that she can start new life with shiv and yesterday when dadisa pressurizing anandi to remarry jagya the way anandi denies dadisa request and chooses shiv over jagya is highly praise worthy

Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Anandi cannot escape from the blame and put it on DS..during these three years , DS has always been the same and most of us have always approved her actions...whatever may be relating to Jagya, Gauri, Annadi, Gehna, Sumi etc..

Today, she is the same asking from Anandi to come back to Jagya...afterall what s wrong if she asks for this..Was Anandi s answer very convincing...no..she can come back to jagya but she thinks that collector sahib will be broken..and if collector sahib says I am not broken,..I do not think she will has any hesitation to come back to Jagya...THe key point is that she did not convey a striong message to Ds but it was a half hearted approach...that s why Bharv said that ds should not go to Shiv ji...

The people who try to bind themselves with "Kassams" they always create boundaries for themselves and then to cross them, they feel greived and insulted...that s where Anandi is today...

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Posted: 13 years ago

now in today episode when anandi will happily wear payal with the hands of shiv then still she will be cricticise that it is anandi fault

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
now in today episode when anandi will happily wear payal with the hands of shiv then still she will be cricticise that it is anandi fault

She is moving forward..that is the best thing everyone want to see...she is not criticised but our frustation is that she is not sending a strong message to DS...earlier her cold approach to Shiv ji hot love was baffling me..