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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you for enduring this for us!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Children imitate whatever is being discussed by the elders in the family. That is why, it is always said that we have to be very careful when we speak in front of children. What Nandu said in the precap,it must have given the impression to CM that this discussion is already doing rounds in the family. And she is not wrong when she voices her disapproval and says of rethinking on this issue. The Singhs and Anandi did not deserve any better treatment from her. Ultimately her fears are getting realized more and more.

Knowing everything about Jagya ,why no one in the family ever thought if keeping a close watch on him? And from where did Nandu find such a big tongue in his mouth that is not controlled by a set of teeth and a pair of lips? Why no one thought of asking Nandu what all things he is talking with his beloved bhaisa?

The pond romance(?) also failed to impress me. Shiv was working way too hard to impress Anandi and she is forever in her self pity mode. The chemistry is no longer working rather it is now looking a bit forced. Now the marriage is also looking a bit forced with the Singh family happy with their son, Anandi with her beendh,so why not say good bye to Shiv? He served their purpose for as long as it was wanted, now he can be discarded and everything is to be forgotten as a bad dream.

All in all an episode that neither addressed the core issue nor made any one look or behave practically. It only showed an agonized Shiv. So much for being good.

And the voiceover was hilarious.

Strength and support from men should encourage women to do fallacious acts. This is what the episode taught today.

To each his own.

Totally agree with you dear...I already said, that no future in laws or the society will accept this and dadisa and Anandi should have known this, as they have been staying in the village setting for so long...They should have known this was coming...Did they think that Shekhar's would tolerate this non-sense...
I am totally fine, if Shiv accepts his family decision and walks away today...But I want to see Anandi's reaction for sure...So, what are her plans now...Stay in the haveli, with ex-husband or move out and stay on her own, after her marriage is broken...? Knowing her character, she will never marry Jagya for sure...(But Cvs can do anything) But it should be this way, because she would think about Gauri, who is now Jagya's husband, though legalities don't count...Still, it is a reality check to all of Singhs for sure...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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For all you know, Shivu will walk out due to his family, Anandi will be forced to re-marry Bhikari, by her laadli Daadisa, and just when marriage is about to happen, Gauri mata will show up pregnant and angry and bhikari will run back to her and Anandi will be left doing the only thing she is really good at doing...crying and sulking
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks very much Priya...for going thru all this crap to update👏👏👏👏👏
Heartfelt thanks from my side to all the updaters...thanks to you ppl like me can decide whether or not we should see the episode👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I don't think I will see today's episode...half a scene of AnSh is not motivating enough😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

For all you know, Shivu will walk out due to his family, Anandi will be forced to re-marry Bhikari, by her laadli Daadisa, and just when marriage is about to happen, Gauri mata will show up pregnant and angry and bhikari will run back to her and Anandi will be left doing the only thing she is really good at doing...crying and sulking

I know, I had same thought...Shiv will never go against his family, or openly fight...He might try to reason with them and at last say fine, I will not marry her...But I have a feeling that when the railway project thing will comeup, it will be Anandi, who will alone support him, even though their relationship might have been broken and help him gain back his position and the Shekhars might realize that Anandi truly cares for Shiv...But yeah, meanwhile, Jagya might try to get married to Anandi...But I will be strongly dissapointed if Anandi agrees for it...! It will show that there is no difference between her and Gauri...! Till then, I would like to keep my mind open...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Children imitate whatever is being discussed by the elders in the family. That is why, it is always said that we have to be very careful when we speak in front of children. What Nandu said in the precap,it must have given the impression to CM that this discussion is already doing rounds in the family. And she is not wrong when she voices her disapproval and says of rethinking on this issue. The Singhs and Anandi did not deserve any better treatment from her. Ultimately her fears are getting realized more and more.

Knowing everything about Jagya ,why no one in the family ever thought if keeping a close watch on him? And from where did Nandu find such a big tongue in his mouth that is not controlled by a set of teeth and a pair of lips? Why no one thought of asking Nandu what all things he is talking with his beloved bhaisa?

The pond romance(?) also failed to impress me. Shiv was working way too hard to impress Anandi and she is forever in her self pity mode. The chemistry is no longer working rather it is now looking a bit forced. Now the marriage is also looking a bit forced with the Singh family happy with their son, Anandi with her beendh,so why not say good bye to Shiv? He served their purpose for as long as it was wanted, now he can be discarded and everything is to be forgotten as a bad dream.

All in all an episode that neither addressed the core issue nor made any one look or behave practically. It only showed an agonized Shiv. So much for being good.

And the voiceover was hilarious.

Strength and support from men should encourage women to do fallacious acts. This is what the episode taught today.

To each his own.



Exactly my thoughts on the voiceover. What was Mr Srimali thinking when he penned down such a chauvinistic 'slogan'...?? that it is the man's large-heartedness and patience which a woman needs to sustain her self-belief in the toughest of times.

No seriously, what was the intent behind such a statement.

If this is the moral and social messaging that BV writers are expecting Indian women of the 21st century to digest, they seriously need a reality check. It wouldve been understandable if instead the slogan wouldve been, in a relationship, both partners need the others large heartedness and patience to make tough decisions and sustain their self belief, in the most difficult of times. Coz really, both Shiv and Anandi are suffering, and are able to endure this nautanki with sanity only because of a deep trust and understanding of each other.

As if the episode wasnt disgusting enough, one also has to endure the agonizingly patronizing and misogynistic messages like these. Ugh!!!

A big thumbs down to the writers. You suck. Big time!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I skipped today episode even after knowing the Ansh pond scen is coming.
I think becouse of too much negativity Ansh is loosing their charm.

Loved the precap.fir the 1st time i m agree with CM.just wish shiv diesn't oppose the decesion.

Also panditji says ansh marriage shouldn't happen before ekadsi so in this whole drama ,r cvs planning for early marriage and then kuch apshukan ho like shiv turning negative.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

For all you know, Shivu will walk out due to his family, Anandi will be forced to re-marry Bhikari, by her laadli Daadisa, and just when marriage is about to happen, Gauri mata will show up pregnant and angry and bhikari will run back to her and Anandi will be left doing the only thing she is really good at doing...crying and sulking


Disagree. Shiv will not back off from this relationship unless and until Anandi herself tells him to do so. He can't convince CM nobody can. But, he is sure that he can convince his parents and Daddu bcos he knows Anandi's state of mind. He wants to remove the pain. So, he will never leave her alone by breaking the sagai.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hope this track will end soon with Bhikari's jail yatra..
otherwise BV will lose 99% of it's viewers.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dixie123


Disagree. Shiv will not back off from this relationship unless and until Anandi herself tells him to do so. He can't convince CM nobody can. But, he is sure that he can convince his parents and Daddu bcos he knows Anandi's state of mind. He wants to remove the pain. So, he will never leave her alone by breaking the sagai.

I know he won't and will try to do his best to convince his family dixie, but will he go against them, if they don't agree?

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