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@suchi.. Sweetie no need to phukao your khoon for some nonsense posts/ comments.
See, there are people here who write what they THINK and others who write what they FEEL. Now, the people who think, write the bookish things, that cant be implemented in life and is far from reality like :-
''Anandi should forgive Jugs''
''Poor jug is repenting, he should be forgiven''
''First love is first, Anandi should be with Jagiya only''
''Why such harsh treatent given to Jugs''.
Reasons for such stupid comments/ posts ?? They THINK ! They dont put themselves in others shoes. They take BV only as a mere show !! They dont know that there are so many Anandis out there struggling in their lives and they dont have good in laws like Anandi have in this show. Instead, if they are dejected by husband, inlaws throw them out tagging them as a characterless woman ! Whatever Anandi has gone through is a little percentage of what women actually tolerates. Those who are supporting Jugs/ Gauri they are people who are not aware of realities of life. They think forum discussion as a medium to show off their level of intellectuality and depth of things.
On the other hand, we people are EMOTIONAL FOOLS. Maybe have gone through same hurt, pain and deceit. Have gone through hard phase, break ups. We can relate ourselves to Anandi in a way or other. We put us in her shoes and then see. BV is not only a show, but it contains a deeper meaning for us. Hence, when people post such illogical comments/ posts we are perturbed coz we know how it FEELS when something like this happens.
Just now i read someone's post and he/ she wrote, ''That buddhi is responsible for everything''. I nearly cried reading this. A woman who went through so much in her childhood, who was alone bread winner of the family, who nurtured her family without support of any man,who was laden with so many social stigmas and rituals, is broken today. She is full of guilt for her past actions and is trying to do her best to rectify the mistakes and people are calling her a ''Selfish buddhi'' ! How can people stoop so low !?? If DS is responsible for Anandi-Jugs-Gauri situation than there must be someone responsible for making DS like this, stuffing old norms in her mind. Who ?? Her in laws or parents ofcourse ! She was also a child bride, isint ?? She too went through same hard ships in her life. Then whom to blame ?? Some people who made these social evils, stupid norms and stuffed them in people's minds. This way this blame-game wont ever stop. And if a woman is trying to rectify her mistakes then people are saying that its her selfish motive to get rid of guilt and shame. PATHETIC PEOPLE !! I dont know what type of people are these.
**What has Jugiya suffered till now ?? Pain of seeing a girl engaged to someone else whom he left for another girl ? Whom he treated like shit ?? Whom he mentally tortured ? Abused ? Made fun of her ?? He has not gone even 1% of suffering of what Anandi went !! He has just come to jaitsar, seen his ex wife happy with someone else ( he himself made suhaag raat with Gauri in his and Anandi room ) and being rediculed by her family. He is fed up in 2 days !!? He tortured Anandi for years !! How can you people be so unfair ?? He has to go through a lot now. God is fair. He will give him his quota of pain and sufferings. He cant get redemption so easily. He has to suffer a lot, its only the starting and you want Singhs to do his aav-bhagat ?? Hopeless !!
See, there are people here who write what they THINK and others who write what they FEEL. Now, the people who think, write the bookish things, that cant be implemented in life and is far from reality like :-
''Anandi should forgive Jugs''
''Poor jug is repenting, he should be forgiven''
''First love is first, Anandi should be with Jagiya only''
''Why such harsh treatent given to Jugs''.
Reasons for such stupid comments/ posts ?? They THINK ! They dont put themselves in others shoes. They take BV only as a mere show !! They dont know that there are so many Anandis out there struggling in their lives and they dont have good in laws like Anandi have in this show. Instead, if they are dejected by husband, inlaws throw them out tagging them as a characterless woman ! Whatever Anandi has gone through is a little percentage of what women actually tolerates. Those who are supporting Jugs/ Gauri they are people who are not aware of realities of life. They think forum discussion as a medium to show off their level of intellectuality and depth of things.
On the other hand, we people are EMOTIONAL FOOLS. Maybe have gone through same hurt, pain and deceit. Have gone through hard phase, break ups. We can relate ourselves to Anandi in a way or other. We put us in her shoes and then see. BV is not only a show, but it contains a deeper meaning for us. Hence, when people post such illogical comments/ posts we are perturbed coz we know how it FEELS when something like this happens.
Just now i read someone's post and he/ she wrote, ''That buddhi is responsible for everything''. I nearly cried reading this. A woman who went through so much in her childhood, who was alone bread winner of the family, who nurtured her family without support of any man,who was laden with so many social stigmas and rituals, is broken today. She is full of guilt for her past actions and is trying to do her best to rectify the mistakes and people are calling her a ''Selfish buddhi'' ! How can people stoop so low !?? If DS is responsible for Anandi-Jugs-Gauri situation than there must be someone responsible for making DS like this, stuffing old norms in her mind. Who ?? Her in laws or parents ofcourse ! She was also a child bride, isint ?? She too went through same hard ships in her life. Then whom to blame ?? Some people who made these social evils, stupid norms and stuffed them in people's minds. This way this blame-game wont ever stop. And if a woman is trying to rectify her mistakes then people are saying that its her selfish motive to get rid of guilt and shame. PATHETIC PEOPLE !! I dont know what type of people are these.
**What has Jugiya suffered till now ?? Pain of seeing a girl engaged to someone else whom he left for another girl ? Whom he treated like shit ?? Whom he mentally tortured ? Abused ? Made fun of her ?? He has not gone even 1% of suffering of what Anandi went !! He has just come to jaitsar, seen his ex wife happy with someone else ( he himself made suhaag raat with Gauri in his and Anandi room ) and being rediculed by her family. He is fed up in 2 days !!? He tortured Anandi for years !! How can you people be so unfair ?? He has to go through a lot now. God is fair. He will give him his quota of pain and sufferings. He cant get redemption so easily. He has to suffer a lot, its only the starting and you want Singhs to do his aav-bhagat ?? Hopeless !!
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