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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: onetime

Indian serial makers need to understand that there is civilized way to deal with bad situations. And logic they give to physically push ex-husband out by force is so weird. Cannot tolerate so much UN-civilized ways. They stop the serial to show us a lesson learned message instead of showing ways in which we need to deal with difficult situation. The writer is getting his wrath against certain character or personality type.
We ask them to consider something civil. Like civil people, sit on chair, have tea, tell the ex-husband. Here is the current situation, this is what is best in current situation and your presence is not needed very firmly. Or, something more civil if ex-husband is still needed.

Also make closure meeting of Anandi with ex-husband if needed. Buy this guy a ticket to move away to a place where he can re-settle if possible (being too civil?). BUT ALL THE INDIAN SERIALS have low level brutality in them. Even for fighting war, there is a civil way to put down brutality. Not some primitive revengeful way. They show uncivil ways to add masala which is certainly not good for society.

Not just this, the previous serial on Aapka colors, where someone sabotaged surrogate egg. The sabotaged women face is shown as someone who has got electric shocks all her life. Even before all this incident happened. C'mon, this is how we like to see our women. No intelligence in dealing with bad situation, just brutal emotions, brutal people. Oppressed and constipated looking women. No place for intelligent people getting out of clutches of brutal people. No Place for forgiveness, closure and civilized ways to end (part ways) with brutal or deceptive people. Then, there are constipated face women /men in Love marriage vs Arranged marriage serial. The one who got married by love marriage looks so beaten up. Whoow, give some breather guys otherwise life is misery over misery.

We understand that invasions to india and arrival of all sorts has unbalanced people in our desh. but now is time to correct.

D S.



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Instead of watching such uncivilized show written by SADDIEST writers for SADDIEST viewers, picking up remote and switching to some comedy or cartoon channel might be helpful 😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
i agree wid the ppl like ankit, manasi, srevask etc. abt J, shiv & CM. but it wud'd bcum v.long replies if i'd replied 2 each so agreeing wid them!!
but still i want 2 say abt this.
tho i wanted singhs not 2 throw J out of house like this & even i felt bad 4 J bcoz as BS was not like G type of ppl who go on shouting on oders even 4 their own sins/mistakes etc.but i m not angry on their behaviour.i wanted BS atleast 2 listen him.but i don't wnat J 2 b back wid family so easily & so early. like sum1 said that he cud b taken in haveli on sympathy bcoz singhs'd earlier 2 took kid G in their home wen she was left in the rain by her "so called gud but poor parents"!!
BUT after reading so many posts regarding this situtn. i realised that singh family was also rite 4 not listening him bcoz he started wid a lie that 2 abt A's engagement. he shud'd atleast accepted that "he'd seen but went away thinking abt A's happiness" like he'd told them this also alongwid a lie!!
i want J 2 b back wid singhs only if he repented truly & properly but not 2 get anandi back. bcoz now its 2 late. and i m not saying its 2 late bcoz she has got shiv but its bcoz so much time period has gone by that the wrongs he'd done can't b mended in just few days or weeks!!
if he has cum back even after one yr wen he started his torture on A then it cud'd been possible 2 sum extent. i m not saying even @ that a shud'd 4gotten all done by J but still there chance was strong in comparison 2 this time!!
and abt shiv tho CM shudn't'd done this but A really behaved v.well & its called handling of situtns widout creating any ill-will wid in the family. if shiv'd said sumthing in favour of A then CM must'd said later on abt Shiv getting influenced by A!!
i m also .impulsive in such things in reality. if sum1 is wrong i instantliy gave reply but one thing even i'd learnt from my such impulsivenss that speak wen it has max impact & in the way none can think bad abt it!!but sumtimes situtns r worse than this so at that time speaking up or voicing against is better option. but here there was no need 2 do. now after this incident if CM continues this she shud b told 2 hold by elders of the family 1st & then shiv!!
and abt DS no doubt she'd done so much "zulms' on A, basant's wives but rembr she didn't do 4 her selfishness, she did bcoz she was from old school of thot where its thot that traditions set up by our ancestors r 2 b revered & need not 2 b changed. and i m not saying that it negates her misdeeds BUT shes repenting & even getting her punishment in the way that her laadesar didn't hear her 4 G & even sold her husband's locket which she gave him wid so much love & trust. He Broke Her Trust & getting broken ur trust by the prsn whom u'd loved so much is v.big punishment!!😊😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
I agree with Dolly...no one is condoning Dadisa of the way she has behaved in the past with all her beendanis and their families. But she is illietrate, uneducated and brought up in a culture where all this is the norm...she was just repeating whatever had been drilled into her head from childhood...that girls are inferior to men and they exsist purely to fulfill male desires. But Jagya & Gauri are educated, literate and people of today's generation isn't? then how will you justify their behaviour and attitude towards Anandi & the family?

And taking of civility...where were all these supporters of civil behaviour when Jagdish was emotionally and verbally abusing Anandi? why didn't anyone of you talk of civility when J-G celebrated their suhaag raat on Anandi's marital bed when she was just a few rooms away? Where was all civility gone when Gauri was showing off her sukhi sansaar to Anandi when she came to M'bai??? Why was no civility expected from Jagya when he blamed Anandi for killing his child? Why was Gauri not civil when she came to Jaitsar to shout on Bhairon for funding her education? When she almost caused BadiMasiji's death?

Why is civil behaviour expected ONLY from the Singhs? Why are J-G exempt from all propriety of behaviour?
Edited by Manasi_16 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
this post has disgusted me like anything!
wow!! what an amazing topic..here jaggya, the so called son, being pushed by his father is uncivilized, bhairon became hitler, people can understand jaggya's pain (just bcoz he drenched in the rain once again!? 😕) but not anandi's and anandi should comeback to jaggya leaving shiv..just the way jaggya left gauri!!

i was actually questioning me that if i really don understand what civil ways r or may be i am very much uncivilized and a very bad human being..bcoz i am happy that jaggya was pushed like this! 😛...then i thought may b TM did not watch BV from the very first day, so don know what jaggya did with anandi...and when i reached at the last page..i was laughing like anything reading some "amazingly illogical" posts! 😆...

PN : i have reported some posts too..
Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Manasi and many sadist out there,

Was Anandi physically pushed and thrown out of her home????? they all just want to ignore this.

then we have a bigger sadist MMishra saying.
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Jagiya cheated Anandi while they were married and sleeping together (sorry have to use these words) But Anandi has no relationship with Jagiya anymore they are divorced.
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You are just adding oil to fire. How can he cheat when this is a child marriage, The person married does not even recognize this as marriage. I can upgrade what happened between Jagya and Anandi to be teenage love and heart break but no more.
How many times tiny school boys playing with tiny school girls have married them??? They dont understand the relevance of child marriage. They just enact the marriage act.

I suppose when J grew bigger he (his parents) should have him legally married with Anandi. Ask him, is he into it. This would be a litmus test before marriage, whether he is into it or not.

As someone said, the sadist want to different treatment for jagya than the rest of culprits.
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Posted: 13 years ago
No one wants Anandi back with Jagia .
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Posted: 13 years ago
Anandi has right to choose. Never objected to Anandi making her choice. But the sadist ...
Edited by onetime - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: onetime

Manasi and many sadist out there,

Was Anandi physically pushed and thrown out of her home????? they all just want to ignore this.

then we have a bigger sadist MMishra saying.
"
Jagiya cheated Anandi while they were married and sleeping together (sorry have to use these words) But Anandi has no relationship with Jagiya anymore they are divorced.
"

You are just adding oil to fire. How can he cheat when this is a child marriage, The person married does not even recognize this as marriage. I can upgrade what happened between Jagya and Anandi to be teenage love and heart break but no more.
How many times tiny school boys playing with tiny school girls have married them??? They dont understand the relevance of child marriage. They just enact the marriage act.

I suppose when J grew bigger he (his parents) should have him legally married with Anandi. Ask him, is he into it. This would be a litmus test before marriage, whether he is into it or not.

As someone said, the sadist want to different treatment for jagya than the rest of culprits.

The JA marriage became legal 2 years after they became adults. It does not matter if you think this as teenage love and heartbreak. There was no need to conduct another legal marriage. In teenage love one does not put sindoor in the girls' maang, keep fast along with her for Teej and consumate the relationship. Jagya did it all willingly. Nobody forced him to do it . Infact he was very happy to do all and he was an adult then .. not mentally retarded. He did not think at that time that this is only child marriage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
read carefully what i have written instead of blah blah. Did you know, some boys get puberty at age of 10 some at age of 22. Your logic makes no sense. Nobody is stopping the choice Anandi makes. But you guys want torture of Jagya and no proper closure and moving forward between civilized adults.

Edits below,
surabhi01-

what attack on purabia's i did?? There have been sadist attacks here that i have not reported.

Manasi_16-
I cannot respond because newbie cannot post more than 10 post. Pushing is a crime done once or twice. It shows un-need savagery when things can be resolved without such act.
Did you answer, was anandi pushed ? Even jagya is going through torture when he lost job or through his wife. Does not matter which side of face one is slapped by misfortune.

SINCE I CANNOT POST MORE THAN 10 as newbie, look at brutality by sadist attackers out here. They attack me to stop me from writing when exposed. I am shaking their wrong assumptions here and they dont want to stimulate the correction. They report against me.

NOTE MY NAME onetime. it states all of it , i came here to post only one time to help our people such that our nation does not degrade and becomes street dog!!!!

those GUYS who report when their sadist nature is exposed are DICTATORS unsuitable for DEMOCRACY.

i read prerna4rishav, you do not even read my post. Mind is already hard-coded and made up. Do they read, the marriage does not register in Jagya brain and i have written why.

I am here for those who dont want their nation to go to Dogs like certain nation around. People like persus do not understand what wrong uncivil nature does to the nation. Brings destruction. Maybe these person have no interest of indian society at heart.

Edited by onetime - 13 years ago
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reported one time for making personal attack on members

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