Uncivilized way to kick out ex-husband of Anandy

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Posted: 13 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: bhach
You cannot imagine the pains in Jagya s mind...Jaya has put so much faith on Anandi that after leaving Gauri he came straight back to his Anandi..Jagya would have never dreamt that his Anandi will get engaged to someone...Bravo Jagya for putting so much faith on Anandi...but his faith got shattere..yes he was wrong...and now when Anadi also moved on by forgetting Jagya...then why we blame only Jagya...Both have found their own ways...but why we all himpighead and want his head chopped off...He went to Gauri realised his mistake and came back...Anandi is still with Shiv...she can also come back...is she does not want..it is ok...why she always then feel the Jagya in her every breath...It was Jagya who used to save Anandi from DS in the childhood..Jagya took care of Anandi...but look at shiv...when CM taunted our Anandi that "shivpighead" kept mum...as such he does not know how to speak...AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF ANANDI...FIRST TIME SHE WAS CALLED HOME AND INSULED...

@yellow He is getting what he gave others.so dont u think Anandi should also get what she gave others?

@purple So is Anandi a railway station from where Jagya boards another train,is back when his job is done and someday catches some another train from the same station?😆

@pink he consumated with Gauri and came back expecting Anandi will accept him jabki he cudnt even stand her holding Shiv's hand to put the engagement ring ?He was even jealous of Shiv when she saw them on TV together(obviously not cosumating🤣).WOWWW.he has guts!

@green She recollets her good moments with Jagya but that doesnt mean that she has forgotten what she got in return of the sacrifices she has done for him and his family.Do u want that she doesnt even cherish some good moments for the rest of her life or do u want that just for the sake of the good moments she should forget all the PAINS she has been given by the same person?

@red🤣 I think the cvs have a parallel version of BV running only on ur tv bcoz in the BV that we all see , it was exactly the opposite.

@blue....he is trying to fill the gap between CM and Anandi and that will take time.Anybody who has family understands how you are stuck in between new and own relations when such a situation arise.Maybe the parallel BV that runs only on your tv didnt show the episode how Shiv supported Anandi and the time of divorce and her mother's demise

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: adi2512

Now, with the way, she blurted out, e/body was shocked including Shiv...If he comes to Anandi's defence r/away., what could it have shown...just another of his defence mechanism.,will it really help CM to change her view...no it will not and he knows that !

adi2512:

I really appreciate your view and fully appreciate the fact that CM will not change her mind.

However, I think we need to speak ou in certain situations and tell people when certain things are not acceptable to us and not in good taste. It is not really about changing the other person, but just about "hearing our own voice" and drawing boundaries.

What kind of society would it be if we all went around voicing our opinions about other people? Particularly hurtful, nasty comments.

I think someone is an ass, does that mean I can say he is an ass.

Choti maa is fully in her place to think whatever she wants to think. But she has no business actually saying her thoughts out loud.

She knows anandi is a divorcee. It is obvious to her that there is still some residual pain etc.

Then why make that comment??

If we all stopped telling people what we thought because we think they wont change their mind, so what's the point, then I think human civilization would stop evolving. There would be no need for tv debates, for points of view in newspapers, for movies or any other communication media.

Nobody is saying that choti maa has to be attacked or verbally abused by either shiv or anandi. It is however important to set boundaries with her and this has to be done with shiv.

Yes, anandi did a beautiful job of parlaying choti maa's verbal volley with finesse.

But the point is that choti maa has to be told this is not appropriate regardless of anandi's deft skill at politely deflecting.

In shiv's place, I would have told choti maa then and there "references to anandi's sasural and ex-husband are not done' ... and the matter would have ended there. There is no scope for a battle.

If she asked why, I would just say "It is not in good taste to dredge up old issues. Let dead bodies remain buried"

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Ela Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#93

I don't understand why CM has problem with Anandi's divorced status? She is not Shiv's mom. Chachi hai. Aur har riste ki ek maryada hoti hai.

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Manasi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: elasingh
I don't understand why CM has problem with Anandi's divorced status? She is not Shiv's mom. Chachi hai. Aur har riste ki ek maryada hoti hai.

Ela, Shiv stays in a joint family...where everyone is teh same rights no mater whose children they are. Like when Basant found out that Jagya sold the his grandfather;s locket to bribe in court...now in that case Jagya was not Basant's son, and even the grandfather was not actually Basant's father (since Basant is mahavir singh's son)!! But in a joint family, all children are no par...tera mera nahi hota...otherwise how will the family function as 'joint'??

I agree that Choti Ma shouldn't have made that comment...it was unwarranted. But if Shiv would have intervened, things would have worsened. Anadi handles the situation perfectly without getting anyone's hackles up. When a problem can be sorted out without animosity, why unnecessarily intervene? It is not essential to speak every time and just bcoz Shiv didn't speak out this time it does not mean he will let CM trouble Anandi...this time keeping quiet was the requirement of that time...and he did that.

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Uma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#95

Tinoo,

Appreciate your concerns...and u/stand every body has their own views and expectations from a character., especially from a sweetheart such as Shiv...😉

But what i personally fee and u/stand is Shiv is not IMPULSIVE. Yes., any other HERO would have come and given his 2 bit advise to CM r/away...but its so not Shiv...

The point made by CM is in a very bad taste...e/body felt that...but she has made this comment in a very sly manner with a BIG SMILE on her face...as if she is saying this very innocently...reacting to such a situation., would be very impulsive on part of Shiv., who LOVES and RESPECTS his family.

In truth, this is the first time Anandi is having a proper interaction with his family...they really need to know her strength as well., and he has helped her in this by remaining quiet. And indeed Anandi proved., cannot say to what extent to CM, but def to all others...!

It doesnot mean, he will keep quiet e/time. He will def STEP UP when he feels it is required...I have for sure so much CONFIDENCE in him 😊

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Manasi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: bhach
You cannot imagine the pains in Jagya s mind...Jaya has put so much faith on Anandi that after leaving Gauri he came straight back to his Anandi..Jagya would have never dreamt that his Anandi will get engaged to someone...Bravo Jagya for putting so much faith on Anandi...but his faith got shattere..yes he was wrong...and now when Anadi also moved on by forgetting Jagya...then why we blame only Jagya...Both have found their own ways...but why we all himpighead and want his head chopped off...He went to Gauri realised his mistake and came back...Anandi is still with Shiv...she can also come back...is she does not want..it is ok...why she always then feel the Jagya in her every breath...It was Jagya who used to save Anandi from DS in the childhood..Jagya took care of Anandi

Are you serious abt this post???? I mean...REALLY????? Jagya's pain???? Jagya's faith??? HIS Anandi??

Anandi didn't fall in love with Shiv and dump Jagya...she is marrying against her wishes...she has her own reason, but love is not one of them.

Do you really think life should be a bed of roses for Jagya? One day he thought he loves Gauri not Ananadi so he can beret her, abuse her, humiliate her and run off to Gauri bcoz she is his sacha pyar. 7 years later he realises his 'mistake' of loving Gauri so he slaps her in public, humiliates her in front of all her friends (I am not complaining of it though😳) and dumps her to run back to Anandi???? And all this is OK????? Why? Just because he is a guy?

And talking of Jagya saving Anandi and taking care of him...koi ehsaan nahi kiya usne. I agree, it was very good of him to support Anandi in her childhood...but Anandi also did the same...she used to do all his homework, look after him, care for him, indulge all his nakhras right from childhood...hell she even took a bullet in her head to save him...need we really save anything more about this point?

Jagya had no faith in Anandi...he is just an MCP who can't bear the fact that his private property (read Anandi) is now some one else's. He never dreamt that Anandi will not be waiting with open arms for him...he just didn't factor in the possibility of Anandi not wanting him back.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#97

so topic is diverted .what is need of discussion i am fan of shiv shiv should protect anandi infront of family cm is misbehaving with anandi .i dont think topic is related to this .rofl

Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago

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ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#98

This thread Started with Ucivilized behaviour of Singh and turned to the "uncivilized" behaviour of Shiv😆😆 In first case i can only say tht its viewer know tht Jogia is repenting, but Singh dosnt know and after so much repenting drama in past adn even now start with lie, they hv no reason to believe him.😆their this Uncivilised behaviour seems very gentle if we compare to the GENTLE 😉behaviour of Jogia in past😆😆

As concern to the "uncivilised" behaviour of Shiv, he is dealing with family and not fighting in front. In family u cant always give tit for tat, sometime silence solve the problem rather thn voicing. CM, as it hs been shown, is for shiv even closer thn his own mother and he hugely respect her. So he cant just jump and start giving her lesson. It wd hv worsen not only situation but even Anandi position as it wd hv given impression tht Anandi effect distancing shiv from family. as in reality family blame wives for spoiling their sons. This is the fact and u cant ignore it. In family matter u cant always fight for rit and wrong. U hv to do compromises, tolerate, to hv patience, to handle very delicately and not just jump in every taunt, every fight and every kitchen politics between ur wife and ur mother. It dosnt mean tht u ignore ur wives interest, but it also dosnt mean tht just start fighting for everything. Thn why to live in joint family. In tht particular situation, it was handled very well by both Shiv and Anandi👏👏

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malika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#99

I cracked up at comments that were against Shiv.I rly wish cvs never come across this thread else they will die in chulu bhar paani...itna paisa barbaad kar diya collector sahab ke character and family building pe still ppl consider him uncivilised🤣

Anyways I wont defend him...he is TOOO freaking awesome to be defended against any stupid claims.

P.S. - Reported the posts that were against forum rules.

Edited by Malika - 13 years ago

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prerna4rishav

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Posted: 13 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Are you serious abt this post???? I mean...REALLY????? Jagya's pain???? Jagya's faith??? HIS Anandi??

Anandi didn't fall in love with Shiv and dump Jagya...she is marrying against her wishes...she has her own reason, but love is not one of them.

Do you really think life should be a bed of roses for Jagya? One day he thought he loves Gauri not Ananadi so he can beret her, abuse her, humiliate her and run off to Gauri bcoz she is his sacha pyar. 7 years later he realises his 'mistake' of loving Gauri so he slaps her in public, humiliates her in front of all her friends (I am not complaining of it though😳) and dumps her to run back to Anandi???? And all this is OK????? Why? Just because he is a guy?

And talking of Jagya saving Anandi and taking care of him...koi ehsaan nahi kiya usne. I agree, it was very good of him to support Anandi in her childhood...but Anandi also did the same...she used to do all his homework, look after him, care for him, indulge all his nakhras right from childhood...hell she even took a bullet in her head to save him...need we really save anything more about this point?

Jagya had no faith in Anandi...he is just an MCP who can't bear the fact that his private property (read Anandi) is now some one else's. He never dreamt that Anandi will not be waiting with open arms for him...he just didn't factor in the possibility of Anandi not wanting him back.

Manasi di 👏 Totally agree with you..

Add to that, the problems that Anandi faced from DS in childhood is all BECAUSE of Jagya only.. If he is the reason of her problems, not just as a friend or husband, just as a good human being, it's his duty to resolve those.. Jagya was the cause of all her pain.. How many times Jagya told Anandi to hide stuffs from home and later on DS blamed Anandi for misleading Jagya ?

Even I can't believe that someone is thinking about Jagya's faith ! 😆 Pain and all is fine, chalo I can consider that cuz for Jagya fanz yeah he is surely in pain.. But his faith is shattered ? 😆😆 Good joke ! 🥱

Edited by prerna4rishav - 13 years ago

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