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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Celet

I dont know about them not being happy... He was feeding her dinner just the previous night. Gave a big smile in the morning when she gave him the card instead of money. Recently he let her convince him to study instead of taking up a job.

They fight but they always make up. They seem like normal couples with work pressure, struggling to manage household. He wanted all this.. He dint want the village life. He wanted an educated wife. And he has declared a million times that he is not in love with Anandi.
The thing that bothered me most was that he mentioned Anandi after slapping her. No woman deserve to be compared to another woman all the time in a marriage. What if she kept comparing him to that senior doctor in SNG that he feels J of or if she had someone in the past, would he tolerate that for a second?? Why should she be an educated, city girl and then be compared to Anandi! He either accepts her or he stays with Anandi.
I really dont think that he had been wanting to escape, they havent shown it. Both have been quite happy for the last few days and thats why Gauri decided to surprise marry him in the first place!
I think just this time, fault is with writers instead of Jagya or gauri 😆
They dint get a big enough issue to get Jagat to Jetsar. TRPs have been raising and they thought more drama is needed!


@bold .Agree with both points.
Jagya misses his family sure - but he felt that Gauri truly did love him and understood him and he obviously cares for her a lot. Every time they fight - they always make up. Jagya certainly connects with Gauri on a plane where he just did not connect with Anandi.

Jagya had to feel very betrayed and hurt at finding out that Gauri has been smoothly lying to him and HAS BEEN DOING sO for the longest time !!!
She has benefited immensely from his family and is who she is - BCOZ of HIS family and she has abused and berated both umpteen times and very whole heartedly - HIM for not clearing his MS, and his family for supposedly - not caring about his career and his well being.
Excuse me - if Bhairon cud care so much for the welfare of a paraya girl - why wud he not have cared for the career of his own one and only son ?

Maybe J just snapped thinking - all this time - she's been telling me - she is self -made and has HER own money- and all the time it was my dad behind everything she is. And that same dad is upset with me and won't let me even make amends and she is making things even worse by going and berating them all behind my back ??

Even yesterday she lied and how smoothly - Jagya - Badepapa is in Calcutta ...
It can really shake your complete confidence in a person - when u find out you're being lied to on so many fronts. All of a sudden one thinks - I wonder how many more lies are there - maybe everything I believe to be true is a lie.

I think G deserved it. J doesn't have to be a saint to earn the right to slap her. G has sinned enough against him to deserve it from him. And anyways - verbal abuse is as bad as physical slaps. Gauri has been verbally assaulting him and his family for the longest time. J is a more physical guy - so he let loose. Not condoning violence here - just saying that all the hoo-haa about Gauri being slapped is a little OTT. She earned that slap in fornt of all her personal and public crowd. Good show ! 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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😕 How was Gauri mean and rude to Bade papa? And how on Earth was she ever bad to Jogia?😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Everyone in life gets what they deserve. All of the horrible things he put Anandi through for no fault of Anandi's is coming back to haunt Jagya. He pretty much ruined every single relationship he had for his selfish pleasure (of having gauri) and when he realized that all that he gave up was for this one woman who constantly lies, and discriminates him he couldn't bare it anymore and it was the last pull on an already breaking thread. He gave up the best relationships in his life for "his so called love" who didn't truly love him in return and finally he sees who truly is worthy of true love. It's called Karma and at some point it is bound to hit you back what you do to others...and that is what Jagya is going through exactly. I just hope Anandi doesn't accept this guy back...that would be her biggest mistake. Shiv is an amazing guy and someone she truly deserves and Shiv deserves her equally...this Jagya guy may change and realize his mistake but it is too late for that and he needs to realize he can't just ruin something like marriage and walk away from it with no regrets and then just come back he realized it. Yes, Anandi deserves an apology a true apology, but that's all she should take and move forward.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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gauri was always like this...jagat realized it this time...still why he broke the relations with her...so impulsive...
that dont make him innocent...

both suit each other...I want both to suffer
Jagat gave alarm that he will be at jaitsar soon...to see his hasta khelta pariwar...

the disturbing part is the way he slapped gauri in front of all her collegues ...that was uncalled for...she has her reputation in hospital...
Edited by sudha100 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

😕 How was Gauri mean and rude to Bade papa? And how on Earth was she ever bad to Jogia?😕

u seem to b from the mukhauta utaaro team. neways gauri hid the fact frm bade papa abt jagat being the same boy whom she was married to in childhood. bade papa found it out from bhariav, it must have shaken up his trust in his gauri. bade papa always thought that gauri was the best in everything and she can do no wrong to anyone. But when he found out that because of gauri anandi is in pain, he must have really lost respect for gauri. then again when he came to know all the tamasha gauri did at the badi haveli, he really felt disgusted that he once called her his daughter.

About gauri being bad to jagat, if u r a wife u should respect ur husband's family. gauri never did this. she also numerous ocassions lied, hid the truth frm jagat and made him a scapegoat to get property frm his family...hope this satisfies u..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AshBendre

u seem to b from the mukhauta utaaro team. neways gauri hid the fact frm bade papa abt jagat being the same boy whom she was married to in childhood. bade papa found it out from bhariav, it must have shaken up his trust in his gauri. bade papa always thought that gauri was the best in everything and she can do no wrong to anyone. But when he found out that because of gauri anandi is in pain, he must have really lost respect for gauri. then again when he came to know all the tamasha gauri did at the badi haveli, he really felt disgusted that he once called her his daughter.

About gauri being bad to jagat, if u r a wife u should respect ur husband's family. gauri never did this. she also numerous ocassions lied, hid the truth frm jagat and made him a scapegoat to get property frm his family...hope this satisfies u..



Not really. That doesn't constitute being rude and mean to him. In fact I hoped he would have understood Gauri'emotions towards that family considering what she went through because of them. If he has seen their positive then he should know there was not one time Gauri ever saw anything positive about the Singhs. Did he really expect her to be grateful that he is calling her ehsaan faramosh? She never asked for any of that and neither did she want it. Anywayz, Gauri never became the reason for Anandi's pain it was Jogia who left her before Gauri found out anything. You think if Gauri had left him there is 100% he would go back to Anandi? And after knowing her husband had cheated and fallen in love with another woman even if he did go back would she ever really have a sukhi sansaar or 100% trust in him ever again? I think not. So the reason of Anandi's pain is Jogia and Jogia alone. NOT Gauri.

As for respecting your husband's family, when that family throws you in childhood becomes the reason for pain and humiliation then once again humiliates you would you ever respect that family? Tell me honestly. Exactly what did they do for her that she would respect them (before she found out about the funding)

As for lying and hiding truths well im sorry but Jogia is equally into all that with her. He is not the best husband he has also been a jealous idiot and been very irrational not to mention wavering in his loyalties.
Edited by SRKLuvr - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



Not really. That doesn't constitute being rude and mean to him. In fact I hoped he would have understood Gauri'emotions towards that family considering what she went through because of them. If he has seen their positive then he should know there was not one time Gauri ever saw anything positive about the Singhs. Did he really expect her to be grateful that he is calling her ehsaan faramosh? She never asked for any of that and neither did she want it. Anywayz, Gauri never became the reason for Anandi's pain it was Jogia who left her before Gauri found out anything. You think if Gauri had left him there is 100% he would go back to Anandi? And after knowing her husband had cheated and fallen in love with another woman even if he did go back would she ever really have a sukhi sansaar or 100% trust in him ever again? I think not. So the reason of Anandi's pain is Jogia and Jogia alone. NOT Gauri.

As for respecting your husband's family, when that family throws you in childhood becomes the reason for pain and humiliation then once again humiliates you would you ever respect that family? Tell me honestly. Exactly what did they do for her that she would respect them (before she found out about the funding)

As for lying and hiding truths well im sorry but Jogia is equally into all that with her. He is not the best husband he has also been a jealous idiot and been very irrational not to mention wavering in his loyalties.

Wow...thats one word that comes to my mind...@bold: interesting how you said that Gauri never became the reason for Anandi's pain. if we forget that Gauri married Jagiya knowing he was still married to anandi (i know you will just argue that Jagiya said he didnt love Anandi and wud never go to back to her so thats why i said forget it) there were numerous occasion when Gauri actually caused Anandi pain...i dont think you have watched all the episodes or just decided to ignore them to prove your point. just an example: First Gauri told anandi to stop talking to Jagiya (remember the scene where she took the phone aside and said awful things to Anandi) and then she started planting the seed in Jagiya's mind that Anandi is ignoring him becuase she thinks she is above all blah blah (this was when Tausa left and Jagat wanted to know whats going on). All this caused Anandi pain because she was on the receiving end. She had to listen to Gauri bicker at her and then Jagiya shout at her... that was one example let me know if you want anymore. I can give you a whole list of them
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i don't understand if Gauri can grab Jagaya's collar when she feel he is wrong doing injustice with her so why he can't slap her ?.😕..is she such a big saint she can do so while he is so wrong he can't .?.from which angle Gauri is innocent and less than Jagaya but in many cases worst than him . atleast he never planned and plotted to keep her away from her parents ... when Jagaya will come to know how she has been fooling him around for so long .the thing is not this small that Bhairo financed Gauri's education if you guys saw yesterday's episode Bade papa told him about Gauri's jaitser visit too ( the flashbacks have shown viewers everything what Bade papa was telling him )so obviously the challenge between sumitra and Gauri was also a part of it so what he should do? be proud of her o thanks for fooling me around , lying to me , showering all your drama of love on me just to keep me away from my family...yes Jagaya lied to Gauri in MBBS days but when she married him she knew everything about him she was angry too at him left him when she came to know about his truth but after that Jagaya never tried to fool her with his drama of love just to win her .he was in love with her didn't want to lose her at all and when he was sitting in rain all night outside her house he wasn't doing that as emotional drama or fooling Gauri to separate her from anyone but he wanted to be with her ..he was dying to be with her and only her leaving everything else and everyone else but Gauri was fooling him around for so long just to win from his family .after JaGo marriage Jagaya followed Gauri...many of her desires blindly thinking she is the only person in the world who loves him truely more than his own family members , more than Anandi..she thinks best for him ,he has been finding peace and comfort in Gauri ( remember the episode night before Jagaya Anandi divorce to comfort himself and get strength to come over his pain he slept by hugging Gauri ...she is here for me ) ..Jagaya wanted to rebuilt his messed up life with Gauri's support .he thought everyone else left him but he has someone with him with whom he can live on ..she loves him , .the day he came to know that Gauri has been doing this as her drama to keep him with her away from his family , she has been fooling him , deceiving him , and most importantly the thing that made him this angry he has been for so long hitting his head to reunite with his family though he lost them by his own mistakes but for how long he has been crying to reunite with them he was desperate to be back to his family and nothing is hidden to Gauri she has seen all his breaking down moments so the day he will come to know instead of helping him correcting the wrong right helping him reunite with his family Gauri has been avenging from his family making things more worse... making it sure the family rejects him completely and she can have him with her only so he will obviously break down become so angry .Jagaya is whatever call him whatever we have seen many times he cannot tolerate any tom , dick or harry insulting his family members e.g when Gauri's mom was making fun of sumitra .he was very angry that Gauri has to kick out her own parents out of her house 🤢.i find jagaya's reaction after coming to know Gauri's truth quite natural and justified that the woman he considered his true love the woman he considered truely loves him what is she ?what is she doing ?Gauri broke his trust of course this will teach him a lesson too how does it feel when someone you love ..trust someone and that person break your trust how does it feel ? ...and this is best slap that destiny gave to Gauri the taste of her own deeds ..she was praying for another woman's divorce for her own good now taste the breakage of your marriage ...and this is also best slap for Gauri for challenging a mother she will never let a son come to his mother and later she was making fun of sumitra throughout see i won sasu maa ...and also the best slap to her on thinking her husband is her puppet ..she has bought him he will do only what she wants 🤢and no one's else slap will teach her anything this slap will definitely show her her real face
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bade papa should never have told the truth to jagat. If he didnot agree with gauri's action then he has already broken relations with her. He should never have interfered. It was in bad taste.
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Bade papa says to gauri that she destroyed Anandi's life. Well bade papa has done the same thing to Gauri.

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