Why is Jagat upset with Gauri?

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riks111

@riks111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Agree with all of you.

But both Jagya and Gauri are equally at fault for so many things, non of them have right to blame each other. None is fully clean. Both has glass door, by glass door I mean, there is an old hindi saying - "Apne ghar kaanch ke ho to dusro ke ghar pe patthar nahi phekne chahiye"

Same applies to both Jagya and Gauri, both are at fault for different things and hence glass door and none has right to throw stone on other's door

Jagya started everything, he cheated both Gauri and Anandi, hide about his marital status to Gauri for five years and had affair with her, and during this time he started finding Anandi uninteresting. Its okay if he fell in love with Gauri, because he had child-marriage with Anandi, but what right he had to misbehave with her and hurt her for five years. Whenever he come to home during vacation or talk to her over phone, he keep blaming, lecturing, insulting her for small small reasons and shout on her. He could have kept himself away from Anandi, but atleast should have been civil with her and talk to her respectfully, but as someone above said, he's spineless and escapist.

And on the other hand Gauri, agreed she was cheated for five years, but after knowing that Jagya is married, why she believed him when he said that even Anandi will be free from child-marriage and she will be happy, didn't she thought that the person who lied to her for five years can lie once again. Maybe she carried away. So can forgive her for this, but the way she was insensitive with Anandi and misbehaved with Jagya's family was very unreasonable.

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Rumjhum Laha

@Patrarekha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

agree with all of you Jagiya had no right to slap gauri..its he who convincer to marry him.
and i also agree Jagiya no matter what kind of person he is always expects honesty from other side...

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Gauri deserved a slap atleast. C'mon guys !!

Jagya has been a brute but he has already recieved umpteen slaps from a lot of thos he has been nasty to.

Gauri has been equally if not more nasty to a even larger number of people incl Jagy and BadePapa and to date she never got anything. Not just that - she even reverese yelled at and abused all her benefactors when they stopped helping. Gauri deserves this slap very very much. She has worked very hard for it. There was an original slap she shud have got when she first came to Haveli with her certificate. Then there were all those umpteen more that Anandi shud have dealt her. Bhairon shud have too - and said - this is the least return I can get for my bad debt. Sumitra shud have too - and said - Here this is my blessing - go be a mistress to my son coz u'll never be welcome in my house as a DIL.

Gauri deserved so so many slaps and never got even one. Lets not quibble about how Jagya is not spotless. J has had his share - now its Gauri's turn.

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anaamica

@anaamica

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: hooked
Gauri deserved a slap atleast. C'mon guys !!

She deserves not just one, but many slaps, but not from Jagya. He is not 'dudh ka dhula' that he can go slapping around Gauri. If G is at fault, he is at a bigger fault. Anandi has the first right to slap Gauri and then Sumi and then Dadisa and so on. Now I am imagining a scene where Gauri is standing quietly and all members of the Singh parivaar take a shot at her one after the other. Ha ha!

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anaamica

@anaamica

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

I think he was upset because of the way she treated his family, along with lying of course, but mainly the family thing. He would never tolerate anyone's speaking like that to his family, especially mother and Dadisa.

Really? When has he stood up for his family? When he and Gauri visited Jetsar, Gauri would scream at his family left, right and center and he wouldn't even utter a word against her. Gauri instigated him against his family for property and he never stopped her. Why Gauri, he himself has belittled and disrespected his own family during the property drama. Isn't that why Anandi slapped him?

I agree his reaction is not natural. Gauri has committed bigger sins than this one. If he had come to know that Gauri is responsible for their baby's death but put the blame on Anandi, then he may realize how evil Gauri is.

I have a feeling J will witness A's sagaai and go back to Gauri with his tail between his legs. He will be dying with jealousy and will try to stop this marriage and that is why we have a 4 month's gap in the marriage. My guess.

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

I thought the same . Gauri hid the truth about Bhairon financing her education and her going to Jaitsar to insult his family. By JG standards its not a big thing. J himself lied to G abt his marital status for 5 years and had a relationship with her . Thats far bigger.

And yes, he also lied to her that he had never loved Anandi, only Anandi had loved him which I thought was an outright lie at that time also. J had loved Anandi before he went to the city.

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

To me, it seems that Jagat has not really been happy with gauri's treatment of him in their so called marriage. He has already been feeling suffocated by having to ask her for money all the time, her interference in his job search, their problems in managing a household etc.

He really doesnt want to be in this marriage at all and have to struggle like this in career and marriage ... and he sees how good he would have had it in Jayetsar ... CEO of his own hospital, people in attendance 24/7 and a devoted wife like anandi.

So, he has been wanting out of this relationship with gauri for a long time.

Now with this bade papa truth, the content of this revelation may not matter, but he got an excuse to walk out on gauri... and he is exploiting this opportunity to the hilt.

He would not have had a reason to walk out gauri otherwise or to go back to his family.

Now he can go back to his family and say "I came to apologize" and see if there is an in-road there because of his apology.

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smittu

@smittu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

J is a useless guy (useless is an understatement) , am jus waiting for the day hes all alone , no G , no A --

...so now he will run to A and when he knows that A is getting engaged to Shiv, he will run back to G is it , what a character, hate him

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smittu

@smittu

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: tinoo
To me, it seems that Jagat has not really been happy with gauri's treatment of him in their so called marriage. He has already been feeling suffocated by having to ask her for money all the time, her interference in his job search, their problems in managing a household etc.

He really doesnt want to be in this marriage at all and have to struggle like this in career and marriage ... and he sees how good he would have had it in Jayetsar ... CEO of his own hospital, people in attendance 24/7 and a devoted wife like anandi.

So, he has been wanting out of this relationship with gauri for a long time.

Now with this bade papa truth, the content of this revelation may not matter, but he got an excuse to walk out on gauri... and he is exploiting this opportunity to the hilt.

He would not have had a reason to walk out gauri otherwise or to go back to his family.

Now he can go back to his family and say "I came to apologize" and see if there is an in-road there because of his apology.

agree, J was never happy with G and always missed his family and hes taking this excuse to go back to them ...but what abt A -- in the last few months, hes been extremely bad to her as if hes definitely fallen out of love with her , then how come suddenly he wants to run in to her arms ?? I find him so so disgusting

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Celet

@Celet

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

I dont know about them not being happy... He was feeding her dinner just the previous night. Gave a big smile in the morning when she gave him the card instead of money. Recently he let her convince him to stusy instead of taking up a job.

They fight but they always make up. They seem like normal couples with work pressure, struggling to manage household. He wanted all this.. He dint want the village life. He wanted an educated wife. And he has declared a million times that he is not in love with Anandi.

The thing that bothered me most was that he mentioned Anandi after slapping her. No woman deserve to be compared to another woman all the time in a marriage. What if she kept comparing him to that senior doctor in SNG that he feels J of or if she had someone in the past, would he tolerate that for a second?? Why should she be an educated, city girl and then be compared to Anandi! He either accepts her or he stays with Anandi.

I really dont think that he had been wanting to escape, they havent shown it. Both have been quite happy for the last few days and thats why Gauri decided to surprise marry him in the first place!

I think just this time, fault is with writers instead of Jagya or gauri 😆

They dint get a big enough issue to get Jagat to Jetsar. TRPs have been raising and they thought more drama is needed!