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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya is immature, escapist, spineless loser. Why now he realized that Gauri just want him and not his family. Why is he blaming Gauri? Why to expect from Gauri that she respect his family when he himself never respected his family, if he respected, then he wouldn't have selfishly left Anandi and cheated on Gauri and Anandi at a time.

Actually sometimes people want to escape from a situation, but they can't show it directly that they want to escape, but as soon as they get some reason, they will use it as an excuse, this is what Jagya is doing, using Gauri's truth as an excuse to get rid of her... Gauri has forgiven his lots of lies so he can too forgive it after a warning, he did right by getting angry on Gauri, but slapping her in front of all and leaving her is downright unreasonable
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

😕 How was Gauri mean and rude to Bade papa? And how on Earth was she ever bad to Jogia?😕



She told jagat that bade papa is lying and that's when bade papa entered int o the scene.

She is rude and mean to him umpteen number of times, whenever he didn't behave in manner she wants to. Example: telling him off when he went to a movie with his friends in their car(may be i should say her car)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As for respecting your husband's family, when that family throws you in childhood becomes the reason for pain and humiliation then once again humiliates you would you ever respect that family?

Then why get married into that family again. In India marriage is not only an union of two people but two families . Then how come this educated gawari conveniently forgot this fact???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaista33

I don't think it's so much about the lies as it's about abusing his family. I think that's what did him in this time. Although he surely shouldn't be throwing stones since he himself lives in a glass house. But look at it this way, no matter how much you yell and scream at your own parents, you can never let an outsider do that to them. She was vicious to his family. The lies he can forgive cause he is also an expert at them. But at the same time, he has always been a hypocrite with different standards for his women. He can be a complete moron but his women have to be sathi savitri type. Gauri just fell down a few notches. The image he had of her has been destroyed. She is not that innocent, sweet lamb he thought her to be. I love it!!! He is cursing himself for what he got himself into now. He sees clearly what she is and what he destroyed with his fam. With Gauri it was lust and stature... with Anandi it was real. But even Anandi he did not love. He just loved the way she treated him. Big difference. Jag can only love himself. That's the sanskar he got from the old DS.


dungbrains can only love himself... that about sums everything as to why he was angry at Gauri. He wanted to get out of this relationship really bad.

He thought, he would have an educated wife, a fancy social life, His fathers money and live like a prince but everything blowed on his face ... so not perfect solution...abandon Gauri...

and run back to Anandi whom he thinks is waiting for him in the kitchen crying...

TOO BAD slime ball , she is getting married to SHiv. :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

Bade papa says to gauri that she destroyed Anandi's life. Well bade papa has done the same thing to Gauri.



She brought it onto herself. Bade papa spoke nothing but the truth she did not plot and plan to do any bad to her. Remember the snake even said that bade papa is lying😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke



She brought it onto herself. Bade papa spoke nothing but the truth she did not plot and plan to do any bad to her. Remember the snake even said that bade papa is lying😡

@elasingh..i didnt know u were gauri supporter..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

As for respecting your husband's family, when that family throws you in childhood becomes the reason for pain and humiliation then once again humiliates you would you ever respect that family?

Then why get married into that family again. In India marriage is not only an union of two people but two families . Then how come this educated gawari conveniently forgot this fact???



I believe she had deluded herself into believing they would have accepted her and tried to make amends with them but the moment she realised they were at war with her still she turned into a revenge seeking frenzy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke



She told jagat that bade papa is lying and that's when bade papa entered int o the scene.

She is rude and mean to him umpteen number of times, whenever he didn't behave in manner she wants to. Example: telling him off when he went to a movie with his friends in their car(may be i should say her car)



Yeh but she said it like she thought that he had been bharkaoed into lying. Waise she has never been rude to him. As for being rude to Jogia I believe if someone is being insensitive it is correct to show them the mirror. Jogia is no saint.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

Bade papa should never have told the truth to jagat. If he didnot agree with gauri's action then he has already broken relations with her. He should never have interfered. It was in bad taste.

Elasingh,
Initially I too agreed with you -- I just felt that there was no need for bade papa to have any discussion with jagat -- why unnecessarily create a rift between two people, particularly when you have nothing to do with both of them anymore. I too felt it was in bad taste.
But a little while later, I thought about it, and decided that bade papa did the right thing ... because you see, he was shocked that even after breaking relationship with gauri, she was pretending that everything is still okay with them, and that they are close personal friends and that he will stay with them, and that he has called her to tell her that he has gone to Kolkata . He may have been worried that Gauri will use his name somewhere ... or if Jagat is under the impression that gauri and bade papa are still close ... then at some point of time, Jagat may convey that to Bhairon ... and Bhairon may have a bad impression of bade papa because of this.
When bade papa initially cut off the relationship, he said that their values and moral standards differed and he didnt want to be in touch with gauri. If gauri goes around giving the impression that they are still together, there will be implications for bade papa later on.
So he wanted to be sure that Jagat understood very clearly that there is no relationship between them anymore... so in the future, if Jagat and bhairon should talk about bade papa... then bhairon will not get the wrong impression about bade papa's moral standards... or think that bade papa is playing a double game by acting angry about gauri, but still being in touch with her.
So he spilled the beans to protect his own reputation and to ensure that everyone has clarity that there is nothing between J and G anymore.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



I believe she had deluded herself into believing they would have accepted her and tried to make amends with them but the moment she realised they were at war with her still she turned into a revenge seeking frenzy.



How could she delude???? She married their son without informing them and then all of a sudden why is to so necessary for her to get their acceptance and love???. What did she expect?? a red carpet welcome to step on another girl's life???.

In fact even a normal family will not be able to digest if their son secretly marries and get the bride home. Havoc breaks loose, let alone a woman who is serving the family while her husband is away for studies is in picture. I find it funny that she imaging it was war for not letting gawari jump up and down on Anandi's life. Whatever their son did, they never dragged him into the house and threw gawari out. They let him do whatever he wants not don't they have a right to do what they think is right???

If she wants respect, she better earn it with her actions rather than plan and plot. That's what sumi said as well. You can't push someone to accept you or love you or respect you. It needs to be earned. Earning needs patience and that's what short tempered , hyper filled gawari lacks

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