I have had enough! - Page 13

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Anita - it is a matter of expectations...She expected him to talk to his family about their wedding. She didn't expect them to show up the next day and see her in a kechofied state...How do you prepare for that. She wasn't smiley but, she was responsive to them...and their questions going so far as to control Daadisa at one point by stopping her from asking why daddu speaks with plants. If anyone gave odd vibes in the whole meet-the-girl event it was CM. Anandi am sure will warm up to them and be herself before we know it... more than anything I think she was baklofied and also she is numb still, which is understandable given her mom's recent death (something Shekhar's are aware of).

As for my option of Truth being best policy. Its upto Shiv to tell Anandi that he wants her to "pretend" its love marriage in front of his family if that's what he wants...otherwise why should she pretend?😕 She is who she is...if Shiv wants to mislead his family then he better tell her his game plan

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

She was irritated by phone ringing ...I don't think she cared who it was. Her anger was not on SHiV...its anger at the situation. She feels she has no control over her own life. Its all being decided by others. She wants to honour her mom's last wish, but is in distress and trauma from her divorce and her mom's death, she barely ate all day, is scared her new rishta will also fail, and post marriage she may lose right to work for improvement of Jaitsar which has become her very being. That's a LOT to put on her fragile 25 yr old shoulders.

What I don't get is...if Shiv can comprehend this why can't his so called fans? 😕 Also, Shiv gets what he's signing up for and is willing to jhelo Anandi's rukhapaan, so who are we to complain? Also, she hasn't exactly been rude...just quiet and zombish - understandable given that her mom died less than a month ago.

Why people ask her to FAKE IT - I don't get. It would be one thing if she was throwing tantrums infront of Shiv's family or even at Shiv. She isn't doing that. She is venting her helplessness in the privacy of her own room.

Once she has vented, she recalls her mother's wish, puts on the necklace with reverence. She returns Shiv's call and hears him out without any bhaoo.

Originally posted by: piya_anshian

lol..good...ise kehte hain ''behti ganga me haath dhona '' 😆

Originally posted by: elasingh

You are wrong. Where I stay there is no Ganga only Yamuna. Abb batao main haath kaise dhulu?😉

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

Oh Gosh!! This woman needs some s*x !!! 😆 Everrryyythhhinnggg will set right!😆

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Anita - I understand your perspective. I just don't see how she was rude to Shiv's family in anyway? She wasn't smiley...yes. But, rude? If she was rude then how come nobody perceived that? Not DS? Nor Shiv's family? She was reserved, but that is not unusual when future in-laws visit a girl is it? She was also responsive to Shiv on the phone. So, I just don't see the rudeness. That is where I am failing to grasp the issue here...

Her private pain is just that private...she is grappling with it while moving forward. So far, there is only one instance when she has been hostile to Shiv and that's when she first learnt he accepted the rishta...she was a tad hostile at the groundbreaking but not after that. She thanked him for skype, she made him pakoras, she didn't ignore him at her mother's funeral, she spoke to him on the phone when he called to check on her, she requested him to marry her with both hands folded, and again she was responsive and respectful on the phone with him.

Again is she dancing with happiness - No. But, rude? I don't get. She is in trauma but, trying to step forward and do what needs doing.

Also, I don't see the point in misleading his family... sach will come out sooner or later. Its better they know what exactly Shiv is doing and why. Also, Anandi's wajah for accepting this rishta. If they object they object... Frankly they should be concerned and proceed with caution. Which is y i ve no issue with CM being protective...so long as she is doing it with the right not wrong intentions. Looking out for Shiv's happiness.