Lets not Absolve Child Marriage

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Nisha

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Hi dear, one more thing your ideas resemble more like dating not Marriage! For me only way out is that jagiya actually honour his relationship and make it work and never let it happen to his children. After all with years marriage turn into a friendship. it is marriage the strong bond that is the trouble. I don't think he can sweetly walk out of it. See how did the society react to second marriage and divorce.

I am sorry but I disagree, its not necessary to stay married and make each other's life awful. I have seen sometimes divorce is better than pretending to be okay in Marriage. Because it takes away any happiness that could be possible outside of the bond. I didn't say it would have been easy, but if J respectfully asked for Divorce, Anandi won't have been hurt the way she is now. Of course it would have been painful but at least she wouldn't have been degraded, insulted, screamed at etc! Of course, log thode din baate karte but we can live life according to what people might think. I have been through enough in life to know that the scars left by loved one with awful words stay longer than good times spent together. It was in our older generation where women were taught to live through all abuse and difficulties in marriage just to protect the relation, but those women stayed depressed, unhappy...and that pain is not something I want anyone to go through.

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

I am sorry but I disagree, its not necessary to stay married and make each other's life awful. I have seen sometimes divorce is better than pretending to be okay in Marriage. Because it takes away any happiness that could be possible outside of the bond. I didn't say it would have been easy, but if J respectfully asked for Divorce, Anandi won't have been hurt the way she is now. Of course it would have been painful but at least she wouldn't have been degraded, insulted, screamed at etc! Of course, log thode din baate karte but we can live life according to what people might think. I have been through enough in life to know that the scars left by loved one with awful words stay longer than good times spent together. It was in our older generation where women were taught to live through all abuse and difficulties in marriage just to protect the relation, but those women stayed depressed, unhappy...and that pain is not something I want anyone to go through.

i agree..there is no point staying married just for the sake of being married if u are unhappy and making the other person unhappy as well..and frankly speaking, for me its not worth living in a loveless marriage at the cost of ur self-esteem..

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Child marriage or any other reason for this divorce cannot be justified in any way. The most culprit people are still enjoyong , running the family in a n autocratic way. If Jand A were marrried as kids and Anandi has to suffer from the deeds of Dadisa or Ds never allowed Anandi to explore...who is at fault..Anadi, Jgya or Ds ...Ds allowed Anandi once Jagya left her considering her as incompatable..All faulty goes to DS...She ruined the life of Anandi in the childhood...

Again today..she did not learn any lesson..she is still hooking shiv and Anandi..we all sensed her hurry and childish behavoiur..she was doing the same thing ..as a child Anandi does not know the meaning of marriage and love and today again Ds without her consent forced a relationship between the two..which may be only built on emotions but Anandi is never prepared for this...

Poor Anandi a victim of Ds...in childhood and even today ..but this cunning lady just changed the route...and you know ..WHY..

because once Anandi is off the haveli...doors for the laddesar will be opened and sumi etc all are only brainless creatures who will bow to the dicataes of DS..

Long live ...DS

Let anandi and Shiv enjoy...do not let anadi know that her mom is breathing last..I salute you Ds for your way of thinking...

When Bade masi was in haveli ..she can die ..so do not tell her Jand G relation..

But When anaNdi s mom is on death bed...be brave to tell her that she is now divorced...no worries even if she dies from this shock of divorce..My another salute to Ds for her double standards..

Poor Ds ..let Anandi leave alone and let her choose her life partener at her will..please do not force and play cunning game with a deliacate and hurted soul...

Blame bal vivah or the child marriage but not the people..

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