Did Jagiya really mean those wishes??

If u see through his eyes then indeed he seemed apologetic and broken.When he say to anandi "I wish u find all the happiness I wasn't able to give you" u can see that genuineness in his eyes.As if he meant every word he spoke.But I really wonder if he really meant those words??Specially if his own personal and/or professional life begins to suffer will he still want those wishes to fulfill for anandi??I really dont think so.Somehow in his passive mind Jagiya still thinks that for anandi success and happiness can only mean being the sarpanch of jetsar or winning the applause of the singhs or the janta of jetsar.He,if not in his active thought process,then at least passively has made a constant image of anandi which he hasnt yet changed.So what will happen if she 'really" gets that happiness?Will he be able to digest it?Will he be able to see her with a guy as good as Shiv?

I wonder guys if all this suffering for anandi was only due to Bal vivah!If it would have been so then I would have wished that Jagiya and gauri always live happily ever after just like i wish for ansh.But NO!Anandi's suffering along with child marriage was also due to a guy who was so self-obcessed to even feel the slightest of her pain.Her pain was bcoz of a life partner who accussed of her worthlessness and underestimated her in every way.So i really dont think that the GaGa couple suffering is anywhere close to an end.The test has just begin and there are slim chances of two such selfish ppl being able to cope up with such testing times.So will Jagiya change if anandi finds happiness for herself while his life again proves him a big failure??

Well Anandi is no way responsible for anything that happened in his life! He knows that! She never did anything to harm him😊 or hurt him, so he doesn't have much a reason to have an ill wish against her. So I do thing it must be genuine good will

I think he said those things merely as a formality ... she came running to him seeking some closure... and he knew that ... so he said the polite thing... it was pointless to have been rude to her at that point.

thats nothing new..he said this type of thing before too...when she was kidnapped...he tells something like that...when she met with accident...then also he said something like that...but in the next momnet he was back to abuse her...

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think he said those things merely as a formality ... she came running to him seeking some closure... and he knew that ... so he said the polite thing... it was pointless to have been rude to her at that point.

Inside he really resents her ... and infact, yesterday he said that both have suffered owing to child marriage but HIS suffering was more than hers ... he resents the fact that she is with his parents... while he sees some parts of his story as requiring valid punishment ... he sees other parts of his story as being needlessly punished because of anandi.

I dont think he meant any of those things on an in-depth level... it was just a bunch of superfluous statements meant to soothe her in some way because he sees that she still needs closure...

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I too think the same...all of them might seemed true but he was just saying so for formality...n somehow I am sure he will prove as right at some point in future.

Originally posted by: khusi_*

thats nothing new..he said this type of thing before too...when she was kidnapped...he tells something like that...when she met with accident...then also he said something like that...but in the next momnet he was back to abuse her...

he is so expert in flipflops...ki those words never make any sense to me...

i was like..haan haan hogaya...ab baat khatam kar aur scenes v😆

Yupp u r rite khushi...actually the problem is that after the leap i mean after JA growing older I watched BV only in its high points.So sort of I know all the things that have occured but used to skip on the convos and crying scenes.At one point they really seemed too stretched.May be thats why I know that anandi got kidnapped and Jagiya saved her but I exactly dont remember what he said afterwards.And I can say that if he has already said this bakwas earlier too...then to no point of asking...he has proved that he is a true shameless!😆😆

Originally posted by: khusi_*

thats nothing new..he said this type of thing before too...when she was kidnapped...he tells something like that...when she met with accident...then also he said something like that...but in the next momnet he was back to abuse her...

he is so expert in flipflops...ki those words never make any sense to me...

i was like..haan haan hogaya...ab baat khatam kar aur scenes v😆

ohho malika yaar maat dilao...he is very much expert in flipflops..he even once told gauri after the kidnapping rescue drama...that "i had to rescue her..its her right and my duty"...

Jagya - was genuine in the moment. He didn't have to say it for formalities' sake...Anandi had said what she wanted to and was leaving. He stopped her with a touch to her shoulder than folded both of his hands around hers. None of that touching was needed even in the name of "formality". He just needed that physical connection himself. Because despite his dramatic "I hate Anandi, blah blah blah" rant, I don't think he really hates her. He can't...how can one hate love, care, and selflessness? He knows full well who is the bigger person btwn them. He could never do what Anandi did for him and he finally genuinely acknowledged his ingratitude for once.