BV 11th July 2012 Written Update - COMPLETE - Page 3

Originally posted by: tinoo

Yes very much so... she said today that the sum total of all the good memories she had with him far outweighs all the grief he gave to her as an adult ... so she still has a lot of goodwill and feelings for him... dont know about love per se, but if the sum total of all good memories can erase every bad thing he has done to her ... then it must be a strong feeling.

Originally posted by: timepass

thanks for your hardwork in updating.

So Anandi again saved Jagya...this time from Jail time...I wonder if Gauri would do the same...

thanks so much for the WU.. :)

@kabakaba4 -- yes exactly, jalebis, dolls, homework etc. do not compare to adult wounds of abuse and illtreatment ... but she seems to derive some comfort from those old memories. so what can we do?

Originally posted by: tinoo

Yes very much so... she said today that the sum total of all the good memories she had with him far outweighs all the grief he gave to her as an adult ... so she still has a lot of goodwill and feelings for him... dont know about love per se, but if the sum total of all good memories can erase every bad thing he has done to her ... then it must be a strong feeling.

@Bold No Tinoo what she said was that if she weighs both the good and bad memories, they would weigh the same. but inspite of everything turning so bitter, everytime she thinks of the good times spent, its strange but it brings a smile on her face as she still considers them sweet.

The way I look at it, she had never in her dreams expected all this to happen. But to her dismay she was treated badly by the husband and ultimately abandoned. they did share a very sweet bond as kids and a small time as adults. Its not so easy to forget all those memories. she knows that this relationship is going to end anyway (last straw of divorce) and being a positive person she might be wanting to end it on a good note rahter than keeping on harboring ill feelings towards him. Keeping bad feelings in her heart will only hamper her mind set and progress rather than doing any damage to him. So its best they end this on a good note and not see each other again.

I guess finally its the end of J-A if they don drag it further. I left watching this show some one year back when unable to handle Gauri maa's shouting(though i was following the updated on IF)And now after almost more than 1 year this divorce track is coming.
Hope to get some good updates :)

Thanks for the update. Felt sad for Sumi who lamented for giving birth to J instead of A. What a deep wound she must be having because of J. I don't want any mother to go through with this hurt.