Difference btwn Guari & Shiv and Jugat & Anandi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shiv and Guari are in similar shoes. The people they want to marry are finally going to be free of their respective spouses. Yet - there reactions vary much:

- Gauri wants to have a party and seemingly doesn't sense Jug's pain at all

- Shiv, on the other hand, feels Anandi's pain and has to stop himself from consoling her.

-Gauri is too "busy" to answer Jug's phone nevermind going to Jaipur with him though she knows how alone he will feel.

- Shiv because of actual work prakats himself in Jaipur not even knowing Anandi will be there.

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- Jogia tries to drink away his hurt and takes out his pent up emotions on perfect strangers

- Anandi cries through her hurt and tries to keep her emotions in check in front of others (be it Shiv or her family)

- Jogia remembers the bad times of their marriage

- Anandi recalls the good times in their childhood

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The differing reactions to the same event starkly reflect the genuineness & inner strength of Shiv and Anandi as individuals vis a vis the falsities and weaknesses of Guari and her Jagat.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi is laying to rest a childhood friendship and mourning the lost of her best pal 😭 Inspite of everything that has happened Anandi is not bitter about things. She prefers remembering the happy times and this is what is holding her back. 😭

Jagya is severing a relationship he thinks is not worth his while. He only remembers the bad times and hence has moved on...atleast he think he has.

Shiv is on the threshold of his realization of his love for Anandi. He is yet to realize the depth of his feelings for her. He has just taken the first step.

Gouri is hell bent on celebrating the divorce and showing off her legal (maybe 😆) marital status to the world. She does not care and never will about Jagya's feelings. She does not have the guts to face Anandi and would rather hide in Mumbai and plan another wedding .

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Shiv loves Anandi for what she is...he recognizes the gem and will treasure it. 😃

Jagya was given a precious gem and lost it in pursuit of fool's gold 🤢

Gauri went looking for the proverbial pot of gold at the end of the rainbow when she entered into a relationship with Jagya. It is an illusion, a mirage and will fall apart in the end.

Anandi has found a gem in Shiv but it will take her time because she is too lost in her grief. But she will recognize the value because of the person she is.

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Gauri and Jagya's house of cards
is built on shifting sands
As time passes by, the relationship will lose its shine
It will not stand the test of time
There are dangerous storms waiting in the wings
Several hidden truths with a capacity to sting
The storms will come and tear them apart
This was a relationship that was doomed from the start.

Shiv and Anandi's relationship
will be built on mutual trust and understanding
Truth, generosity and openness will ensure
that it is built on firm solid ground.
It will take a while because the foundation needs to be strong
It will be built to last, no matter what storms come along
They will stand firm and emerge victorious always
Only because they will face every storm together.




Edited by liv2laugh - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent post Anjana👏, liv2laugh😃 loved it and you were spot on regarding the basic characters of both the couples. Its how differently people react undersimilar circumstances that seperate the gold from the crass. And Anandi and Shiv s characters are so good that their goodness shines through unlike the other two for whom its all about me me me and only me 😕
Edited by nikhilageet - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another thing about Shiv is, he hasn't felt bad or has not even reflected upon the rejection. He is more worried and trying to comfort and console her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Everyone has adopted a path to celebrate and mourn this divorce according to what they are getting from this divorce...

Should Anandi celebrate this..
Should Jagya celebrate this..
NO Way...they love to each other from their inner core of hearts...
Shiv and Gauri...let them have to view from their angle ..let the picture be cleared...they both don t know what s happening in hearts of j and a...
Edited by bhach - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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grt post and comparison anjana and liv2laugh beautifull

i too really loved the scne where jug says he hates anandi and shiv says he loves her it was so symbolic and meaningful!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhach

Everyone has adopted a path to celebrate and mourn this divorce according to what they are getting from this divorce...

Should Anandi celebrate this..
Should Jagya celebrate this..
NO Way...they love to each other from their inner core of hearts...
Shiv and Gauri...let them have to view from their angle ..let the picture be cleared...they both don t knop what s happening in hearts of j and a...

@blue: I don't think Jagya loves Anandi.. He is only sad that after the divorce his ties with the family will be completely severed.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dixie123

Another thing about Shiv is, he hasn't felt bad or has not even reflected upon the rejection. He is more worried and trying to comfort and console her.

I am not concerned about his reaction to her rejection per se, ...
But I really learned something in terms of good behaviour and loved the way that he approached dadisa at the neher inauguration ...and touched her feet, and said "aap yeh mithai khaayengi toh mera aur mithai dono ka maan badh jaayega"... and never once made her feel guilty and never once reproached her "aap ko yeh anandi se pehle pooch kar aana chahiye tha" or something...
I really thought that was a class act.
I dont think that I would have been angry with dadisa or have yelled at her given her age and overall health status ... but I do think I would have referenced the subject and sternly demanded an explanation from her ... and he didnt even do that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed..Jagya still feels Anandi as as hinderance beteween Jagya and family...
But so far he does not know the real sorey or the truth..Sumitra s challenge..Bade pa s conversation..I am sure once that revealed to Jagya ...no body on this earth can keep a relation with such a liar duplicate wife..
Jagya will be back to family ..to Anandi. to feel sorry..no matter where my Anandi is...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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with time people change love too change but not to disgrace...so in all pighead never loved anandi... as friend he always rushes to her for healing...and anandi always stood beside him because she loves him trulyyy...

and differences...kusdos to you anjeee...extrem lovely posttt...simply lovely post...i am waiting for soem members to comment...and then i want to ask them some question...which is naging me badly...lets seee...if i get the reply or not...because last time i dint get a single reply...so atm i am reserving my comments for them

and about your post i am toatlly in agree with you
shiv has deep understanding ,respect and trust for anandi ...the very base which is required for any realtionship..which was severly lackig in the relation of JAAN couple...and that ultimately lead to sepration...
and yest. episode ufff...i just want to see when shiv will finally break her down and she will cry so badly so badly kee shiv will force himself to take hold if her falling down and make her cry on his arms holding her and supporting her and giving her stregth to recover...yeh after that tou shiv kee watt lagege kuch dinou tak...but still...
love you swettuu for such a insight ... muuaahhh..kudos..

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