irrational behaviour from Queen Anandi!!!!!

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Please do me a favour read this thread through... you don't have to agree or disagree... there are varying perspective in it that may confirm your position or change it:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/balika-vadhu/3072550/what-are-anandis-problems-is-she-crazy

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maneer_forever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

And till now hasnt she been professing other girls in the village to get married again???

Funny!!

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maneer_forever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Please do me a favour read this thread through... you don't have to agree or disagree... there are varying perspective in it that may confirm your position or change it:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/balika-vadhu/3072550/what-are-anandis-problems-is-she-crazy

I have already agreed and liked the post...

My thoughts the same...

and I Love Anandi and Shiv And Dadisa and Bhaironsa and entire BV :))

It was just a thought which crossed my mind.. so penned it..

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Ela Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

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If Jagia and Gauri would have behaved like this with dadi sa then they have received hundreds of gallees.

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: maneer_forever

I have already agreed and liked the post...

My thoughts the same...

and I Love Anandi and Shiv And Dadisa and Bhaironsa and entire BV :))

It was just a thought which crossed my mind.. so penned it..

And my genuine non-sarcastic answer is that what appears to be irrational behaviour is emotional reaction stemming from Anandi's hurt, insecurities, and fears. Even Shiv today understood that. She is not being disrespectful.. she isn't ready to move on and didn't like what appeared to be the plot to marry her off to Shiv... She has already been married off once and it didn't exactly turnout well. What's to say it won't happen again? Its a legitimate fear coming from a woman who has experienced domestic denigration, bal vivah and finally total rejection from the husband she worshiped.

Shiv is not Jogia, but Anandi needs time to process that and shiv needs to establish that to her. So, cut her some slack because she is not being a Queen... she feels more like the bottom of a shoe.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Please do me a favour read this thread through... you don't have to agree or disagree... there are varying perspective in it that may confirm your position or change it:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/balika-vadhu/3072550/what-are-anandis-problems-is-she-crazy

I second Anajana's analysis, I want to point out that one sided love creates such situation. She is not in love with Shiv and is trying her best not to give him any wrong understanding😊, thats why she is so rude. I posted this in Khusi's thread I post it again:

I think at this time one should back off and give other person some time to think 😊. By back off, I don't mean run away, but give them space. Let them reconsider. The best we can do is be courteous and good to them and not get easily offended by their distant behaviour. That behaviour is very natural when some one wants to avoid love. 😆

But here is the point, if love wants to develop, it will develop on its own. If someone is meant to be together they do. If the other person comes back, they normally do after realizing their value.

Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: elasingh
If Jagia and Gauri would have behaved like this with dadi sa then they have received hundreds of gallees.

And what exactly are many viewers such as yourself giving Anandi now? tallees? Maybe my eye sight is failing me, but I see a lot of "gallees"

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago

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Shaista Nasar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: maneer_forever
Why is Anandi acting like she is some Queen?? Colors has something about Women and saying no to second marriage!!

In NBTMKK also Megha keep denying Mohans advances and here Anandi is doing the same.. She should give Shiv the benefit of doubt.. Why go and burst at him.. Fisrt find out if he is at fault or not then scream..

Very irrational behaviour from otherwise rational girl..

How rational would you be with divorce papers in one hand and a proposal you knew nothing about in the other. Don't forget Anandi is HUMAN. Not a robot. How is she supposed to be normal after getting the divorce papers, getting informed about rishta from an outside wali, and then to know that the feelings she is fighting for Shiv are bring realized in their own way. How much is she supposed to take??? Man, lets give her some space. How can she be cool, collected and objective when she feels like crap when it comes to her self-esteem?

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anshul

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

she didin't get time to think n understand shiv ,she was forced o shiv by DS so she is not sure of such relation ,may be insecure that same thing repeats then she will die ,so her fear r very normal

second marriage is biggest risk of a girl more than a man ,she is not irrational ,first time she got someone on whom she could shout r feelings grudge she is fine ,if shiv is compatible he will wait for her

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Ela Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

I see a lot of praise and ppl finding justifications for the wrong actions of Anandi. If she commits a mistake she is called human , when the other two make mistakes they are called mata, pita, jughead ,pighead,loser,slimebag,.I dont remember more but i m sure there are.

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