irrational behaviour from Queen Anandi!!!!!

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Shaista Nasar

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: shalluuu

thats we want to show...put urself in other shoes...remember the situatation gauri faced...today dadisa want anandi to marry shiv and before that jagat was mad to marry gauri...he put gauri in all emotions trauma...here anandi is not only human..each and every human is helpless in this world...

Gauri chose her own flea infested bed. Hope she enjoys it. Therefore, she chose her own horror, pain, trauma by CHOOSING to be with a married man. Simple. She chose her own loser. Anandi did not get that choice. Jagya chose his own fate when he went about doing things in a criminal manner. He is morally bankrupt (as well as financially 🤣). Here again people are making decisions for her without consulting her. She is a sarpanch, she is a leader, she is their daughter, and they trust her. That's why she asked for DS' vachan. At the end, she will be let down when she founds out the vachan is worth nothing as DS will do as she pleases. I am siding with the fam but I am understanding Anandi's confusion and pain- something not many can do because they have not gone through betrayal like her. Fam needs to back off and let her heal before they bring up marriage. I think she did right by firmly telling fam that she is just not ready yet so not to force her into marriage. And would you rather have a faithful man than money? Anandi would have walked away from all of it if that's what the Singh's wanted... unlike many.

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woman11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

I put myself in Anandis shoes and god what a wonderful life I lead. I live in comfort and never have to worry about rozi roti. Hence I sit on my large bed wearing lovely clothes and fine jwellery and bahaoing tears as i have all the time in the world to brood. When you have money even pain becoms a luxury.

I am shocked at the this comment. Can't believe somebody could actually think so outrageously that Anandi is leading a wonderful life because she is supported by the Singhs !!No wonder our society rarely sympathizes with an abandoned woman and she is often thrown into the streets like a garbage.
Maybe for people like you, a supportive in-laws family is something unthinkable of and often an unnecessary favor done to an "undeserving" abandoned woman! Why should they be offered food to eat or clothes to cover their bodies? Why should one care about their trauma or the abuse they had to go through? They are discarded goods after all!! The Singh family should have lynched Anandi naked or kicked her out into the streets in penury, that's what she rightfully deserved, isn't it?!!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Arey first everyone used to say that colors show anandi as very very perfect person like an angel who has not faults..

Now they showed her anger , her traits n everyone is complainign again..

Arey i underatnd everyone is eager to get anandi married to shiv..

but let anandi also be a spoiled little kid for once.. let her also show some stubbornes, let her crib n sulk for something..arey thoda toh bachapan, zid dikhaane do uske bado ke saamne..anandi ko kabhi aisa mauka nahi mila hai life mai..

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Shaista Nasar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: elasingh
I put myself in jagat.s shoes and i know i will be very mad if my parents supported someone else against me and threw me out of their lives.My relations with them will never be same .
again. I put myself in Gauris shoes and i know i would

I be very hurt if i m continuousely called a marriage breker, mistress and what not. How can i ever break a relationship if it is strong. If those 2 couldnot handle their relations ,what can i do?

I put myself in Anandis shoes and god what a wonderful life I lead. I live in comfort and never have to worry about rozi roti. Hence I sit on my large bed wearing lovely clothes and fine jwellery and bahaoing tears as i have all the time in the world to brood. When you have money even pain becoms a luxury.

I am glad most people are more loving and understanding. I would hate it if a murder was committed and the parents sided with the criminal. Goes to show love and loyalty are NOT bound by blood only. Glad Anandi is a sarpanch, has opened her own school, and has a family that loves her because of her values. Now that is what I call LOVE. I hope my dad's kicks my hinnie out if I do anything like what Jagya or Gauri did. Thank god for morals 😊

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Ela Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: AshBendre
Arey first everyone used to say that colors show anandi as very very perfect person like an angel who has not faults..

Now they showed her anger , her traits n everyone is complainign again..

Arey i underatnd everyone is eager to get anandi married to shiv..

but let anandi also be a spoiled little kid for once.. let her also show some stubbornes, let her crib n sulk for something..arey thoda toh bachapan, zid dikhaane do uske bado ke saamne..anandi ko kabhi aisa mauka nahi mila hai life mai..

You got me all wrong. I will clarify later.

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Ela Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: AshBendre
Arey first everyone used to say that colors show anandi as very very perfect person like an angel who has not faults..

Now they showed her anger , her traits n everyone is complainign again..

Arey i underatnd everyone is eager to get anandi married to shiv..

but let anandi also be a spoiled little kid for once.. let her also show some stubbornes, let her crib n sulk for something..arey thoda toh bachapan, zid dikhaane do uske bado ke saamne..anandi ko kabhi aisa mauka nahi mila hai life mai..

Yahi to problem hai. Agar wo galat behave kar rahi hai to uske fans maane na ki wo galat hai. Tab koi problem hi nahi hai. Lekin uski galati ke liye doosro lo resposible mana jaye to phir to sab Jagia jaise ho gaye naa.

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Nikhila

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: elasingh
I put myself in jagat.s shoes and i know i will be very mad if my parents supported someone else against me and threw me out of their lives.My relations with them will never be same .
again. I put myself in Gauris shoes and i know i would

Ibe very hurt if i m continuousely called a marriage breker, mistress and what not. How can i ever break a relationship if it is strong. If those 2 couldnot handle their relations ,what can i do?

I put myself in Anandis shoes and god what a wonderful life I lead. I live in comfort and never have to worry about rozi roti. Hence I sit on my large bed wearing lovely clothes and fine jwellery and bahaoing tears as i have all the time in the world to brood. When you have money even pain becoms a luxury.

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Wow I am quite speechless after reading your views on each character. The only reason I can think for your way of thinking is that you are probably still very young and don't have a clue as to how life is really 😲 As a mother of two boys myself believe you me if either of my sons when they grow up behaved in this fashion and ruined a girl s life and also did not give a damn for his family s feelings and just used us as an ATM I would cut off all ties with them . There is no excuse for moral corruption and greed and pure selfishness .
As for gauri you can sugarcoat it however you wish but any woman who knowingly comes I between a man and his wife no matter howuch love she feels for the man is still a home breaker and deserves whatever she gets. Let's hope that you feel the same way when you get married and god forbid a 3 rd person comes into your life . Wonder if you will then say that it's ok the marriage and the relationship was not strong enough 😕
As for Anandi money and comfort makes ones life easier yes but for a woman whose entire life has been shaken and blown apart . One who was rejected and thrown aside by the person for who she literally gave up her life no amout of grand clothes or jewellery makes up for it . Life is wonderful if the one you live and live for reciprocates . If not it is a nightmare which can tear you apart day by day( and I have seen this happen to someone very close) so please before you think so randomly please put yourself in anandi s shoes and then think what would you like in your life .
I am sorry if I have offended you that was not my intention but I had to say what I felt.
Nikhila

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: maneer_forever
Why is Anandi acting like she is some Queen?? Colors has something about Women and saying no to second marriage!!

In NBTMKK also Megha keep denying Mohans advances and here Anandi is doing the same.. She should give Shiv the benefit of doubt.. Why go and burst at him.. Fisrt find out if he is at fault or not then scream..

Very irrational behaviour from otherwise rational girl..

@red

Circumstances in her life forced her to be rational and well behaved all the time.

We all have grown up in our homes and under of the care of parents and we learnt how to behave and how not to behave by trial and errors.Our parents put up with our behaviour and reprimanded us when necessary. A secure home and family are rights of child.

But here is a girl who has been sent away at a tender age of 8 years to another to another home and was told to make these people her family.She had to EARN her rights to be part of that family by being well behaved and a good girl at all times.

While Sumitra and Bhairon have been wonderful parents would they have accepted her so easily if had she been a spoilt little girl?

Dadisa - She may not have put her down but she had to work really hard to meet dadisa's standards while Jagya had to be just Jagya.

This is a girl who never had a luxury of throwing a tantrum.She always had to consider others' feelings and I think she reached a saturation point that day and threw a tantrum

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kanak.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

My only problem with Anandi's behaviour is she quietly took all nonsense from Jagiya and Gauri who hurt her, they would call her and speak rubbish in her ears. But ever since Shiv has come she gives him attitude, why. I do understand what she went through but this to me this looks like inconsistency of characterization.

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paradigm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#50

I had got completely hooked to BV after Shiv's entry. But I have been disappointed by Anandi's behaviour. The same person who took so much shit from Jagat Gauri cant even talk politely to Shiv and tell him how she feels. At no stage should anandi be shown having feelings for jagat.

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