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Nazneen

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Posted: 13 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: tinoo
for those who say anandi no longer loves jagya here is the last sentence from an article posted by Ilyria just now

Anandi still loves Jagya and his entry may create again soft feelings in Anandi's hearts which may stop the re- marriage procedure of Shiv and Anandi.

I really don't think we should go by the phrasing of articles. Based on what has been shown in the serial, she is not over J, and is mourning the loss of what they once had, but does not love the person he is now. She loved Jagya, not Jagat.

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal

I really don't think we should go by the phrasing of articles. Based on what has been shown in the serial, she is not over J, and is mourning the loss of what they once had, but does not love the person he is now. She loved Jagya, not Jagat.

well to me it was never apparent from the waythe entire episode was scripted that seh has anywhere implied she still loved jagiya or wanted her back. but then to each theri own. i think time will show what CVs have in store for us.

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#113

even if she did love jagiya , she was only a child then. remember how we used to have crushes as teenagers.

but whats to say she wont fall in love , this time as a mature woman when a suitable person comes along?

i think she just may and well this time it would be an adult choice.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#114

Yes Anajana you are right to some exent...Anandi does have the hurt and hangover of old realtionship. She dosn't want to be betrayed again.

I think only love can win her over, not arrange mariage sort. Arrange marriage may again mean a leap into an unknown territory, while love marriage may not show all the flaws of your partner there is some scope of trust and security.

I am shocked when some forum members consider Anandi to immature in rejecting the proposal. Simply put it she is not prepared for love. You don't jump out of relationships like that. She has only recently taken the decision to forget Jagiya completely. Let her get over the pain. She had loved him with all her heart. He was her man right from teenage. She did lot of sacrifices for him, waited patiently for his return, let him go when he wanted to (only true love can dare this, otherwise many people would go mad, violent), didn' t curse him and tried to harm him. What adds to this was that her love at first was reciprocated, she shared such beautiful moments with him, no where at the start this seemed like a possibility that he will leave her. Many forum members also didn't want the relationship to break. They were such a beautiful pair.

Opening up to love is not easy at this time. Love has to reach her heart. And it has to be patient kind, the one that understands her, wins her trust. A mature kind of love. At this point she is not in love with Shiv, she has not felt anything apart from those dreams. She has no looked at him as a potential love interest. I think DS will now try to appeal to this part of Anandi. In todays precap, she did feel something while touching that brick. It seems love is trying to knock her doors. Give her some time. I don't know how you fight feeling of love. Especially when it is mature kind and trustworthy. Anandi is a strong girl who has reconstructed her life after meeeting so many obstacles. I am sure sooner or later she will counsel herself, ask herself to ,look forward, to forget the nightmare. I am sure in this DS, Phooli others will also help. They will try to make her see sense. That all marriages don't end in hell. its not in her destiny. 😊

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Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: tinoo
for those who say anandi no longer loves jagya here is the last sentence from an article posted by Ilyria just now

Anandi still loves Jagya and his entry may create again soft feelings in Anandi's hearts which may stop the re- marriage procedure of Shiv and Anandi.

Anandi herself has said many times in different interviews that she does not love anyone any more. Sh eis not thinking about anyone.

Secondly WHAT re-marriage? nothing is happening in the first place. its already stopped. Anandi stopped it yesterday.

She did it herself, nothing related to Jug head

Soft feelings?! then the Jug head track would have happened during the badi massi thing. Its never meant to be.

Anandi will never marry jug head again. She herself said that.

This article is misleading.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: tinoo
for those who say anandi no longer loves jagya here is the last sentence from an article posted by Ilyria just now

Anandi still loves Jagya and his entry may create again soft feelings in Anandi's hearts which may stop the re- marriage procedure of Shiv and Anandi.

Yes she has them .You cannot forget love like that! But tinoo i strongly feel Shiv's love can win her over. Love can change its tune too. i am sure Anandi will consider both their behaviour and choose Shiv. She may reprimand Jagya for dumping Gauri, now that he has found flaws in her! From me right from the start the good punishment for Jagya is realzing her value ( how much she sacrificed for him and loved him truly. Never wished any ill for him ) and then as a punishment loose her forever. there are some mistakes with which we have to stay forever. jagya's mistake of Anandi is one

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Anandi herself has said many times in different interviews that she does not love anyone any more. Sh eis not thinking about anyone.

Secondly WHAT re-marriage? nothing is happening in the first place. its already stopped. Anandi stopped it yesterday.

She did it herself, nothing related to Jug head

Soft feelings?! then the Jug head track would have happened during the badi massi thing. Its never meant to be.

Anandi will never marry jug head again. She herself said that.

This article is misleading.

And I think it is the actor Pratyusha not Anandi. 😆No Suchi she has not got over jagiya as yet...she still loves him. Shiv's loves has to displace it. How sad was she when she saw divorce paper 😭

And Suchi the remarriage tract has been stopped for a while. Even anandi has to get convinced about it. Didn't you see DS detremination. She will fall in love with Shiv.

Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago

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Nazneen

@SiriuslySujal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

And I think it is the actor Pratyusha not Anandi. 😆No Suchi she has not got over jagiya as yet...she still loves him. Shiv's loves has to displace it. How sad was she when she saw divorce paper 😭

And Suchi the remarriage tract has been stopped for a while. Even anandi has to get convinced about it. Didn't you see DS detremination. She will fall in love with Shiv.

@Avantika: About the bit in blue - sadness doesn't necessarily equate to her still being in love with him. She's mourning the loss of what once was. She's sad in the knowledge that he will probably receive the same notice as her and not shed a tear or even care that much. The worst thing about a break-up, for me, at least, is the knowledge that the person you're spending so much time and energy thinking about doesn't care, that you and your pain mean nothing to them - however, the fact that you think of them or are sad doesn't mean that there is still love there. It just means that you are still adjusting to being alone.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#119

Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal

And I think it is the actor Pratyusha not Anandi. 😆No Suchi she has not got over jagiya as yet...she still loves him. Shiv's loves has to displace it. How sad was she when she saw divorce paper 😭
@Avantika: About the bit in blue - sadness doesn't necessarily equate to her still being in love with him. She's mourning the loss of what once was. She's sad in the knowledge that he will probably receive the same notice as her and not shed a tear or even care that much. The worst thing about a break-up, for me, at least, is the knowledge that the person you're spending so much time and energy thinking about doesn't care, that you and your pain mean nothing to them - however, the fact that you think of them or are sad doesn't mean that there is still love there. It just means that you are still adjusting to being alone.

Naz ( I think your name, you can correct me I can change it 😊) she is trying to reconcile with the idea that he will not come back. This doesn't mean she is not in love. She still has a soft corner for him. What have you said in red, thats love for me. You still care for the other person right?😊 If you don't care don't spend even a minute on them!

Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago

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Nazneen

@SiriuslySujal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#120

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Naz ( I think your name, you can correct me I can change it 😊) she is trying to reconcile with the idea that he will not come back. This doesn't mean she is not in love. She still has a soft corner for him. What have you said in red, thats love for me. You still care for the other person right?😊

Yes, Naz is correct 😊 I think she's accepted that he's not coming back and is (for the most part) living her life in as happy a way as she is able to at the moment. She does still have a soft corner for him, but after 18 years of marriage, I'd say that's pretty acceptable. Shiv will have to live with the fact that she will always care for Jagya even if she doesn't LOVE him in the romantic sense (which he will be OK with if he's mature enough).

In my case, though, I don't have a soft corner for the person any more or think of him wistfully. I just find being alone kind of uncomfortable and want someone to share things with. And I mourn the loss of a relationship to which I gave my all. I think Anandi is similar... her sadness is grief that the marriage is ending despite her having given it everything she had. The grief of no longer having Jagya's love has passed for her, I feel. But that's just my view 😊

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