Anandi upset with Shiv! my take

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Well before moving on now its up to Shiv how he'll make Anandi understand three things..

1) He hasn't accepted proposal becoz he pity her but only because she has all the qualities that he wanted to see in his would be life partner...😳

2)Chapter Ashi...If he gets to know abt Ashi's feelings for him then he has make one thing clear that A is not coming betwn them at all...He never had that type of feeling for her...And even if A will refuse to marry him he's not going to marry Ashi as she is only friend for him 😊

3) last thing she can take her time ...time to understand him and his feeling as she feels nothing for him so far...And he's ready to wait for her...😳

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Khusi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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nah nah..he doesnt need to take any nakhra of jag...he will do a solid dhulai of him soon...

see jag will throw veggies at him...🤣...cant fight with him so..this!!

well anandi used to take all nakhras of everyone around her..now there is shiv to take her nakhra...so whats the prob...!!

he should understand..jetsar ki sarpanch se saadi karna aasan nehin hai :D

and i do think..ds wont leave this matter that easily..promise kiya toh kya..she cant put pressure na...but she can help shiv...😆

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Good post Suchi! Your ananlysis is quite right. I loved the fact that Ashima in the precap is counselling Anandi and atleast clearling her objection. It takes lot of courage and true friendship to do that!

I think DS and Shiv together try to win her trust. DS from her expression looked like she will force Anandi after divorce, but she ended up saying that Anandi will herself agree. This only means that she will try to win her consent. Good thing, I want Anandi to fall in love with Shiv, to realize he is the man for her and he will not hurt her again. 😊

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: khusi_*
nah nah..he doesnt need to take any nakhra of jag...he will do a solid dhulai of him soon...

👏👏🤣 🤣

Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago

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..Tangled..

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

agreed! now ashima must come and play cupid

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Sukanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

The angry outburst of anandi on Shiv is uncalled for. From Shiv's point of view, he was given a proposal and he accepted it. I do not understand why he should seek her opinion in this regard(whether he has to say yes or no). That is the job of Anandi's family. The whole drama was done to make Ashima aware of what she has done without knowing the repercussions.

Dadisa is confident that Anandi will say yes to this proposal eventually.

How does she plan to do it?

My take is she will use Shiv to convince and woo her.

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Purvim

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: chinki_onlyme
Well before moving on now its up to Shiv how he'll make Anandi understand three things..
1) He hasn't accepted proposal becoz he pity her but only because she has all the qualities that he wanted to see in his would be life partner...😳
2)Chapter Ashi...If he gets to know abt Ashi's feelings for him then he has make one thing clear that A is not coming betwn them at all...He never had that type of feeling for her...And even if A will refuse to marry him he's not going to marry Ashi as she is only friend for him 😊
3) last thing she can take her time ...time to understand him and his feeling as she feels nothing for him so far...And he's ready to wait for her...😳

Aapni last line humein achchi lagi ki shiv anandi ke liye wait karega.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
She is most likely upset for 2 principle reasons:

1. She expected honesty from everyone... Shiv appears to have betrayed that along with Daadisa by accepting this proposal. It looks like they are planning her life and that too without consulting her. Its cumulative betrayal to which other than her family, Shiv whom she trusts was the other party.

2. She feels Shiv maybe sacrificing whatever he feels for Ashi or may feel for Ashi because he feels sorry for her... That he accepted proposal maybe out of pity. That Ashi has more right to him and is more appropriate for him.

Her reaction to the first part is completely understandable

@Red When she herself is not interested in marrying him why should it matter to her whether accepted the proposal out of pity or out of love for her?

Why should it matter to her if he recognises Ashi's love or not? Is it any of her business?

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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apjk - Anandi is disappointed in Shiv because she thought he respected her and they had a professional rishta, but his acceptance of ds ki proposal has her misconceiving that he's doing so out of pity because she would not accept his help and she thinks he is doing injustice to Ashima... its her bizness because she considers Ashi her friend and he is the one who shared their private bizness with his friend whom he doesn't even understand.

All of this is really defensiveness more than anything. If Shiv is like Jogia then Anandi doesn't have to consider his proposal on his merrits. So, she is trying to equate his insensitivity of Ashi with Jogia and at the same time she is stuck in the "unworthy" frame that Jogia left her. She is standing up for Ashi as she failed to do so for herself - it is sometims easier to stand up for others then oneself. Further in pain and defensiveness she is lashing out at him for cruely encouraging her family's dreams.

You are currently hearing this situation logically without emotional investment. Try listening from a psychological perspective keeping in mind the defensiveness/protective mechanism at play given that Anandi is a victim of domestic abuse and abandonment.

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago