Anandi upset with Shiv! my take

Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I do not think she is very upset with Shiv, she is just misunderstanding him

a) why did he agree to the marriage without even letting her know. She has the right to know whats going on about her, about her life.

Yes its unreasonable, DS asking shiv but Anandi does not want to look at reason, she is feeling betrayed by everyone. That everyone is taking decisions based on HER life withOUT her

b) she still feels that Ashima is there. She does not want to give any signals to him, where he feels that she is trying to be friendly with him, and thus has a chance of misunderstanding it to be of her approval for marriage etc.

She alone knows the feeling of not being loved by the person whom she had loved once and then being left for another woman. She feels that Ashima loves Shiv and if she approves of this marriage she will be taking away shiv from her, just like how gauri took Jagya away from her.

Yes its a different scenario etc. etc. etc but her mind she feels that she does not want to be that other woman , and the reason for the pain that Ashima is feeling now.

I hope dadisa tells Shiv that it was ashima who broke the news to Anandi and now Anandi is feeling betrayed and does not want to deal with Marriage at all.

I hope shiv tells this to Ashima and in turn feels really bad that she had to tell the news to Anandi and that Anandi is not even looking at him. His sadness will def. bring Ashima back to Jetsar with that photo frame where she has put Shiv and Anandi together.

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malika

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Gr8 post suchi👏
First of all to me too suchi like you I dont think that she is upset with Shiv .After watching the segment I think she is just trying to avoid Shiv .Now how can you avoid a person??Obviously by not talking to him and showing attitude like anandi was showing😆 Actually the thing is that she is just trying to completely ignore him.May be she misunderstands him too that he is doing all this out of sympathy but still its not that she is angry at him for saying YES.That makes no sense.But I really feel bad for Shiv.He will be badly hurt.Woh kehte hain na...the opposite of love is not hate its INDIFFERENCE...here its the same thing.Shiv expected love and she is giving indifference.Bechara Shiv...he will be left heart-broken 🥺

Edited by princessyashika - 13 years ago

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dixie123

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I don't understand why he has to ask her first before accepting DS's proposal. Yes, she has a right to know about what is going on in her life. That is the mistake of her family and not Shiv's.

Yes, she knows Ashi loves Shiv but I don't think they have shown anything till now that Anandi has started feeling for Shiv and is trying to supress those feelings bcos she doesn't want to come in between shiv and Ashi. So, it does not make sense if she gets upset with Shiv bcos of Ashi. Also, she knows that Shiv is not reciprocating Ashi's love. It is not like he loves Ashi but has agreed to marry Anandi.

Maybe she thinks out of pity he has agreed. Also from the precap, it seems she does not want to get into any relationship at all. I think she is upset the way the whole thing has taken place behind her back and the situation has made her angry with everyone. Like they say, presentation is everything.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: dixie123

Yes, she knows Ashi loves Shiv but I don't think they have shown anything till now that Anandi has started feeling for Shiv and is trying to supress those feelings bcos she doesn't want to come in between shiv and Ashi.

👏👏👏👏 excellent point.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

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right dixie thats what I am saying, its unreasonable, but thats what it is. The reasons I mentioned above are adding factor.

I would feel irritated as well if something like this was happening behind my back. She totally feels betrayed. Perhaps she likes him too LOL who knows :)

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Anandi has to do some serious introspection and see if she has lead Shiv into any of this. She started becoming so comfortable with Shiv that she did a head massage for him right in his office ! She might then realize that she likes him too but hasn't been able to open up her heart.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

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true.. she should have realized something when she had that dream but naturally she is blocking all kinds of feelings towards anyone at this point.

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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She is most likely upset for 2 principle reasons:

1. She expected honesty from everyone... Shiv appears to have betrayed that along with Daadisa by accepting this proposal. It looks like they are planning her life and that too without consulting her. Its cumulative betrayal to which other than her family, Shiv whom she trusts was the other party.

2. She feels Shiv maybe sacrificing whatever he feels for Ashi or may feel for Ashi because he feels sorry for her... That he accepted proposal maybe out of pity. That Ashi has more right to him and is more appropriate for him.

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Khusi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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it wud be good practice for shiv how to handle this type of situation in future...! good for him...he can understand his wud be wifey😉

nakhre uthane sikhna achha hai naa!!

well done anandi...😆

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Khusi - Bechara Shiv has to put up with double the nakre...not only Anandi's but Jug's as well🤣🤣🤣

Jokes Apart - Daadiji may have to draw him a roadmap to winning Anandi's heart. At the very least she owes Shiv a huge sorry for phasofying him in this situation.😆

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago

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