Anandi threatens about divorce.. SO WHAT - Page 4

Anandi is now HURT because this marriage proposing by Dadisa and Shiv accepting it has happened WITHOUT her knowledge. Also she is just not ready to get into another relationship. She hasnt even been divorced yet and her family is thinking about another marriage. And what about her parents? Dont they have a right to know about all these happenings? I wish Anandi was given more time to deal with a remarriage rather than pushing her in that direction that too without her knowledge which is the biggest mistake done by Dadisa. I dont understand Shiv either. When Dadisa put the proposal, his first question should have been " Does Anandi know abt this or is Anandi ready for remarriage" (knowing Anandi fully well and her background)before giving his answer. Shiv's reply as a yes came out as "desperate" to me. The proposal should have been from Shiv to Anandi. Also we dont know ANYTHING abt Shiv's family or his past. He is a handsome intelligent collector, that doesnt mean Anandi will decide to just get married to him. Also Anandi knows that Ashima loves Shiv. That is also a factor in Anandi's thought process. I feel Jagya's comeback to Jaitsar is what will make Anandi fall for Shiv. And she will choose Shiv over Jagya when the right time comes. And I feel Ashima may also return and make Anandi realise that Shiv doesnt love her but its Anandi.

Originally posted by: tinoo

she threatens that she will never re-marry, and for that she threatens that if the only way to do it, she will refuse to divorce jagya. with her being his legal wife, the singhs will never be able to remarry her again.

oh thanks tinoo.. is that so? oh i never heard that statement that she would refuse to remarry...i just thought she was reminding everyone...that its going to happen in seven days

I completely agree with you about Anandi not wanting to jump into another marriage/relationship so soon.Dadisa as usual went about doing things in the same way she has always done in her autocratic manner with the sole intention of wanting to see Anandi happy.

Originally posted by: veechafan123

When Dadisa put the proposal, his first question should have been " Does Anandi know abt this or is Anandi ready for remarriage" (knowing Anandi fully well and her background)before giving his answer. .

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

I feel soo bad for Anandi. I was happy for AnSH but if Anandi is getting hurt in the process... I don't care about that much. I want Anandi to be happy and thats all

Originally posted by: tinoo

But atleast she saw and met the parents, she knew the boy's background, bhawri had vetted him, and the parents had also agreed to marry a divorcee girl ... that is leaps and bounds ahead of any conversation she has had with shiv...

even then i felt it was odd that she was ready to commit without asking anandi...

Originally posted by: veechafan123

Shiv's reply as a yes came out as "desperate" to me. .

Originally posted by: parri814

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Yes she was premature with asking Shiv, yes she should have still met his family, and yes most of all to Anandi being aware of all this, but all that's water under the bridge now. Her intention was noble but her method definitely could have been better. Regardless, it's good that these flaws are shown. It makes all the characters very 'true to life' 😉

I have not read the above discussions so am only basing my comments on your post Suchi.

Although I may be irritated that A is refusing to get married to Shiv, but given her mental state it is only natural that she responded the way she did.

I have complaints from DS and the family's side, I salute their intentions behind it but it needed to be done more maturely.

1. This whole looking for grooms is being done without A's knowledge forget consent. That's incorrect. They need to talk to her and see what he opinion on it is before involving a third party. In the present scenario matters cannot be done in the fit of excitement or panic.

2. After talking to her they need to make A mentally prepared to accept another marriage. This may probably take more time than finding a suitable groom. They need to be very careful about A's sentiments and handle the situation very delicately. No where push her into something which she is not willing to do. that will never make her happy however good the groom is.

3. Without doing all this why do they need to involve Shiv in the picture by proposing marriage when they don't know if A is ready for remarriage in the first place. Remember DS doesnot know that Shiv has secretively fallen for A. They want to protect A's feelings but what about Shiv's feelings? He is all overwhelmed now and is also going to talk to his parents. Wouldn't A's refusal come as a heart breaker for him? What kind of a first impression would it leave on his family?

4. The two of them are professionally connected. Now with this refusal, wouldn't it become so awkward for them to meet eye to eye and carry out their professional responsibilities with ease?

5. Why propose marriage even before the divorce proceedings are over? Agree DS was scared that Shiv's marriage will be fixed elsewhere, but how does she know that he will accept her proposal in the first place. Afterall if Shiv had to be A's husband he will be. A is definitely going to go through a turmoil with the divorce proceedings, why involve another person in all of this? Its good that Shiv is a mature and understanding guy who will support A through this phase. But why give him memories of her past relation rather than letting him start afresh?

Anyway it is a drama and the high points in the show can only be highlighted in this fashion... Just hope A eventually agrees to marry Shiv and out of her free will.

anita, shiv knows that Anandi does not know about the marriage so thast good that he knows that. If they hid that fact then it would have been a greater mess.