The concept of sifarish - Page 2

Are sifarish and refference the same things.. I think it was a refference Not a sifarish.. She reffered him.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Do you think that jagat was deserving of the sifarish...or would you count him as a good for nothing person?

for me.he is always Good for nothing and its.not secret. I talked just a general sifaris theory. for me even Gouri dosnt deserve to make sifaris 😉

Hmmm. Well, I mean, sifarish is a bit of a grey area. Where I'm from, it's very difficult to get a job if you don't have some connections... that's how things work here a lot of the time. So I can understand Gauri feeling like she needed to resort to that. While it's not morally correct to go via those channels (Jagat essentially took up a position that could have gone to someone with more humility and keenness to learn - i.e. someone more suited to the post), it's often necessary in today's world, and he was qualified for the job. And to be fair, he got the job itself based on merit... Gauri only asked them to give him a chance. She got him the interview, but he got himself the job. I think it's kind of unfair for her to take all the credit, to be honest!

Nothing bad in recommendation if the person is capable of the post. I guess jagat's attitude is not fit for recommendation but his knowledge is. Gauri was selfish in this case but recommending jagat was not wrong. Being a wife its her duty as well as her right to think gud for her hubby.

Ya recommandation and reffering are not bad.. Normally a person who recommand some one does not take credit , that I recommanded you because even after recommandation , it is all individual's qualification that s/he gets the job..

jagya ko lag raha hoga ki use uske apne job search aur talent ke aadhar pe use job mili hai isliye woh khush tha pur jub use pata chala ki use sifarish se job mili hai to woh sad ho gaya .pur jagya ko bhi sochna chhahiye jub main ms nahi hoon to phir bhi mujhe sng mein job kaise mil sakti hai.tumhe sng mein job milni hoti to pehle na mil jaati

"Handle with care" comes with glassware similarly "Handle with care"tags with egoistic people regardless of their gender.

I guess Gawari didn't do the aftermath of getting her husband into her workplace and denying his existence. Recommending a person who is able and looking for opportunity is not all bad but we do have to about the person we recommend coz what they will do will come out as a bad remark on you as well.

If at all you did recommend someone who is relative to you, i doubt how insightful they did that. And the worst part is you can't go and explode on that person infront of everyone in the workplace saying you are a fool to pick that person which you really are!

Gauri only recommended Jagya becasue she was fed up of coming back home and seeing his sad face and his taunts abt not earning anything. Also that she did not want to go to bangalore. She consulted her gawar mother and recived a gawar response. Gauri ragian showed her highly selfish side..she recommended jagat to get rid of his tantrums..she does not at all care abt jagat's career...all she cares is her own image in the society anf how embarrassing it would be for her to have a husband who is lesser qualified than her and also who is unemployed...

Her mother is not educated and has lived her life in the village. She does not know anything abt professional life...all she knows is her chulha chauka n hsband. so she is bound to give such an response..ki kahi job lagwa do..

But gauri should understand this before doing the sifarish. and if she is so much brilliant and intelligent she should have forseen all this might happen in the the future.


Again when jagat was in trouble with teh sr doc..instead of handling the situation properly she shouted at jagat and hereby saved her own job and career..

Originally posted by: monamie111

Tinoo...

but i didn't understand it what did u mean by a force a mismatch? 😕...jaggya is a doctor only..so is he not suitable for the assistant doctor's position? he is capable enough to do this job...so i don think it was a mismatch!...

Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal

While it's not morally correct to go via those channels (Jagat essentially took up a position that could have gone to someone with more humility and keenness to learn - i.e. someone more suited to the post),