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prassy.kavi

@prassy.kavi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

well written and presented post. bright future is there for you anandi. please move away from jagat infact he is so so so farrr to you.

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sreevask

@sreevask

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

ThanQ for taking the world to a woman's heart...The REAL ONE...
We saved it in our hearts...

May the world learn what it means by love from BV...

ThanQ CVs 4 depiction of human values & their ultimate success over evils...

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sonanai

@sonanai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

The track of BV is wonderful...They are now exactly showing the pain which a Balika Vadhu feels...The essence of Balika vadhu is retained...BV has shown tht its not just a TRP gain but also they are sticking to give a message to the society...

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Asha

@Chytra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Love the post antara! Described aptly what she is going through

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Well, an excellent post..liked and made me happy.

Definitely there is someone who sent positive vibrations and these really enlightened the "Inner Anandi".

Life does not mean acheivement and does not mean anything unless untill someone touch the core. I felt that Shiv is also a victim of child marriage...that s what I felt from the expressions..but who knows where we are heading to...

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Beautiful analysis Antara. So refreshing, thought provoking and insightful. Love it!

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Teeya
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tinoo mujhe aapki yeh baat samjh mein nahi aayi. "
And here comes shiv and tells her she doesn't have to "do" anything to be worthy in his eyes. She can just "be".

Hi teeya,

aapne hindi mein apna sawal poocha, tho mein hindi mein apna jawab de rahi hoon, ummeed karti hoon ki main theek se apna matlab samjha paoongi.

"doing" = karna

"being" = hona

"worthy" = "yogyata"

Mera matlab yeh tha ki jagya ke aankhon mein anandi khud koi maaine nahi rakhti thi. Usey har waqt jagya ke bataye hue dhaanche mein apne aap ko dhalna padta tha. Meaning, woh jaisi hai woh qafi nahi hai. Toh fir woh mehsoos karti thi ki jagya ki aankhon mein agar usey yogyata praapt karni thi, toh fir usey kuch "karna" padta -- jaise ki angreji seekhna, yaa job karna, yaa jeans pehenna, yaa western khaana banana etc. etc. Toh usey hamesha lagta hai ki mujh mein koi kami hai. Aur woh kami ko bharne ke liye mujhe kuch karna hoga (doing)

Shiv ke saath kal anandi ko yeh mehsoos hua ki woh jaisi hai, theek hai. Shiv usey yeh nahi bol raha hai ki tum x, y, z karogi, toh hi mein tumhe apni svikruti deh paoonga. woh us se yeh ummeed nahi rakhta ki woh apne aap ko badlegi. Anandi jaisi abhi hai, wohi usey bahut pasand aayi -- usey apne aap ko change nahi karna padega. Shiv abhi se hi uski respect karta hai. Toh jub usey kuch karne ki zaroorat nahi hai, toh fir anandi abhi chain ki saans le sakti hai is relationship mein. Woh abhi free ho gayi hai. sirf bench par baithagi toh bhi shiv usey pasand karta hai. uska astitiva (being) hee shiv ke liye qafi hai. usey shiv ki aankhon mein yogyata praapt karne ke liye kuch karne ki zaroorat hi nahi hai. Anandi ka hona hi qafi hai. Usey kuch karne ki zaroorat nahi hai.