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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Loved it Antara..

Thanks for sharing. It certainly heals my heart.. My anandi , finally a ray of hope for her

Thanks :' )

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

The mental paradigm shift from "not enoughness" to "enoughness" is something amazing and needs to be experienced.

For me, now my next transition is to work on moving from "enoughness" to "more than enoughness"...

I earnestly wait for this second round of transition for anandi ❤️❤️

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woman11

@woman11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

yes tinoo. That's the most difficult part---------meeting yourself. We are all scared to do that and continuously try to see ourselves through other's eyes. I am still trying to meet myself, haven't succeeded completely yet. I still play along what other's expect of me and try to abide by the image other's have of me. The rebellion has started but is not yet complete...I am so glad you could do it 👏

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brick_red

@brick_red

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Woman11, Tinu, You beautifully captured the essence of Anandi's inner struggle. It takes a lot of empathy to understand a character in such depth..

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anshul

@milindrose

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

EVERY EPISODE IS NOW BEST OF bv AND BRINGS OUT NEW FEELINGS IN US AND IT BINDS US TO WATCH WHAT IS NEXT FOR HER ,ANANDI IS SHOWN WITH SHINE IN EYES WITH SHIV WHO IS THE MAN TO GIVE HER SELF MOTIVATION

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

For me, my 'jagya' was over critical parents. Wonderful people but just so focused on academic grades and music and sports -- as a means of proving one's competence and superiority.

I "did" a lot, but it was never enough... I always had to "do" more and more and more to keep up with a moving target before I could finally earn their love.

So, I have many many achievements, but all acquired through the fear of not being good enough or worthy...none of them acquired simply through the satisfaction of learning.

After a while I fell really ill (with another illness -- but i believe the root cause is psychosomatic -- my cells could not take the stress and resistance 😆😆)

I was always behind myself. always behind. always behind. frantically trying to catch up.

And even after I became an adult, and nobody expected anything of me, I still had those voices in my head and I went into overdrive all by myself.

and I was always behind. always behind. always behind.

Never good enough to be me.

so I one day just gave up and said "f**k it"... and the energy that is freed up when you do something for the satisfaction of it and not to prove your worthiness is just amazing. 🤣🤣

Oh the freedom!!! My illness has almost vanished now. 🤣🤣

Anandi, you go girl!!! You are MORE THAN ENOUGH.

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CosmoGirl

@Cosmo-Girl

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Wow!! beautiful words 👏

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: brick_red
Woman11, Tinu, You beautifully captured the essence of Anandi's inner struggle. It takes a lot of empathy to understand a character in such depth..

woman11 is the best in all these matters!! She sees things that others cant see. She's on a unique vibrational wavelength. ❤️

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woman11

@woman11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

tinoo I am blushing tomato red😳. Please do not kill me with kindness😆

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: woman11
yes tinoo. That's the most difficult part---------meeting yourself. We are all scared to do that and continuously try to see ourselves through other's eyes. I am still trying to meet myself, haven't succeeded completely yet. I still play along what other's expect of me and try to abide by the image other's have of me. The rebellion has started but is not yet complete...I am so glad you could do it 👏

Thank you my dear -- but the interesting thing is you dont have to rebel.

You just have to reach for what is your dream, and give your undivided attention to that, the rest of the players in your experience will all move like pawns on a chessboard when you decide you are enough.

i.e. you dont have to rebel against coffee to get tea. You can simply reach for the tea directly (and skip the rebellion 🤣). Just say yes to the change you want to be.

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