i understand ur point that u tried to put ofrward but f u wanted to show that shiv is now getting more concerned and taking a personal interst rather than merely professional then too i dnt agree with the choice of words used . crossing boundaries- is in my opion too harsh and too strong for mere yesterdays incidents.
crossing obundaries for me would be - if he would have talked to heri nquired mroe of her past relationship tried to comfort her holding her, speaking on her behalf in front of the media or making the guy say sorry ot her for his behaviour would even not be in crossing boundaries.
with such a strong topic is is v hard not to let it come acrossas a negative tihng, however having said that my view is that instead of crossig boundaries, i feel sihv is now having dual intersts, yes while he respects her more for her courage, stand , he feels symtphty nad her pain for her past , he admires her for the postiivtiy and outlook , yes there is a little more than what it would be if the sarpanch would have been a man or a middle aged woman i guess, here unknowingly his feeling are now getting mroe than the normal repsoect of the sarpanch, it is coz he is now respecting admiring the indiviadaul rather than the professionalsim and vison of the village leader. that is what is happennig and i feel it is a natural emotion and the first stage of fallin ofr someone, when unknowingyl u admire the traits and slowly relaise that u care more than u thot.
- he calling up anandi and trying to reassure her as well as himself was not merely his personal interst- it was like aftyer a huge fihght dnt u want to talk t over with thep erson who was invloved there? time was late but i dnt thnk merely a phone call can in anyne be even considered in crossing limit or boundary
- he went back to anandiji then unintentially went to anandi( i ndt notice heard on forum only) however again if u have had an intense exp and after that it is hard no to go back to just same?however merely removing ji is not an indication of limit exceeding or love is there for me it is suggesstion that now he is looknig at her as more of a friend rather than just a professional
- he pulled her from the waste,- i ddnt notice it there and i had thot it was from the shoulder , but the act was of the fact that it was a team confernece- one stalls the other moves, remember he was giving and he said u shld talk however when them an came he siad we dnt have to answer and we can end, however while she was talking of the isse no matter how painful he let it be stood at a idstnance, when them edia started inquireing inher personal affair then he steppedi n drawing the line btwn thei ssue at hand and personal stuff. how nad when it happedned was not linked to this case na so he stopped them edia - i felt it was out of ocncern yes but also ok as a team member.
however in principle i agree with what u are trying ot say, shiv has started to show indicationd of anandis imapct nad his respect and admiration is slwly chaning form merely professional to a more personal level but i disagree with the harsh implication of boundary being corssed
for me crossing boundaries is: kissing sleeping toghter, focing oneslef onot other under the hood of comforting, implyig that we have sometihng else gonig on by making a show of saath not what he did
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