So why discuss it with her later? Why not discuss it with her BEFORE to say "I will enquire into whether there are opportunities at Bangalore"and you say he is trying to help gauri. why does he think gauri needs his help. she has got the job in SNG by herself, not through his sifarish. an unemployed doctor will help a bright doctor at SNG manage her career?She never said that she will not move to Bangalore because there were no comparable opportunities for her. She said she would not move because of his stupid delusions of grandeur about being the ceo of a hospital and not reporting to anyone.EVEN IF SHE HAD COMPARABLE OPPORTUNITIES SHE DOESNT WANT TO MOVE.She did not jump to conclusions.,..and even if she did, I think the conclusions she jumped to were correct. 😆😆Today he did this behind her back. Tomorrow he will come and talk to admin behind her back. Then he will speak to the head of the hospital behind her back.Then gauri will receive a notice saying she is being transferred to bangalore -- taa daah! surprise!!Manipulative bas***d.and he had no business introducing himself as gauri's husband and saying "we are moving to bangalore" and being so specific and saying that gauri will be moving with himHe could just have phrased it as a general enquiry ... if a doctor is employed at SNG Mumbai, can they be easily transferred to SNG Bangalore?That was all he had to ask if he was "just enquiring"There was no "just" involved in his asking.