Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
Does that right the wrong dadisa did? Does that lessen her crime? Did they really do Gauri some EHSAAN or were they trying to ease their guilty conscience and sudhrofy their mistake? Whatever Gauri might be now at that time Dadisa had ruined her life - she had gone to seek a rishta from a poor family on purpose knowing that they will give their daughter out of majboori and she LIED to them. Every parent marries their daughter but she lied! The rishta broke after Gauri's maang had been filled. The panchayat declared it null but did that reduce society's now bad view of that poor girl? That poor girl was happy at the time she thought she could continue study but she didn't know what would happen to her over the next few years what taunts and insults and bad words she would face. Dadisa apologised in the panchayat only because she had to. She never meant it! I can not feel anger or hatred towards Gauri till that time she is meted justice and dadisa KHUD apologises. B tried to pay for Dadisa's crime - did Dadisa ever pay for it? But is that a way to pay for it? By just giving money? Does that mitofy all that hurt? Do you expect money would help? when you have so much of it they would think it as charity will make your victim grateful to you? To say that chapter ended also would be wrong - because dadisa's crime left a deep hurt inside Gauri that is still not cured. Words hurt more than actions. Is it so easy to forget the past?
what the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im so disappointed that even educated people think like that. in ur bit to defend gaurai u dont even realise what tupid logic ur giving. seems liek it is more of a question of ur own ego that u dont want to accept ur favorite character is infact a B****(mods im sorry but im too furious pls forgie me). so it was perfectly allright for gauri to destroy the life of a poor girl , snatch her husband, make her a living widow without any prospect and give her emmense pain since she was wornged bydadisa?
she was wronged by dadisa and not anandi. but gauri took out her revenge from anandi. u can see with ur eyes how garui treats dadisa and how she treats anandi. what was the poor girls fault?yes daidsa did a wrong which was NOT SUPPORTED BY BHAIRON, SUMITRA AND OTHERS!
bhairon really wanted gauri to go forward in life hence the education and not just money! the purpose behind this was to allow gauri o become a career woman in a city where her past wudnt haunt her. aur kya karte wo log sir kaat ke rakh dete kya? yaa gawari ko ghar ki bahu bana ke le aate while anandi was still alive. may be that wud have suited gawari more ... uneducated life as a second wife/! it was actually bhairon's fault he gave a second chance to this serpent! aur usne usko hi dass liya. and people even findthe moral fibre to defend such a charcater. all such people are wannab gauris actually not too far fetched if viewed that way. everyone from smriti iraani to sree devi all have done the same. they wud defend gauri as well!
Edited by vasu.avantika - 13 years ago