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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with Taral. Jagya has wronged A too much to remain within the circle of redemption.He must pay, and Anandi must move on.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i was so keen to see anandi falling in love with a handsome rich successful understanding guy far more better than jagya in every stage of lifebut these cvs😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83



I see your point of view. But I would rather have Anandi make that choice rather then her family. It seems like everyone speaks for Anandi and what her future holds. But no one has dared asked her if she wants her husband back. I also agree with you that everyone should get a second chance. But Jagya was leading two ladies at one time, he not only cheated Gauri by hiding about Anandi but also vise versa. I think just coming back to Anandi and saying sorry I made a mistake, for me won't cut it. He has lied, did adultery and even married Gauri without even getting a proper divorce. They have went to far in my opinion with their relationship, that to just forgive and accept him back would be well abnormal human behavior in my POV. They are having a child together presently. Whether that child lives or doesn't time will tell, but a major twist or great repent must happen from both Jagya and Gauri's side in order to make any forgiveness from Anandi seem real.


I totally agree with you, Anandi's feelings and choices should matter the most than what her family thinks about it. Anandi should not be denied a right to get back to her husband just because once upon a time a kacche daage ke pakke rishte or whatever refernece has been made int he past.

I appreciate your personal POV for J and maybe I am not someone who can easily forgive people like him too, but in this story should Anandi forgive him and want to have start her life afresh, she should be allowed to do so, thats what i meant.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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JA = kacchi umar ke pakke rishte
GJ = pakke umar ke kacchi rishte
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not sure why are we thinking that if CV show that J realize his mistake and come back to A as he really Loves A and there is real love between A and J then it is not a Balika vadhu serial as they are showing it is right...show A suffering and husband marry another girl and live happily then it is a true balia vadhu seral...

I think they have already shown a lot of stories and young children suffering missing their childhood, responsibilities at that young age like dadisa ill treating A, a lot of expectations, missing school, and now that J leaving A etc .. In balka vadhu just A is not the example of BV, they have shown many examples like Pooli Suguna, etc...and the sufferings of women even gehna's story was an example and also they have shown how the people who has money buy poor family girls by giving them some money...if any one is really watching this serial then they will not dare to get their kids married at that young age and no more natha pratha, and send their girls to schools and encourage widow marriages...

In BV J was not just a childhood husband he has lived with A after he was matured and he loved her and they both had good bond of Love affection and marital relationship even after they were matured and he left her after he was major...Just because mean people like J and to some of them who think that if it is a child marriage then man can leave his wife at any age even after living with her after he is major , so they have a new rule in court stating that if they both lived together for more than two years after majors then it is legal, as they both had maturity to take individual decisions ...

J and G made a mistake in choosing their life partners when they are grown up and matured...here it is J and G selfish behaviour which made them to marry...they both should be thought a lesson and if he comes back to A then it is not like showing Balya vivah is right...

Any way every one has their own opinion, but even if Cvs show that A and J reunion then it is not supporting balya vivah...more over if they show that J and G living together happily then it is supporting men to leave their wife when he finds someone more suited to his new life style is right and for selfish reason even a women can marry a married man who cheated her by hiding the fact from her and also his wife is right...
Edited by jhansijhansi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Jhansi, this story is no more only about the child marriage of Anandi, it has taken a different course now.

If A allows J to go back to G, it means A is promoting *** women like G to snatch others husband.

G was in her complete senses when she allowed J cheat on Anandi and also when she got pregnant, if G is as a biological mother is happy to raise her child as a *************** why should anyone else have a problem with it least of all Anandi.

I completely support Anandi should she forgive J, provided he truly repents for his sin and undergoes penence for his crime, not really sure what the penalty should be though. but on a funny note he may be asked to serve the people in his own village and have only male nurses and male collaegues to work with.
Edited by sree.m - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was going through all the post..okay so some people don't want J-A reunion bcoz it will show that child marriage wins..and some people don't want it bcoz they don't want to see A is accepting J again as husband..i don't want A-J reunion bcoz i think the same that A should not accept J as a husband again..

guys..just a question..if A&J were not married at their childhood..if they were couple at adult age and then J left A for G..and then again he would have came back to A..would it be fine then that A is accepting J again as husband?

Also, i think BV has shown many successful child marriages too..some "kache umar ke pakke riste"..like bhairon & sumitra..lal sing and his wife..they all were married when they were 8-10 yrs of old..but they have very strong bonding now..

while watching some old episodes..i felt that bhairon and sumitra r so sweet..without realizing it that they r also got marriage when they were child..

so do u guys think that as theirs was a child marriage too..so CVs should show some break up or divorce of bhairon and sumitra too..to prove it that child marriage is bad?

and why we r running so fast?😛..may be it is also possible that J will not leave G..even after knowing that she has insulted his family..I don't know how he will leave his baby?🤔

Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even, I feel jagya should come back to Anandi. That would be a lesson to many girls that, "Do not fall for a married man, Do not agree to be a keep of a married man". Even in real scenario, most of the cases, if a man returns to his wife, she will accept him... might be not for her sake, but for the kids or the family. So the girl who is agreeing to live with the married man should know that, she is always walking a thin line... any time she can be left alone. The man might not loose anything, his family n wife would accept him back. But the girl, will be left alone with no help, legally or socially. She will also be blamed for trying to steal the man. And people wld agree, that him leaving her was her punishment. I am sure, not many here wld sympathise with gauri, when jagya leaves her. They wld say that she deserved it, for giving so much pain to anandi

Also, i have seen many post that, gauri is not the home-breaker. It was already broken. Jagya-Anandi had already drifted apart. How can this point be believed. Just because Jagya said it. I agree with Kundatai here, that if there are no women like gauri, there would be no anandi or kundatai , Jagya might have returned to his family. He might have tried to mend his relation with Anandi, because,he has no other option. It is only because, gauri agreed to fulfill his needs, that he didn't want Anandi any more. The point that Jagya wldn't have returned to Anandi will be proved wrong, when he actually returns to Anandi , after he is done with Gauri.
That would be a lesson to all the girls, to not go behind married men, no matter how strong or deep the love is.
Now comming to gauri, I completely lost respect for her, when she celebrated her suhag raat in that haveli. Dadisa might have agreeed for her staying in the same room as Jagya, but shouldn't she as a girl, have some shame. It is the lowest level of shamelessness or characterless behaviour, that can allow a woman to enjoy with a man, when his wife is standing there helplessly.
I am actually amazed that, anandi could overcome this trauma. Not sure, if many would be able to overcome that. Would gauri, or any other woman, be able to bear this situation. Gauri is not able to bear the fact that, Jagya might return to Anandi, just imagine, what would happen to her, if she is made to stand there helplessly, when jagya is with Anandi in another room.
Edited by lakshmim_84 - 13 years ago

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