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Posted: 13 years ago
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Whether J gets accepted back or not is another matter, but if J comes back to A after realizing that G is wrong and how good is A- then it's a success of their relationship which is based in the child marriage!!

If JG gets separated and J comes back only to his family, ek baat hai. But J coming back to Anandi!!! - so what is actually wrong in child marriage if the relationship of the kacchi umar is so strong??? Only thing that needs to be taken care of - teenage pregnancy and beendni should be given a chance to study!

CVs should never show J coming back to A or falling for A - at the best they can remain friends. But JA romance, in any way, is complete no- no!
Edited by doyelpakhi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

@taral i agree & earlier we also wanyed it but now she has changed her educn courses. so now if she thinks of it, she has 2 again start it!!

so its better she gets success in wat shes doing & it"ll b a big slap on both G&J's faces!!!😊



sorry have not watched the serial from the start...so thought she was still studying to be a doctor. Well what is her education path now?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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shes now taking courses 4 social upliftment !! sumthing like this so that she can bcum a social worker!!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree to the TM and the following posts.

I am an admirer of the makers of Balika Vadhu to how they have developed the story through time but I think they have really disappointed me as a viewer on how they have handled a social issue.

Jagiya-Anandi reunion would be glorification of child marriages. It would in fact be a message to all parents who get their children married at young age that they are far more able decision makers than their children. I am sure Balika Vadhu has a good penetration into rural India and to them the concept becomes even more appealing than a practice they should end.

I would rather like Jagiya and Anandi to realize together that their marriage in childhood was a wrong decision made by their parents. They should enable each other for a fresh start instead of hanging on each other. If any new relationship has to develop between Anandi and Jagiya then it should be of friendship where they encourage and support each other on a new course of life and make their family support them on that path.

If the makers continue on Anandi-Jagiya reunion then BV is no different from other shows churning on the tube.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@doyelpakhi...completely agree to ur viewpoint...

I liked dis show only cz it has different plot realted to social issues...But now i m confused wat r dey tryin to portray????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bonnefille

Totally agree to the TM and the following posts.


I am an admirer of the makers of Balika Vadhu to how they have developed the story through time but I think they have really disappointed me as a viewer on how they have handled a social issue.

Jagiya-Anandi reunion would be glorification of child marriages. It would in fact be a message to all parents who get their children married at young age that they are far more able decision makers than their children. I am sure Balika Vadhu has a good penetration into rural India and to them the concept becomes even more appealing than a practice they should end.

I would rather like Jagiya and Anandi to realize together that their marriage in childhood was a wrong decision made by their parents. They should enable each other for a fresh start instead of hanging on each other. If any new relationship has to develop between Anandi and Jagiya then it should be of friendship where they encourage and support each other on a new course of life and make their family support them on that path.

If the makers continue on Anandi-Jagiya reunion then BV is no different from other shows churning on the tube.



I also don't want to see Jagiya and Anandi back together not because of it would make child marriages a success but because no women should have to accept a cheater of a husband. I think the writers have done a great job on showing what a girl goes through both in a child marriage and also infidelity. Gehna had raised a great question had Anandi did what Jagya did would Jagya have stayed quite or accepted his faith like Anandi did? Another part of this situation is that not ever girl is Anandi in a child marriage. I am sure there might have been many girls also that have done what Jagya did. What happen to Anandi could have happened to her even if she wasn't married as a child. I think more then anything, child marriage cause a woman to lose her childhood, her identity and her education. That is what the CVs need to show and they are by making Anandi Sarpanch and a teacher. All this triangle stuff is for masala, because there are many Anandi's out there that have faced her situation but were not married as a child.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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To err is human and forgive divine 🤔

I see no reason why J cannot go back to his legal wife A after realising his mistake that he cheated on his wife falling for a fake cheapo like G 🤢.

It is not Anandi's fault that she cannot have her {LEGAL} husband back, just because they were married in childhood😕, that seems to make no sense at all, its all the more a grave injustice 🤢🤢.

A has every right to have a blissful married life with her husband if they truly love and care for each other.

Its a different situation if A expresses unhappiness, which is rather unlikely as she hasn't divorced J yet, which only adds to the speculation she truly loved him as her husband and probably continues to do so even now and may be waiting for him to repent and come back.

Everyone deserves a second chance to prove their worth and J deserves one too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sree.m

To err is human and forgive divine 🤔

I see no reason why J cannot go back to his legal wife A after realising his mistake that he cheated on his wife falling for a fake cheapo like G 🤢.

It is not Anandi's fault that she cannot have her {LEGAL} husband back, just because they were married in childhood😕, that seems to make no sense at all, its all the more a grave injustice 🤢🤢.

A has every right to have a blissful married life with her husband if they truly love and care for each other.

Its a different situation if A expresses unhappiness, which is rather unlikely as she hasn't divorced J yet, which only adds to the speculation she truly loved him as her husband and probably continues to do so even now and may be waiting for him to repent and come back.

Everyone deserves a second chance to prove their worth and J deserves one too.



Yes to err is human.

But to err by using someone like an old, discoloured shirt and leaving no stone unturned to make them feel inferior and un-wanted, and then just "moving on" to a better, "Brand new" deal, is not human, it's intentional and monstrous.

And LOVE--hah! hah! haha!⭐️

No lowee...only lushht. Jaggu ditched her when she was fighting Death in hospital, what love? Khee khee!😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayali_babes



Yes to err is human.

But to err by using someone like an old, discoloured shirt and leaving no stone unturned to make them feel inferior and un-wanted, and then just "moving on" to a better, "Brand new" deal, is not human, it's intentional and monstrous.

And LOVE--hah! hah! haha!⭐️

No lowee...only lushht. Jaggu ditched her when she was fighting Death in hospital, what love? Khee khee!😳


could you/anyone suggest when was that episode/s telecasted, no worries if u cannot.I am someone who doesn not watch every single episode of this soap, but I catches up on the story reading arguements on this forum and even that not regularly, but I have to say I have never come across a topic nor did i ever watch A being hurt recollecting those scenarios, so I feel its fair enough that if the story demands a wife and husband can start life a fresh, rather than demolish their relation just because years ago they said something about kachhe daage wnd whatever. By the way lust is just a negative human emotion and greed is also a negative human emotion and people can overcome those negativities if they realise they were wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sree.m


could you/anyone suggest when was that episode/s telecasted, no worries if u cannot.I am someone who doesn not watch every single episode of this soap, but I catches up on the story reading arguements on this forum and even that not regularly, but I have to say I have never come across a topic nor did i ever watch A being hurt recollecting those scenarios, so I feel its fair enough that if the story demands a wife and husband can start life a fresh, rather than demolish their relation just because years ago they said something about kachhe daage wnd whatever. By the way lust is just a negative human emotion and greed is also a negative human emotion and people can overcome those negativities if they realise they were wrong.



I see your point of view. But I would rather have Anandi make that choice rather then her family. It seems like everyone speaks for Anandi and what her future holds. But no one has dared asked her if she wants her husband back. I also agree with you that everyone should get a second chance. But Jagya was leading two ladies at one time, he not only cheated Gauri by hiding about Anandi but also vise versa. I think just coming back to Anandi and saying sorry I made a mistake, for me won't cut it. He has lied, did adultery and even married Gauri without even getting a proper divorce. They have went to far in my opinion with their relationship, that to just forgive and accept him back would be well abnormal human behavior in my POV. They are having a child together presently. Whether that child lives or doesn't time will tell, but a major twist or great repent must happen from both Jagya and Gauri's side in order to make any forgiveness from Anandi seem real.
Edited by taral83 - 13 years ago

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