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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Thanks for the update dear:-)

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leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

yar pls dont bring that dreaded forum ki comparsions here, yaha ka mahool kharab hujayega. every discussion sohuld not be a comparison of a and g, but somehow it ends up to be.

while most see a as perfect, her biggest flaw is not giving up on j from inside, ( i accept it is hard and all but that shows she isnt a robot or too mahan)

for g her consistent insecurity is the main reson for all the problems, for her it is easier to blame someone ofr his misfortune and this she got from her no good parents, she is not sati savitir nor is she pure evil , she has shades of grey and is a real character.

for me however the biggest culprit is j and i am shocked y the cvs are giving him an easy way out.

from g point of view her obligation to stay away from j for anandi ( after knowing legality, phele she thot was invalid so no marriage yet barging in was insensitve but keeping the history forget it ) was only coz of being a woman she should understand it and the fact that immoral to live in relationship. maybe she is modern enuff to live without marriage keep that away too. people expecting g to give up j coz married to a as she is a woman , i expect that,too plus also ik dafa cheat kia tou mujhku bhikarsakta hai , i would have left him till proper route. but she ddnt simply coz she loved him too much and secondly love makes you slefish , thirdly jo apni family ku khud imp nhn deraha ji ku apni family ki fikar nhn tou koi third kyu kare? g apne parents ki izzat karne pe j ku majboor karti ha, he never did.

i am not defending g, i am just saying it is too much to expect form someone ot give up your love of life, not everyone is strong enough to do so. j and g cldnt, a could.

however after wards her actions are not right, they are actually consequnces of the

her parents programming of singh familys wrong
her memory of a being chosen over her
her non acceptance by singh family
her marriage not being legal
her living with j due to a favor ( ddnt file case)
fact that sumtira said you his chatat, a is his need, mom always knows the osn better so sheis insecure
j dsnt badmouth her, nor tolerates if she does , she would have been secure i a had been spiteful ,or had j hated her.
she cant fantom that a let j go, still feels as if will be snatched or will be drwan simply as she cant give up j.
whenever she feels guilt as basically she isnt a bad person ( she was proud of her identity, warmtowards that other doc n his iwfe form village, she advised j that both girls should leav the boy) she makes her omfortable by blaming the singhs a.
withher bachpan ki insult she getsm ore hypr simply when someone says you snatched ,you did bad.

however again i feel more than g it is j turn to be punished

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Monamie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: tanvismile
monamie-i liked wat u said.keep arguing til the end .dont give up hopes.see i dint want to compare damani character to g s mom ,my only pt is the situation which is similar.in dat jogi thakur kept on convincing damini to give him responsibility of iccha.yaha damini ki importance dikhayi deti,he begged for forgivenes,then only she slowly melted towards him.bt singhs said if u need money i l give,in a dif tone.they never thought its imp to ask them before doing for them.where is their approval ?it was done to release his guilt.Main thing is to ask forgivenes.

yes i got ur point Tanvi..but why Bhairon would beg for forgiveness?..whatever has happened to Gauri, Bhairon didn't know it right? he is not responsible for it..if he would have known it he would have stopped the child marriage of G & J..

and i think still he begged for forgiveness in front of panchayat and the villagers...he told something like.."jo bhi hua uske liye main haat jor ke aapse mafi mangta hoon"..something like dat he told..and then he told G's father in front of the panchayat that he is ready to give all the expenditure for gauri's studies..i didn't find anything wrong in this..🤔..what else he should have done then?..what G's parents wanted..that sing family will kick anandi out from home and will accept Gauri?..that is what they wanted?😕.. why didn't they think it that they r also responsible for that child marriage of J&G...when i m responsible for something too what is the point of blaming others?..just bcoz sing family didn't accept G..they think sing family is wrong..but is it possible for them to accept G and why would they?😕

Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago

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