yar pls dont bring that dreaded forum ki comparsions here, yaha ka mahool kharab hujayega. every discussion sohuld not be a comparison of a and g, but somehow it ends up to be.
while most see a as perfect, her biggest flaw is not giving up on j from inside, ( i accept it is hard and all but that shows she isnt a robot or too mahan)
for g her consistent insecurity is the main reson for all the problems, for her it is easier to blame someone ofr his misfortune and this she got from her no good parents, she is not sati savitir nor is she pure evil , she has shades of grey and is a real character.
for me however the biggest culprit is j and i am shocked y the cvs are giving him an easy way out.
from g point of view her obligation to stay away from j for anandi ( after knowing legality, phele she thot was invalid so no marriage yet barging in was insensitve but keeping the history forget it ) was only coz of being a woman she should understand it and the fact that immoral to live in relationship. maybe she is modern enuff to live without marriage keep that away too. people expecting g to give up j coz married to a as she is a woman , i expect that,too plus also ik dafa cheat kia tou mujhku bhikarsakta hai , i would have left him till proper route. but she ddnt simply coz she loved him too much and secondly love makes you slefish , thirdly jo apni family ku khud imp nhn deraha ji ku apni family ki fikar nhn tou koi third kyu kare? g apne parents ki izzat karne pe j ku majboor karti ha, he never did.
i am not defending g, i am just saying it is too much to expect form someone ot give up your love of life, not everyone is strong enough to do so. j and g cldnt, a could.
however after wards her actions are not right, they are actually consequnces of the
- her parents programming of singh familys wrong
- her memory of a being chosen over her
- her non acceptance by singh family
- her marriage not being legal
- her living with j due to a favor ( ddnt file case)
- fact that sumtira said you his chatat, a is his need, mom always knows the osn better so sheis insecure
- j dsnt badmouth her, nor tolerates if she does , she would have been secure i a had been spiteful ,or had j hated her.
- she cant fantom that a let j go, still feels as if will be snatched or will be drwan simply as she cant give up j.
- whenever she feels guilt as basically she isnt a bad person ( she was proud of her identity, warmtowards that other doc n his iwfe form village, she advised j that both girls should leav the boy) she makes her omfortable by blaming the singhs a.
- withher bachpan ki insult she getsm ore hypr simply when someone says you snatched ,you did bad.
however again i feel more than g it is j turn to be punished
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