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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: intruderfast

😆😆😆iss argument kaa koi ant nahin😛

Anmol this is not argument, this is fact. Only some people with self defined dream legal acts make is argument. Argument can be Gouri rit or wrong. Argument can be Anandi is dumb or Gauri is Intelligent. Argument can be Jogia sd call Anandi or not or Gauri sd suspect him or not or even Anandi sd punish jogia or not. But how can a well defined law can be argument. Yes if someone can't understand it and misinterpret it thn they can argue. Some people can even argue abt our fundamental rit of equality or second marriage is allowed or not .we can't stop but its not argument but its jabardasti ka argument 😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ankit111

Anmol this is not argument, this is fact. Only some people with self defined dream legal acts make is argument. Argument can be Gouri rit or wrong. Argument can be Anandi is dumb or Gauri is Intelligent. Argument can be Jogia sd call Anandi or not or Gauri sd suspect him or not or even Anandi sd punish jogia or not. But how can a well defined law can be argument. Yes if someone can't understand it and misinterpret it thn they can argue. Some people can even argue abt our fundamental rit of equality or second marriage is allowed or not .we can't stop but its not argument but its jabardasti ka argument 😆 😆

ankit well said!! this is not abt POV or even wats rt as a human being. i rem one thing which once my younger bro said that rules can b changed like widow remarriage or maariage wid devar after husband's death but not ethics & morals like not murdering sum1 or not marrying 2 an already married prsn widout having proper & leagl separation!!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

Thanks Antara !!! and Lakshmi!!


I am glad that India still holds marriages as sacred.


There is no way a person can make something correct just to fulfill his whims and desires.

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Personally I have no problem with Jag and Gauri relationship in and of itself. Just the way it was done.



Because not until recently ( mid 1900's) the law of monogamy was established. Before that many men had many wives and it was a common thing back then.

So what jagya is doing is not something that was totally un-natural.

But there is a thin line here:

1. Jagya wanted to get married to Gauri and not have her as a second in hand thing.

2. Jagya and Gauri married ( to what ever knowledge) they had and then had the physical relationship in other words no adultery going on in THEIR eyes.

Now here is where usually people split:

is second marriage ok?
for those it is , what jagya did is normal

and for those who think its not?
then its adultery

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So in reality its not what Jagya DID is bothering many of us, its just the way he did it.


So again :


If he had respectfully ended his first relationship and then started another one. No one would have issue rather many would support him.

And if he be from those who think second marriages are allowed then what he is doing is not wrong.





@exactly, thts the point. if they hv done it rit way, no one (atleast me) wd hv criticized thm. if Jogia wd hv finished his first relationship in normal way and thn intered in second relation, instead of cheating both, it wd hv been OK for everyone. same thing if Gauri wd hv asked him first to solve his first relation and only thn agreed to marry, we wd hv not criticized her. even if she thought tht BV was illeagal, but belonging to same root, she sd hv understand the emotional meaning of such relationship. so she sd hv try to solve this puzzle rationally. and even if suppose tht every person is selfish and she also hs rit to be selfish, but after knowing her marriage status, still agreeing such relation without asking proper divorce, its not only selfishness but dumbness combined with selfishness😆 so basic problem is way of handling situation rather thn rit or wrong of their relationship.
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Posted: 13 years ago
I think if there is nothing to like but there is nothing to oppose also regarding Anandi . there is nothing wrong in her nature or character except when strong steps should have been taken on J she didinot take, only that much nothing else not to support her ( i believe). I think we decide whether to support one or not depending on the persons nature and character and anandi's character or acts are quite natural and good. only thing one can critisise on the topic related to jagya otherwise nothing is there to critisise. There are some person who keep silent even when the husband cheats on there wife or even beats them but here anandi refused to take any step i mean harsh step because according to her he has got punishment for his deeds by the family. She kept quite in those five or four years after coming from mumbai when she argued with J in the birthday party just because she thought the long distance was the reason and it can be mended by showering love and not by asking question . She has shown much more strong character by forgiving G and J and not going to depression mode. I find her character quite matured because maturity doesnot mean just to react all the time and speak out what brings no solution only creates tension. If anandi has shouted or make a scene in the Haveli or Jetsar what profit is there.
Nothing only tension will grow . But if you question your husband by showing that you love him and care for him the effect is much more because he will feel guilty. Just like how now J is feeling. This is the biggest punishment that forgive your enemy and he will be your well wisher.
moreover she never interfered in their life except for certain reason which is not harmful . Haan if one suspects that your husband is having an affair then the scene is different but when you know that the particular person has called only on certain situation then just should ignore it. Wats a big deal. Again when you know that the whole village admires Anandi then Some question must arrive in mind that maybe she is not that bad but it is not acceptable that Gauri ignored all the people's saying and believe only on her illusion dat Anandi is bad although she did no harm to them even was there in her worst situation.
People tend to forget the good things done by others to them instead remember the what good things one does to others and the bad things done by the same person to them even if goods thing done is more than bad things ( here Anandi is exceptional because she gives importance only to the good things )
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

In August 2010, the Supreme Court held that a live-in relationship that has existed for a long time will be considered a marriage
and that the children born to such a couple will not be illegitimate.

its not only about kid
they mentioned it clearly that a live-in-relationship which exist 4 long time is considered as marriage
then the next pointcomes about legality of child
when they are stating it clear that LIR of long time is considered as marriage then obviously the kid is legitamate

That means marriage have no meaning than why waste your money in marriage, dowry, reception party, makeup, dresses. Simply live in relation maintain karo for five to six years and everybody will say arre they are now husband and wife, right. Regarding G and J they lived in hostels during four years of MBBS and then stayed for some months or days not sure together and after that did court marriage that too illegal and then stayed together how much days dont know but am sure not for tooo long period to be considered as equal to marriage. This serial just implicate two picture
1) one leave your wife if you fall out of love mare ya jiye mujhe kiya. donot try to mend the relation just run away and bring another woman hoping everyone will have to accept it
2) ignore your duties towards your family and expect that they will encourage happily even if your insult them , shout on them , and bring in another woman as your wife even though it was said clearly that they will never be accepted
3) even though you know that your husband's family donnot accept them but you keep them forcing and shouts on them , insult them which is not acceptable for a new unaccepted woman.
the main thoing is that if your elders scolds you or doesnot respond to you it doesnot give you right to shout. if you have something to say say it in a proper way so that nobody can point towards you. Shouting or insulting on elders that too when you and your husband hurts them destroys their dreams and make them public mockery it is disrespectful to insult them instead try to keep your quite untill they have cooled down.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: gagarulez

Legal, Illegal...Illegitimate, Legitimate...etc etc etc gyaan, articles, links...whatever it is...will NOT change one thing...which we tend to forget...


People who support Jagya and Gauri WILL support them (like I do ) and

People who support Anandi will do that...

So why waste time in counter attacks and research 🤣🤣

and like I said earlier...NO ONE has the right to say the other party's "pov" is wrong

Regarding law one cannot argue because it is fixed for everyone. Here if one have little knowledge and gives wrong comment then it doesnot become POV. If it is wrong then it is wrong or viseversa. Here the case of supporting doesnot arise.
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Posted: 13 years ago
How i wish people cd read and understand, instead of just copy and paste the article 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ankit111

How i wish people cd read and understand, instead of just copy and paste the article 😉

yaeh ankit sum ppl just copy & paste the articles or news but don't try 2 see in the deep until its their fav. ckt in whom's heart they'd dived deeeppp down!!😉
@mukta_cute LIR may b legal but only in the case of two "Unmarried Hetersexual Partners" but here one of the partners is already "Married" & hasn't "Divorced his 1st Wife"!!😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
People are conveniently forgetting that Jagya is MARRIED to ANANDI.

that law is ONLY FOR UN_MARRIED couples.


anywayz no point wasting our breath here cause the people who support this law will see it the proper way , i.e. what the law actually intended OR

probably agree that their husbands can leave them any time while being married to them and start living with another woman and then say to them.

Hey babe I know I married you but now that I am living with this other woman for 5 years. She is my wife : )

so let me enjoy you and her as my legal wives : )

or even better keep you to serve my parents and keep her to serve me ; )

oo yahh
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Posted: 13 years ago
and 4 giving Radha-Krishna eg. that judge was not just criticised but alos made fun. atleast Radha-Krishna never'd LIR!! wat a stupid statement by a judge!!lagta hai uss judge ka deemag ka koi pech dhila ho gaya hai!!
and ankit abt ability 2 read & understand then in our place theres a saying that u can't fit lid on a finished clay pot which means that "bad habits die hard"!!😉

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