Anandi's thanda thanda cool cool attitude!

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nihsheeth

@nihsheeth

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Posted: 14 years ago

i find it so ridiculous when i c ppl calling A ,a doormat...

COOL??...isnt it??...cool is d key word for gen X Y or Z...everyone wants to be cool😎...but i wonder whots d definition of coolness outthr...weraing gogs/cap forntside back or really weird jewellery...

what i can't understand here...if somone really shows cool attitude why ppl mistake it for cowardly

i think A is doing gr8 job...

given a thot to all her circumtances eg village girl, education 12 stan(that to aftr somuch fights n tricks)mayaka not so financially strong always being a homely girl...raisedup with certain values(by sasuralwalas offcourse){(here i wud like to say...if g has given all sympathies for wht happnd to her in childhood ,A deserve much more empathy for what she is tolerating 😎since childhood...pati like J chi chi...DS who may be nice at heart but has an orthodox n strict mindset ruling her for all her childhood...no freedom none at al...and training to submit in front of her scumbag pati of no use)}

i wonder what ppl expect her to do...wear underpant outside her ghaghra like wonderwomann fly to mumbaii n bust those evildoers??😡

she held puja on scumbag's b'day ...but that ain't for him...that was just respecting family's feelings...she dinn calld J...he calld her...n she has full right to know y he ws calling(ho sakta hai A ney socha ho ki may be J needs money for celeberating his b'day...😆...so she calld back...this only shows her big heart...lol...uskey darwajey bhikari aur jarooratmando key liye hamesha khuley hai😎:P)

(clever+wise+shrewd=coool)

she did a very right thing by staying at haveli...this was clever wise n shrewd at same time...

clever...

yeh she devoted 16-18 yrs of her life in seva of this family...did all her duties...its a payback time for haveli ppl by showing their support towards her...(it's only nyay sangat)

wise...

if she wud hav left with her parents ,how they wud be ever able to support her dreams.(they r not so rich ppl+no matter how much they have changed they still got orthodox mentality rooted in them)...aftr a while they might hav started forcing her for second marriage...(aisa to hai nahi ki waha jakar A ko justice mill jata n sari cheezey asan ho jati)..

and by staying at haveli she made+saved her public image of good beendni(agar wo haveli chor kar chali jati to log char din baad bhool jatey...dheerey sey J+g dobara aatey...n public unko anyhow accept kar leti)so basically she is giving them hard fight by staying thr...

wo akbar birbal wala story tha na...umm jaha ek lakeer ko chota karney key liye us'sey bara lakeer kheechna hota hai...hell yeh she is doing the same n that what irates g very much...cos no matter how hard she tries she fails to beat A...

shrewd...

she is playing very hard with g...everytime she tells her(g)...okay u took J...cos i was unaware what was cooking in mumbai...but now no matter how hard u try lil girl...u wont be able to take evn timyminy thing from me in my knowledge...neither my place in my sasural...nor my need in ur scumbag hubby's life...

and no question she got selfrespect...she showed that to J in cowshed...may be its symbolic n dinn do any harm to J materialistically but this action of her showed J his real place in her life...it told ..oh yeh she has softcorner for J but her selfrespect is far more important...its not whatever u want whenever u want u can take it frm me...this only shows she can transfer bapusa's money to j's a/c but those emotions ..those sentiments wch were associated with those goggles r no more for him...he insulted them he lost them...long ago...and walked her head held high.

i think whn gouri asked A ki wo itni mahan kaisey ho sakti hai...actaully she wanted to ask ki A tum itni cool kaisey ho sakti ho...LOL...b'cos i cant😭tho i am dactaarni😭wear choodidar,having live in relationshp and even whn i attend patients i never tie my hairs...(i personally nvr saw any doctor in private clinics nor in hospitals wid long open hairs n attending patients😕always in tight bun or pleats or pony or short🤔)

MY POV..

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Ashavi

@Ashavi

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Posted: 14 years ago

Very well said...👏
i completely agree with u...
The sufferings of a are much more than anything that cud b described through words...
and the attitude that she shows towards the problem is truly comendable...
anandi's character makes womanhood proud...👏
jst lik u evn i wonder...even i hav never seen any doctor treating with long open hairs...
GaGa are rule breaking doctors...
I feel they are an insult to this profession...😡😡

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Sneha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Wow...great post...and very well said 👏👏

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vasuja

@vasuja

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Posted: 14 years ago

Dear i never think A is a doormat. i was not asking A to just run back to her home and start working in fields. I am just thinking about her long time plans.

1) will the family ever hate jagya. Bhairon and basanth may never want Jagya back. I don't trust Sumi and DS. After some days they may start longing for them. That is the way most of the love marriages get accepted. Blood is thicker than water...After some months or few years, if things go this way then JG will be leading a nice life ( thanks to A's money supply to J) G may eventually get pregnant with J's child. I am not sure if DS can resist a parpota. She will naturally want to accept JG back. What will Anandi do then? Stay in the same house as the abandoned first wife and go on with samajseva and listen to Gauri's taunts????

Right now the Singh family is ready to do anything for her. Even DS is ready for her education. She could have taken up higher studies and even lived outside Jetsar if required. The singh family would have supported her and Anandi being very intelligent would eaily get a good job and will be able to return the money back if she wants to...I don't want her to cut her ties with her in laws. I want her to think for herself a little. Even if Anandi does not plan to re marry, if she is educated and well placed in ajob she can atleast help her poor parents in old age. She can continue doing samaj seva in part time and once stabilising herself she can start doing it full time.

In that case even if JG goes back to haveli it will not matter to her. If A is a cunning person who plans to take revenge on JG then her staying in haveli is ok becoz that will keep J away from his family. But she is not like that. She wishes well for J and knows J is never gonna come back to her.

I don't think she is cool. She is just keeping her whole future at stake. Since she is good at studies and has support I wish her to study and make a mark. everything changes with time. jagya was crazily in love with Anandi. No one ever thought he will leave her, but it has happened DS used to torture Anandi now she is too sweet to her...All what i say is that all these things will change. people will change as per time and situations. Its high time she thinks for herself so that she again does not feel neglected in future.

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nihsheeth

@nihsheeth

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vasuja
Dear i never think A is a doormat. i was not asking A to just run back to her home and start working in fields. I am just thinking about her long time plans.

1) will the family ever hate jagya. Bhairon and basanth may never want Jagya back. I don't trust Sumi and DS. After some days they may start longing for them. That is the way most of the love marriages get accepted. Blood is thicker than water...After some months or few years, if things go this way then JG will be leading a nice life ( thanks to A's money supply to J) G may eventually get pregnant with J's child. I am not sure if DS can resist a parpota. She will naturally want to accept JG back. What will Anandi do then? Stay in the same house as the abandoned first wife and go on with samajseva and listen to Gauri's taunts????

Right now the Singh family is ready to do anything for her. Even DS is ready for her education. She could have taken up higher studies and even lived outside Jetsar if required. The singh family would have supported her and Anandi being very intelligent would eaily get a good job and will be able to return the money back if she wants to...I don't want her to cut her ties with her in laws. I want her to think for herself a little. Even if Anandi does not plan to re marry, if she is educated and well placed in ajob she can atleast help her poor parents in old age. She can continue doing samaj seva in part time and once stabilising herself she can start doing it full time.

In that case even if JG goes back to haveli it will not matter to her. If A is a cunning person who plans to take revenge on JG then her staying in haveli is ok becoz that will keep J away from his family. But she is not like that. She wishes well for J and knows J is never gonna come back to her.

I don't think she is cool. She is just keeping her whole future at stake. Since she is good at studies and has support I wish her to study and make a mark. everything changes with time. jagya was crazily in love with Anandi. No one ever thought he will leave her, but it has happened DS used to torture Anandi now she is too sweet to her...All what i say is that all these things will change. people will change as per time and situations. Its high time she thinks for herself so that she again does not feel neglected in future.

sweetheart,first of all whn i was posting this topic it was in general...i'v seen so many posts...calling A doormat etc etc...

yes i agree wid u that A lacks sense of self-preservation...even i still hope by somehow she realizes that ((as teacherji said education is not everythng...u need power to change society)) she needs to standup for her rights(or may be som1else rights) becomes a powerful IAS officer or politician not goody goody politician but A GOOD politician(if u get my gist)...

but what i tried to tell here in my post...is...she is doing gr8 , in d given circumtncs ...i'v seen ppl analysing gouri's psych/character ...giving her credit/benefit of doubt ki she is reacting like this kyuki uskey sath bachpan mey ye hua tha wo hua tha...she suffers trauma n all...

in same way ye bhi socha ja sakta hai...A kay liye ...

she got married in childhood...

since then her brain washing is being carried out...

she has been taught to submit to j's wish DS's wish, family's wish...under very strict sasurali atmosphere...

no exposer to outer world till lately...

house trained...LOL...for 18-20 long yrs...(like in terrorist camps they change psych..LOL...n then ppl lose the sense of right n wrong...i am not talking in that extreme in A's case ...btu i guess thats what happen whn u keep someone in certain enviornment for a long period of time)

((telling u if som1 wud hav made me burn even my comics in my childhood...i wud hav harbored all ill feelings towards that person till now ...n might have done something naughty/harsh to them aswell...lol...))

i said it somwhr in my diffrnt post that A may need a mentor or may be a hard push to open her eyes...like gouri she also needs help of mentor...she is not a wonder woman...who cant maistake ...its just her mistakes r harming only herself n not others...

i agree wid ur prediction of future possibilities ...if she still not wake up n dance on chance...

but what i want to say...standing on A's place...she is playing cool n strong aswell...

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nihsheeth

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Posted: 14 years ago

my only problem wid serial is the speed...effing speed ...story moves too slow it drives me nuts...

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vasuja

@vasuja

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: nihsheeth
my only problem wid serial is the speed...effing speed ...story moves too slow it drives me nuts...

Agree with ur points. All my frustration is due to the slow track...To show every day Anandi busurg education and Jaggu gauri romance is very boring...It looks like nothing has changed and the things r happening in snail pace which looks like things r not happening at all

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Sneha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vasuja

Agree with ur points. All my frustration is due to the slow track...To show every day Anandi busurg education and Jaggu gauri romance is very boring...It looks like nothing has changed and the things r happening in snail pace which looks like things r not happening at all

I think the CVs are on a vacation...so they are dragging the education track.. or they have run out of ideas...chalo lets make a thread of what CVs should develop the story into...may be that will help them speed up this track! 😆

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sreevask

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Posted: 14 years ago

A is cool as she need not loose her cool at all! Because she put the ball in the court of J n Haveli people!

It is the head ache of J n G to get their faults corrected;only with the consent of A, before begetting parpota.

It is the head ache of Haveli people who performed the child marriage n spoiled her life and as such to settle alimony,arrange for her maintenance till she gets married.

In spite of all these, the only thing she lacks is that, she is not making the best use of resources to achieve something in her life n demonstrate a living example of her life that would enliven hopes of such ill fated Balika Vadhus.

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Sneha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: sreevask

A is cool as she need not loose her cool at all! Because she put the ball in the court of J n Haveli people!

It is the head ache of J n G to get their faults corrected;only with the consent of A, before begetting parpota.

It is the head ache of Haveli people who performed the child marriage n spoiled her life and as such to settle alimony,arrange for her maintenance till she gets married.

In spite of all these, the only thing she lacks is that, she is not making the best use of resources to achieve something in her life n demonstrate a living example of her life that would enliven hopes of such ill fated Balika Vadhus.

I completely agree with the last point...why is she not studying...she can do more samaj seva if she has more education and bring reformation with authority...Not everyone in real life in villages will get an opportunity like this...where they have resources and support to achieve their dreams...

CVs should focus on that rather dragging that education track...

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