Why does anandi hang around the haveli still? - Page 2

Dnt u know anandi promised dat she wil nt leave haveli til her death.she has also nt forgeten jagya so lets stop dreaming abt her leaving haveli.

Loved your posts Tinoo!

Seriously, either A should be in full beti mode or in bahu mode! Combo pack doesn't solve problem! She can't be in bahu mode as her beend is not with her... so let her go out of Singh haveli or remain there as beti i.e. J's sister 😉

Tinoo after today's epi I know the right answer for ur question

because sub consciously Anandi likes to be mahaan, very benevolent and love enduring pain and mental torture. All her life goal is being the ideal beendini of the bade haveli. Even if they kick her out her aatma will remain batkofying there and being mahaan it will only do good to the haveli people.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Tinoo after today's epi I know the right answer for ur question

because sub consciously Anandi likes to be mahaan, very benevolent and love enduring pain and mental torture. All her life goal is being the ideal beendini of the bade haveli. Even if they kick her out her aatma will remain batkofying there and being mahaan it will only do good to the haveli people.

i don't agree that A likes 2 b Mahan subconsciously. but i think she still hadn't plucked out or rather cudn't plucked out her benevolent nature & its still in her subconscious mind!!

Yes it is not cunning but i cant call it as selflessness either...!!

Originally posted by: tiny15

i don't agree that A likes 2 b Mahan subconsciously. but i think she still hadn't plucked out or rather cudn't plucked out her benevolent nature & its still in her subconscious mind!!

and i don't see any cunningness in her behaviour either. she might've not listened knowingly as she knew that panditji wud cum 2 give prasad.but her intention wasn't 2 flaunt off her mahanta but she deliberately wanted him 2cum so that family wudn't b left of the "prasad" & atleast every1 has the rt 2 get "prasad" of an auspicious pooja. after all pooja is always auspicious though it wa sdone 4 a "nalyak" insaan!!!

and i agree we all want A 2 bcum strong & punish J!! and may b the steps r slow but i m sure A"ll b strong .she may not b able 2 punish J even after bcuming strong in educn or career as all ppl've their weaknesses. so here J is her weakness & its not easy 2 4get the prsn even his memories who she'd thout of as hers from such a long time!!

even in reality wen we break up wid our frnds of long time its not easy 2 think even bad of them!!so calling A as cunning is really bad.

and its clear from the track that CVs"ll never separate A & J permanently thatswhy story is still revolving around haveli. do u think that CVs"ll make G as lead? no way afterall this is the story of BV not the rejected BV cum AV(adult vadhu)!!

though i want A 2 leave J but it doesn't mean she has 2 leave the singh family 2 . afterall they'd left their son 4 her & now she shud leave them.like ppl r saying that J'd left his family 4 G so G can't leave J!!🥱🥱

tiny i am no JG lover. I supported A but now i am loosing hope... I don't see any long time plan in her...I agree completely that CVs want AJ to reunite which further sucks. I don't thnk G will be lead and in reality neither A is the lead. J is the real lead. He got 2 girls and he is going to be redeemed without punishment.

I am not calling A cunning, but some people like to endure pain...i am not asking A to think bad for J but she can think good for herself. What is her long time plan? to wait for Jagya??? then her move is perfect.

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Yes,i completely agree with you,sooner or later she will realise,she should go back to her mothers as soon as possible and start a fresh new life of her own,not saying that she should not keep in contact with her ex in laws,because they are no longer there,Anandi came in that house as Jagya's wife,the relationship is no longer there,she should return and forget her bitter past

When JG first returned, that time I had argued that Anandi should leave that place, but nooo, both CVs, as well as some geniuses on this forum were arguing that she should have more rights than them. So that's how it now is - they are totally out of this house, and yet, now people are upset that Jagya's family is missing him. And this is just a freaking birthday - there'll be plenty more of that where that came from. When JG have a kid, then what'll they do?

My problem w/ A - she has no self-respect, is a complete doormat!!! I agree w/ Tinoo - proper thing she should have done from day 1 would have been to leave the haveli, remain on good terms w/ them all (here I blame Sumitra for keeping her back 😡) and go to a college. Don't be a doc if your heart ain't in it - there are so many other alternatives. But be independent first - for starters, loose that pallu.

I don't watch the serial - the times it runs, I either watch DBSK, or @ 11:45, I watch the Geet re-run. Just occasionally read the updates here. I just refuse to sympathize w/ women who won't help themselves.

At this point, I'd even respect Anandi more if she marries Heth Singh's son - that's how disgusted I am w/ Anandi still being w/ this family.

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think by now, in anandi's place, it would be obvious to me that though all the people in my in-laws place are being nice to me, they are nice out of a sense of moral obligation.

The reason people are not talking to jagya is not because they themselves have something against him... these people are dying to talk to him and to have a relationship with him even after all that he has done... the reason is because they dont want to scratch the wounds of their young beendhni... and Anandi overhears this through conversations... she sees sumitra crying and dadisa saying I dont want to hurt beendhni etc.

In her place, I do not think that I would want to hang around this haveli, even despite the 'dil ka rishta' that she has with her in-laws.

I would definitely speak to bapusa about my legal haq, and request him to provide me with a monetary settlement for this mess of a marriage that he had arranged, and go to a college (considering she has that option). I would be friends with my in-laws for life but would not hang around there anymore -- if my presence in the house was causing blockages in the other relationships.

Instead, she hangs around the haveli with that silly adult education class of hers -- a responsibility she need not undertake on her own head because the government has several schemes to educate adults if the sarpanch of the village puts in a request. She gives speeches to the sadhu (a nutcase not worthy of even giving her attention to), she gives speeches to asha, she gives speeches to dadisa to not worry about heth singh.

And while dadisa makes her nice gestures -- about drinking chaas to prevent acidity etc-- will this be able to go on year after year after year?

Is anandi who is now 25 or so to stay like this until she is 30, 35, 40, 45?

what is her long term plan?

I feel the CVs have cheated me -- if this was the story of an abandoned wife who stayed at home and made good her existing lot while crying over her husband and his memories, I would not have watched.

The promise given through several social messages in the precap as well as the long lectures by anandi directly was that this was to be the story of an abandoned child bride who blossomed into an independent adult and took a decision to shape her own identity.