Why does anandi hang around the haveli still?

Nisha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Agree with all of you! Dil ka rista hai na majboori to nahi. I mean the people you love, wants you to move on...think ahead and here...you just don't want to do anything. Arthi hi jayegi is ghar se...does that mean you will never leave the house! I mean come on if you went to college you will be back to house in 4 years!! Or better whenever in life you get sick come back to haveli! so if something happens your words hold their value! (Sorry people if it sounds too mean but seriously! the girl shows no signs of self-respect, intelligence, or understanding of right and wrong)

And I am so upset with Sumitra and DS...heck you are mothers...true but how can you...how can you still want to celebrate and want him back after everything he did! What if that was done to you??? to your own daughter??? Or are you the kind...mera beta mera beta hai...kuch bhi kare...aakhir aadmi hi hai na to all is fare!! ugghhh

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bmadhu2006

@bmadhu2006

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think this part in red highlighted above is the problem. Yes, she says she is okay with it, and "aap log unko apnaa lo, and gauri bhi patni aur bahu ka darja milna chaahiye"... but then her behaviour completely belies that she is okay with it.

As soon as JG will enter the haveli she has lots of reactions which state the opposite

1. she starts fainting, they have to go to a doctor

2. she starts dropping teacups and saucers

3. she starts burning food standing in front of the stove;

4. she starts chopping vegetables and then lops off her own finger 😆;

5. then she goes and sits in the rain and gets wet -- again a burden to the singh parivar because now they have to deal with pneumonia threat.

6. then she gets fever and people have to now put cold compresses on her head.

If she says it is okay, then it should truly be okay. But it is not okay. So they dont want to trigger off one more incident.

It is not just the discomfort of having JG there while a is there ... it is a's own reactions to having JG there that alarm the family.

Why should she sacrifice everything? To get few things we have to lose few things. So, it is J's turn to lose his family for G. Sumitra over the phone says that we have started recovering "not just Anandi." He hurted his father, mother, Gehna, Basant, Anandi and Gauri too & confused Nandu also. And J should realize what he has done for his wife. He has to get for what he has done. Anandi's parents are not rich. And in villages, people don't accept a married woman to be with her parents. They comment on them. May be Anandi don't want this to happen. Coming to the above expressions, its easy to let anything go off your life.. but it is very difficult to digest a breakage in the relationship. Can a girl be happy seeing her husband sleeping with another girl in the same roof where she is staying? It is more than the punishments of hell... That too Anandi spent 16 years loving Jagya... So, these kind of things will happen. But few of them are like over reactions... I hate Anandi for couple of things: (1) providing aid for JG expenses and (2) calling him back today... Hope Anandi concentrates more on her studies instead of educating the elders of the village.

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Blue Rose

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

I agree with most of you that Anandhi should get out of the Haveli and bid good bye to everybody...but I think now her abandoned nature and staying calm and doing good has become almost like a second nature based on which she thrives...Ninety nine percent of the villagers literally worship her and she is the example for the great villagers as to how not be devasted when husband leaves but stay with in laws...and if I am right when she tried to leave Dadi had heart attack/gastric issue or something which stopeed her...though she knows that the whole family is ignoring Jagya just to make her happy probably she beleves in ruining her life in Haveli as the bahu/beti mode and doing Samaj seva and funny adult classes so that she atleat make the elders around her forget the woes and smile...even if she can't make them happy!!!!!!!!!

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Blue Rose

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Why should she sacrifice everything? To get few things we have to lose few things. So, it is J's turn to lose his family for G. Sumitra over the phone says that we have started recovering "not just Anandi." He hurted his father, mother, Gehna, Basant, Anandi and Gauri too & confused Nandu also. And J should realize what he has done for his wife. He has to get for what he has done. Anandi's parents are not rich. And in villages, people don't accept a married woman to be with her parents. They comment on them. May be Anandi don't want this to happen. Coming to the above expressions, its easy to let anything go off your life.. but it is very difficult to digest a breakage in the relationship. Can a girl be happy seeing her husband sleeping with another girl in the same roof where she is staying? It is more than the punishments of hell... That too Anandi spent 16 years loving Jagya... So, these kind of things will happen. But few of them are like over reactions... I hate Anandi for couple of things: (1) providing aid for JG expenses and (2) calling him back today... Hope Anandi concentrates more on her studies instead of educating the elders of the village.

I completely agree with this and I am sure once she moves on or goes to her parents house everybody will start badmouthing her...as said she has Dil ka rishta with her in laws which some obligations like stay with them...I am sure they will be hurt if she also decides to leave the house...and as for Jagya and Gauri I am sure they will come only during holydays (read when they need money) or probably when a Nanny is needed for kid...as even before marrying Gauri...Jagya was never intrested instaying in the village...why should Jagya parent live alone let them have
Anandhi atleast

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sree.m

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

The makers of this soap either are incapable of showing a strong A or they love to drag this story for many many years hence A hanging by her in-laws place & the lacklustre adult education plot.

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sreevask

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