In the name of love - Page 6

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

hehe sreevask : )

thanks

There was a point that I remember one of the elders whom I knew spoke.

He said Freedom is Freedom as long as it does not effect others freedom

He gave an example : That people say they can do what ever they want as they have the freedom to do so. He then took his hand and started swaying it right and left and the person in front of him started blinking his eyes, as the hand was almost about to hit him.

He then said, my moving the hand is freedom of will exercised by me, but once it comes into your realm of discomfort, it bears responsibility

Even for the momentary discomfort I am causing you now which is causing you to blink , I am going to be held responsible in the eyes of GOD unless I seek your forgiveness.

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Every action small or big , of human beings has an effect. We are creations of Will have to bear that responsibility unlike other creations like Animals, Trees , birds etc as they do not really have a will power like we do.

Our actions lead to serious changes, good or bad. And thus the rules, And thus the societal norms which in turn forces us to abide in certain manner to maintain balance and harmony.

Originally posted by: nihsheeth

ye janta gauri ko hot🤢 kyu kahti hai🤪 ...kyu kyu kyu

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adjectives for gauri is despo / wannabe / ATM(aunty turned mod😆)

Originally posted by: woman11

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Their backgrounds have taught them to keep feeding their desires, no matter what, and keep craving for a new laptop, a new cell phone, a new girlfriend even when there is nothing wrong in the old ones. While many of us would only buy a new laptop when the older one gives problems, get a new cell phone when the old one breaks down and will walk out of a relationship only when it causes pain and suffering. I guess it's just different outlooks to life, but the vortex of craving is just never ending.

The reasons why Jagya has left Anandi and fallen for Gauri point to the endless cycle of desire, which in real life has no limit. The real life Jagyas will keep feeding their desires in the name of finding new love and will not stop with one Gauri. Yes, if we support fanning such desires, then Jagya is justified in leaving Gauri too.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Thanks arunima

I started the topic becuase I felt that while GaGa marriage was accepted and proved right in the name of love, Jagya's another marriage to any girl after Gauri was considered bad and wrong...I feel that when we set a moral compass, it does not waver with person or situation...If we believe that people in love need to marry and say it is ok to discontinue a loveless marriage then it is the same for everybody and every one. it cannot change based on age or person.

Personally I feel that every marriage needs a lot of work. it is normal to loose interest or feel bored in the course of married life...honeymoon period does not last forever...but couple need to work together and give their best to work it...because how many ever times we marry, the honeymoon period always ends and normal life returns back.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Thanks arunima

I started the topic becuase I felt that while GaGa marriage was accepted and proved right in the name of love, Jagya's another marriage to any girl after Gauri was considered bad and wrong...I feel that when we set a moral compass, it does not waver with person or situation...If we believe that people in love need to marry and say it is ok to discontinue a loveless marriage then it is the same for everybody and every one. it cannot change based on age or person.

Personally I feel that every marriage needs a lot of work. it is normal to loose interest or feel bored in the course of married life...honeymoon period does not last forever...but couple need to work together and give their best to work it...because how many ever times we marry, the honeymoon period always ends and normal life returns back.

Originally posted by: arunima_luvdsky

though there is a diffrence now ..Jagya has chosen Gauri himself ..so he would not hav family support systems to help through in his journey with Gauri ..his responsibilities increase n in this marriage he has to take all the responsibility of his actions ...unlike earlier when he could say he had been forced into marriage ..this time he cant blame anyone but only himself