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Posted: 14 years ago
#31
Cracks in GAGA relationship will start if Gauri becomes more successful than Jagya.
It might happen tht Jagya wld have to give up his MS and look for Job whereas Gauri will continue studying...or Gauri wld perform better than him.
Jagya being a typical MCP will resent this fact...with Anandi even though she was better than him she was quite repressed and took his tantrums quietly...Gauri is not like tht...she'll shout back at him..this will create prob in GAGA relations coz Gauri is yet to see the selfish side of Jagya.
I hate CVs for ruining Jagya...he was sooo sweet 😭😭..I had a crush on shashank 😉...now he's turned into a villain😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bantar

why are the cv's completely destroying gauri's character! from a confident,intelligent levelheaded girl she has been reduced to a screaming ,yelling,insecure emotional wreck.

Isn't jagya more to blame? after all he cheated his childhood sweetheart ,lied to the girl he supposedly loves now,and destroyed the faith his family had in him.why is being let go and gauri bearing the brunt of all the people.after all she did not know his truth for the 5 yrs they were together and went on in her relationship believing jagya to be a free guy not a married one .
yes the mistake she committed was getting married knowing he was already married.and believing him when he said that he never did and never will love anandi.
but i think he is the main culprit and he is being given less blame and everyone is looking upon gauri as the one who enticed him away from his wife!!

yes i completely agree with you..Jgya is more to blame..and evryone is balming him too..but if he will not realise his fault..who can make him guilty!!!😡
i also think that after knowing the truth, Gauri didn't think of the future..she blindly trusted a person who cheated her too..moreover she can see now that Jagya has done the same with his family also..he has cheated evryone..even dadisa..so Gauri should now realise dat..a person who can cheated his family like dis..can lie like dis..den he can cheat her anytime!!!..
and i don think dat Gauri was actually confident..i think Anandi is more intelligent and confident dan Gauri..Anandi at least knows what is right and what is wrong..being not so educated like Gauri, Anandi still have the matirity..what is the value of studies here if Gauri is unable to realise that Jagya is doing wrong..She should tell Jagya that what he has done with his family and Dadisa is not right!..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Everybody know tht jogia is main guilty, but problem with G is tht she is making her position bad by her behavior, by shouting and creating dramas while Jogia is silent watcher. After knowing how Jogia cheated his family she is very happy tht he hs cheated for her but she is forgetting once a cheater always is cheater. He hs shown her this talent with her too. If she still not realizing wht kind of this person, she dosnt deserve sympathy 😆 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: ankit111

Everybody know tht jogia is main guilty, but problem with G is tht she is making her position bad by her behavior, by shouting and creating dramas while Jogia is silent watcher. After knowing how Jogia cheated his family she is very happy tht he hs cheated for her but she is forgetting once a cheater always is cheater. He hs shown her this talent with her too. If she still not realizing wht kind of this person, she dosnt deserve sympathy 😆 😆




no ankit dont say that😭this is called "saccha pyaaar"❤️, true lubh and u calling j a cheater🥺...i hate u for that😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@intruderfast...I have read thru your posts in the forum and yes, you are right Gauri may not be at fault and yes, child marriage is to blame...but look at it from another angle...

Child marriage is a "kupratha" or a bad practice as the channel is wont to remind us time and again...yes, the elders erred by getting J and A married in their childhood...DS erred by forcing Jagya to marry Guriya after Anandi's memory loss...but J and A had a great relationship..A was J's strength and while Sumitra may have been dramatizing the rest of it...fact remains that J was totally smitten by A for a considerable time well into the 2nd year of his medical studies...for all intents and purposes his marriage was working...if he developed change of heart...did he try to clarify his relationship tangle with A? No...

Did he reveal the truth to Gauri?...No...it was only when things were threatening to snowball that he wrote a measly letter...

My issue with Jagya is yes, he can choose his life partner when he became balik and all that, but he should have closed his relationship with Anandi...he should have stood by his love for Gauri and explained his stand to his family before rushing headlong with marrying her and now reaping the consequences...

For Gauri, again she has the right to marry Jagya as she sees fit, but had she thought out in a rational manner, ensured that J's earlier relationship was officially over ad consulted bade papa...I think she would have been far happier today instead of coming across as a screaming woman

By acting in an illogical manner (courtesy the mahan CVs) J and G come across as childish, immature and unreasonable adults, for which we simply cannot blame child marriage...they need to grow up, aceept the truth, bring closure to the relationship tangle with A and the rest of the family and then yes, they can move on...to whatever the future holds for them...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja

The one reason for which I hate Jagat is that when Anandi decided to study ahead and give her 10th exam, Jagat was in love with Gauri and did not want Anandi in his life. When he got to know that Anandi was studying instead of being relieved that she will be able to protect herself in future he used his adikaar as beend to stop her education. He had no intentions to live with her but he wanted Anandi to take care of his family and live in his house as a slave. I hate Jagya for this...He is a cruel ****.

Happy finally GAGA torture in haveli is over. Gauri can go back to mumbai and flaunt her mangalsutra and get blessings from kunda thai.

That is my biggest grudge against jagya too, he had no plans of coming back to anandi ,he had moved on in his life yet he didnt want her pursue her education and be self sufficient...if not his love shecertainly was his true friend for 16 years ,atleast encourage her to move ahead in life but NO this sneaky guy😡 finds way to put hurdles in her path..pathetic 👎🏼
Also he has been married all his life,child mariage se🤪 pareshan thha but ek khatam karne se pehle he jumps into the next marriage...😉doesnt he ever wish " ek saal toh without wives jee loon😍 ,total freedom ,no controlling biwis ki kitkit😉 .."
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

That is my biggest grudge against jagya too, he had no plans of coming back to anandi ,he had moved on in his life yet he didnt want her pursue her education and be self sufficient...if not his love shecertainly was his true friend for 16 years ,atleast encourage her to move ahead in life but NO this sneaky guy😡 finds way to put hurdles in her path..pathetic 👎🏼

Also he has been married all his life,child mariage se🤪 pareshan thha but ek khatam karne se pehle he jumps into the next marriage...😉doesnt he ever wish " ek saal toh without wives jee loon😍 ,total freedom ,no controlling biwis ki kitkit😉 .."


same here vasu nd jyo if j was so sure tht he is never going back to anandi then why did he stopped her from studying further? the only reason behind this was he thought that he will fool gauri throught her life by not telling about him being married and would have secretly marrying her and A will act as the sample bahu for the haveli ppl so that nobody comes to question him. Because he when going to mumbai to pursue his further education and tells that he is never coming back not for once tells that he doesnot wishes to continue his relationship with anandi or he has found someone else instead he just ran away from there. he had no intentions of telling it to anandi either if bhairon didnt think of sending A to mumbai
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think deep down, she wanted approval for herself from the very same family that had rejected her. She loved J but the minute she knew who he was, she rejected him. But when J says that he will never go back to A, she sees it as a chance to flaunt her love in front of A.

In her imagination, she had cut off A from Jagats life but little did she know that Anandi had more influence in Jagats house. She probably imagined Anandi to be this village bumpkin without any manners, coarse habits and expected her to do some melodrama. She did not expect her to be this mature, beautiful girl whose one look sends Jagat into a guilt trip.

I think she was not compelled by any great love but just an insane wish to look down upon those people who had humiliated her years ago.

When she and bhairav were talking in one of the episodes bhairav correctly points it out to her and asks why she got married to jagat after knowing him to be a liar. Did she want to take revenge on the family that threw her out?

What do you guys think?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutiePiee4


same here vasu nd jyo if j was so sure tht he is never going back to anandi then why did he stopped her from studying further? the only reason behind this was he thought that he will fool gauri throught her life by not telling about him being married and would have secretly marrying her and A will act as the sample bahu for the haveli ppl so that nobody comes to question him. Because he when going to mumbai to pursue his further education and tells that he is never coming back not for once tells that he doesnot wishes to continue his relationship with anandi or he has found someone else instead he just ran away from there. he had no intentions of telling it to anandi either if bhairon didnt think of sending A to mumbai

wohi toh cutie, he never thinks of anyone else but what HE himself wants, apni naak ke aage usey duniya mein kucchh nahi dikhayi dethaa🤔, didnt think about anandi or gauri's feelings but only what HE wanted from them ..
Ithna dailog martha thhaa"Anandi padhai karr,but when she finally did he changed his mind to ghar baith anandi😲"...
Mumbaiya style wali biwi ko mumbai mein rakhtha🤪,jaithser walli ko dadisa ke liye haveli mein,gharr se paise bhi aathey rehthey for funding his mumbai lifestyle too... 😉jaggu ki life aise aaram se katt jaathi but kyaa karey bapusa aa gaye uski saari setting biggadney..😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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y gauri forgive ? 4 years lie lie lie ?there is difference between lie .when someone tels lie in fear of losing he can be forgived.bt if someone take disaadvantage of ur trust ,enjoy with another behind ur back ,then says sory here forgiving is nt acceptable.when someone fears of losing someone tel lie it can be forgived specialy when u see that goin through pain after u have broken up.Thakral ,evil to society bt wen it comes to family loving husband n father.he always wud fear n wud never let his get affectd by news .he feared of losing them once they get to know the truth.

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