jagya is more to blame

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Posted: 14 years ago
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why are the cv's completely destroying gauri's character! from a confident,intelligent levelheaded girl she has been reduced to a screaming ,yelling,insecure emotional wreck.
Isn't jagya more to blame? after all he cheated his childhood sweetheart ,lied to the girl he supposedly loves now,and destroyed the faith his family had in him.why is being let go and gauri bearing the brunt of all the people.after all she did not know his truth for the 5 yrs they were together and went on in her relationship believing jagya to be a free guy not a married one .
yes the mistake she committed was getting married knowing he was already married.and believing him when he said that he never did and never will love anandi.
but i think he is the main culprit and he is being given less blame and everyone is looking upon gauri as the one who enticed him away from his wife!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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jagya is to be blamed for all as per me. He lied to Gauri, Anandi and the family. He is still not coming clean about anything to anyone. He lied about his being married to Gauri, He lied about he seeing gauri and her family. He lied his family and Anandi about seeing Gauri in the city. He is still the one causing all the pain to the family and loved one's. His character has turned in to a snake. If i were Anandi , i for sure do not want him back in my life ever as any thing .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dnt think gauri s character is destroyed.i feel when a person completely under stres dnt know the real truth the person tends to be insecure.plus she is nt grown in that type house.we gals from city adjusting to a haveli plus al other problem makes us crazy.jagya he is wrong u see one lie adds another lie that continues .he deliberately dint lie both gals to have fun,to enjoy.the result of fear was lie.actualy the biger culprit here is child marriage tradition.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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^^ but Gauri is not a city gal she is as much village bell as Anandi, just because someone has been exposed to city life for 5 years one shouldn't forget their roots...I am all up for the modern thinking etc but be close to the culture U grew up in...just my 2 cents
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes we should only blame jagya for every thing but gauri knowing his truth of being married and his family disowned him married jagya and today she is not only comparing her with anandi but also asking her rights of bindini and she is coming in between when some one is talking or questioning jagya about the relationship with anandi she has no right as it is general that everyone hate and blame jagya and her because she is the reason of his betrayalshe married him after knowing everything and withouut consulting them
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I dnt think gauri s character is destroyed.i feel when a person completely under stres dnt know the real truth the person tends to be insecure.plus she is nt grown in that type house.we gals from city adjusting to a haveli plus al other problem makes us crazy.jagya he is wrong u see one lie adds another lie that continues .he deliberately dint lie both gals to have fun,to enjoy.the result of fear was lie.actualy the biger culprit here is child marriage tradition.

actually yes now she knows a lot abt anandi, otherwise she did not knew abt her and why the haveli ppl holded a in high esteem
jagya is at fault, and he getting punishment, his mom dad dont talk to her , rather then slapping him isnt this a very big punishment, hardly anyone will like it if ur parents dont talk to u .
i believe jagya loves his mom very much , when after that ragging incident he came , he did not cry in front of ds nor anadi, but infront of his mother, even now when gauri one day spoke against his mother he could not take it, and he was very disturbed when his mother left him in mumbai
he has been completely shunned from his family, i wont agree thet jagya is not getting punishment,
yes but gauri is getting unnecesaary punishment acc 2 me
and yes the root cause of all this mess is child mariage , one cant forget that
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILoveDrama

^^ but Gauri is not a city gal she is as much village bell as Anandi, just because someone has been exposed to city life for 5 years one shouldn't forget their roots...I am all up for the modern thinking etc but be close to the culture U grew up in...just my 2 cents

By city gal i meant she lived in nuclear family plus she never lived a life balika vadhu like anandi who was brought in those stresful conditions.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bantar,
I honestly dont think that the singh family sees gauri as someone who enticed him from his wife...and jagya as completely innocent.
However, their question is what we all ask -- AFTER knowing about his marital status why did she jump into the marriage with him, given that Jagya is a dishonest ass. AFTER being lied to... why did she marry him.
This is what bhairon said too "hamdardi hoti tumhare liye, agar jagya ki sachhai jaanne ke bad, kisi padhi likhi, swabhimani ladki ke jaise, tum use chod deti".
They understand why Jagya married Gauri but have no clue why she married him back.
The other part is why these two came to the haveli to begin with. This was all on gauri's insisitence.
The singh family does blame jagya - that is why they cut off relations with him. They never went to Bombay and harassed Gauri or anything like that. They left him free to do what he wanted. Then he married Gauri and now, she wants "haq" of bahu of the family (haq = access to dadisa's property).
If the two had got married and left for Mumbai nobody would have gone there to disrupt their new married life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bhairav asking that question to gauri is acceptable but we?we were who witnessed everything .we saw the extent of craze for gauri how he conviced her to believe n if anandi cud wory inspite of what he did then how cud gauri see him suffering destroying like dat .in the end it is every gals dream to get a guy who loves crazily .once the issue goes to her parents for them its imp she gets maried.jagya also wanted to soon so we again bringing the topic again n again y she maried is nt done.i dnt it is so difficult to understand.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Bhairav asking that question to gauri is acceptable but we?we were who witnessed everything .we saw the extent of craze for gauri how he conviced her to believe n if anandi cud wory inspite of what he did then how cud gauri see him suffering destroying like dat .in the end it is every gals dream to get a guy who loves crazily .once the issue goes to her parents for them its imp she gets maried.jagya also wanted to soon so we again bringing the topic again n again y she maried is nt done.i dnt it is so difficult to understand.

u know yeh serial khatam bhi ho jaayega naa phir bhi sab poochte rahenge why why why😛😆😆😆😆she clearly saw j waiting for her in the rain, she understood j love for her,she firstly thought that j was doing pyaar kaa naatak with her for 5 yrs but that was not the case, j even though very late tried to tell her all the truth
why would she waste her timein going to his village and asking qs,

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