jagya is more to blame - Page 2

(the reason for continuin the point here i n writing cel so cant make long post)even misunderstanding anandi.she coudnt figure why people bashd jagat.althogh he lied to her ,he did a lot for her,she always saw a caring jagya what they said abt jagya just nt convincing.so her behaviour was bad anandi.we al hated j x why?bcoz he insulted her ,behaved rudely which is something gauri never saw in him.due to that behavior family treated him badly.

i don't think I enjoy Anandi saying, " I love JAgya" yet...It irritates me a lot. But just because Anandi says that I can't accept Gauri saying that too. Because Anandi and Gauri are different. While Anandi's life is adrakh chais and waiting for Jagya Gauri is today's gal has studied well and has a proffession and stands on her own legs. So what was the hurry to marry???

Normal girls do 2 things according to me:

1) leave the guy after knowing the truth

2) marry the guy knowing the truth but will not go back to his family and try getting aashirwad, but stay peacefully in Mumbai. Yes that girl would double ensure the legality becoz she is aware of the consequences.

Saying all that I feel Jagya is more to blame...But what to do when women like Anandi and Gauri are ready to forsake anything for a guy like him. He is enjoying because not 1 but their are 2 stupid women their to protect him through thick and thin.

Forget about the serial and Gauri...

jagya should be blamed for all

Originally posted by: niharika_n

Forget about the serial and Gauri...

Imagine in a normal scenario u r in love with a guy and after 5 years u come to know tht he's married...dosent matter child/love/arranged whatever marriage.

Then he says tht I dont love my wife...never loved her...blah blah same reasons as Jagya...tells you tht he really loves u...will leave his wife for you...etc

Will you accept him ??will you blindly believe in just 1 day and get married without any verification.

Alteast jagya didnt have kids...wat if Gauri madam went to haveli for aashirvad and found out tht he's got kids also besides 1st wife...If he can lie about being married he could lie abt kids too.

Will any girl in normal circumstances accept such a man ??

All men on this forum dont answer...this question is excusively for girls.

nope I don't think I will marry such a guy. I will be heart broken will take time to get over him but I will not like to get into a relationship with so much of baggage.

but if any girl still wants to do this then she would go to a lawyer and double ensure everything before getting into it... today's women are smart and especially when a girl lives in a city like mumbai she becomes smarter.

Intrufest-ya .very true.people keep on asking questions .i wonder y dint ask anyone ask singh parivar what were doin for 4 yrs ?what r joint families for ?y they pay attention that time.no one is goin question on these matters.if anandi is sad they can understand .so coudnt they figure out anandi was sad.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Intrufest-ya .very true.people keep on asking questions .i wonder y dint ask anyone ask singh parivar what were doin for 4 yrs ?what r joint families for ?y they pay attention that time.no one is goin question on these matters.if anandi is sad they can understand .so coudnt they figure out anandi was sad.

oh yeah and when bhairon came to know the truth why didnt he meet gauri , he should have ,

I really don't mind Anandi's stupidity loving jagya or Singh family's dukh... They will get over things with time. Actually instead of calling Anandi mahaan people should tell gauri is mahaan. Jagya is like a poisonous snake, GAuri has taken the snake from Anandi's neck and has put it around her own neck happily.

I am happy that the couple are leaving the village and knowing hindi soap kaa andaaz and knowing the audience pulse CVs will not show a happy GAGA ( in real life couple like GAGA stay happy but serials have to take moral stands na), they may show initial happiness but slowly the relationship will rot and we will see GAri getting flashbacks of all badduahs( to kill time)

To add to all this the legal issue is still hidden...Who will pursue it?

Anandi- finally decides to move on

Gauri: to get back at Jagya

Jagya: a new bahana to leave Gauri and move to girl no 3. But I know Jaggu can't use it becoz that is sending himself to jail. But knowing Jaggu he may say that Gauri threatened and forced him to marry her so he lied😆

none of us wud marry maried guy.but j was in child mariage which was tied by elders.nt necesary u fal in luv with that person when u grow up plus love is something which is felt watever moments he spent with her were genuine,took care of her when sick,dint took advantage of her while staying in live in relationship.the level of craze,plus child mariage incident real.if u just take imaginary incident where u meet maried guy anybody wil say i wont.bt in real it is faith n forgivenes.becoz u r get emotionaly attached to person.

Above all I dont understand the true love of Jagat to Gauri:

Gauri married him knowing all the truth. accepted him in spite of knowing he is a cheat and liar. Even argued with Jagya's family members for him ( though she kept telling that the marriage was not her fault, it was jaggu who hid the truth😉 even then) She tells everything to Jagat. She hides nothing.

But why is Jaggu dada hiding the fact that the person who is gonna give him money in future is not bapusa but his ex wife Anandi. He knows it is wrong and Gauri will not accept it. I think taking money from bade papa was better than taking money from Anandi.

So Jaggu will share physical intimacy and talk love but will never tell important truths to Gauri and his love is pure!!!😆😆...I can accept that Gauri's love is pure becoz she accepted Jaggu with all his faults but Jaggu loves none other than himself.