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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: khusi_*

loha garam hai...anandi madam hathoda marr rahi hain!!🤣


Wat a line...!! amazing... i just cudnt read anythin else and started laughing...

All the analysis can sum up to this line..!!!👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The know it all master s here...lol🤣

My POV( Forgetting how much i love Anandi)
we've not heard the full conversation. maybe it will be clear next week what she is trying to say.

But in the real sense of if Anadi tells Jagya that he was romancing both at the some time is not true. he never Romanced both at the some time or even to and fro.

If she is saying he cheated both of them at the same time, she was right. He did, he was keeping Anandi as a wife, even trying to control her from going to school. He always apologist to her her being rude and not having time for her, telling her that he is just stressed because of school. So i can understand if she felt cheated...because he two timed them...one a lover(still but believe it), the other a wife...Just like i said, everyone has a want and a need. Anandi is his need while Gauri has been his want...both important..So its right if Anandi felt used.

Lastly, she was also talking about Gauri. Not because she feels she is not enough reason. but to tell Jagya that , "you dont even know what love is!" if you can hurt someone you say you love, why should i expect better from you?. for 5 years You've lied and cheated the girl you say you love...why should i expect you to be truthful and real to me, me that you are just using?.

So by Monday we will understand and hear what Jagya has to say about that!
Edited by avyarima - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why is everyone jumping to conclusions bases on just 2 lines of the precap...1st watch the episode wat exactly Anandi wants to say and in wat context then wen can conclude wat she means.
Edited by niharika_n - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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one day if she purses her studies and gets smarter 😛 and she finds a very caring and loving respectful partner who is conciously concerned😳 for her then she will find difference between jagya and that MR X .SHE HAS NEVER SEEN ANYONE BESIDE JAGYA 🐷 THEN SHE WILL REALISE THAT IT WAS A WASTE TO LUV SUCH MAN 🤔. ALL VIEWERS WANT THIS THING TO HAPPEN IN HER LIFE TO GET HER A TRUE DESERVING LUV .🥺
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Posted: 14 years ago
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1. Firstly, its impossible for Anandi to know when exactly Jagya proposed to Gauri. It is fallacious to dismiss Anandi's claim with the logic that Jagya never played pyaar ka natak after he proposed to Gauri or did it just because he was confused. Anandi was not aware of the different stages of his affair.
In Anandi's mind that 5 year time line begins from the moment Jagya went to Mumbai. From that point till the end there were instances when Jagya showed his love or concern for her. Yes the relationship had deteriorated gradually, but when Anandi looks at things at hindsight, she will obviously feel
ALL of Jagya's husbandly actions post-Mumbai were just sham.

2. Pyar ka natak doesn't always mean getting physical. Jagya and Anandi might not have had a physical relationship after he committed to Gauri (though I do remember a morning after scene) but that doesn't mean Jagya stopped acting like a husband to her. Look at the following video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-fNGnTq514

Anandi was sleeping in a different room after Jagya screamed at her for entering his room without knocking. He was almost caught saying ILU to Gauri and hence his frustration. When Anandi tried to maintain her distance what does he say?--------
"Do you have a problem sleeping with me?" "Bas aise kuchh bol diya aur lekar baith gayi tu?" "Kya Tu parayi hai mere liye" And then he asserts his adhikaar over Anandi, stops her from going and acts as if he is all hurt at Anandi's action😲. Now for any unsuspecting girl, this action speaks enough love and concern from her husband and she will feel guilty for hurting her husband like this. Couples do have fights like these when they don't talk to each other nor have any physical intimacy for days, that doesn't mean they have stopped loving each other. Anandi was still under the illusion that Jagya does love her, but is only frustrated with her since she is uneducated and doesn't match his current status. That's precisely what she says when he apologizes to Anandi for his behavior in Mumbai:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxMPbukJs7E

Now how will Anandi know that he was angry because his girlfriend was there? When Anandi speaks of changing herself, she assumes it is necessary to keep their love alive, then why is Jagya silent when Anandi mentions "hamare pyaar ke liye"? Even if we argue that Jagya did not show any love from his side, he did play along Anandi's assumption of their love, in spite of knowing how much the girl believed in it !!!

Every time Anandi has tried to question Jagya or face the problems in their marriage, Jagya has misled her as if she is thinking too much------"tu aisa kyun sochti hai?" "har baat ka ulta matlab kyun nikalti hai?" " tu Mumbai mein beena kucch soche samjhe gussa kyun ho gayi"-----------dismissing her doubts as if it's only Anandi's hallucination that something is wrong between them, as if nothing has actually changed, as if he is the same husband and as if only Anandi is overreacting. Else he has always blamed Anandi's gawarpan and illiteracy as the cause of their tensions. When did he ever confess he has fallen out of love or that he loves somebody else?

Yes Anandi was deeply in love and foolishly hoped her marriage will survive in spite of everything, but to give Jagya a clean chit for never playing with Anandi's emotions is preposterous. 🤣






Edited by woman11 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@women11: great post👏 well said and i agree with u. A somewhr felt that he may return to her but now its clear to her. as per the precap i think she may come to the conclusion 😊.

just saw even the SBB segment of 21st july posted in apni desi tv site where they showed all the recap of 3yrs n anandi's decision:

"ab mein apni pairo per khada hona chahthi hoon. sirf apni baath manna chathi hoon" something like that. it will start at 7min and is for 1min of video. could not post the link as i posted very limited no. of posts i wasn't allowed to post the link. 😛

sorry for any mistakes as my hindi is a bit bad 😆
Edited by vss08 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

In today's precap - Anandi asks Jagya two things

1. You loved gauri for five years when we were married. So, when you used to come home in the holidays each year ... did you do Pyaar ka naataak with me ?
2. You cheated Gauri too in those five years -- dhoka diya gauri ko.
I dont understand either point.
First of all, is anandi so devoid of commonsense - that she cannot distinguish what is pyaar and what is an insult? At what point during the five years (besides one visit where he went to bed with anandi... and gauri phoned him next morning) did he do "pyaar" ka naatak with anandi when he came home? He has insulted Anandi left, right and center. He did not want to visit her school with her though she had promised her student that she would bring the beendh to the school, he did not want to spend time with her and phoolie. when her 10th standard result came out he wasn't happy. He also lied about needing to go back to Bombay in the middle of the holidays and cut short his visit.
When anandi was ill and rushed to hospital in jaipur - he didnt come. Infact, he never even called her in the 11 months of the year when he did not have holidays to even talk to her... forget about the once a year trip home.
Is anandi so blindfolded that she could not read between the lines?
Second, why is she so concerned about 'Gauri ke saath dhokha'... i dont understand why she needs to think of gauri's point of view at all... but even if she does... Jagya has made good his dhoka with gauri. He married gauri and corrected his dhoka. So?

I dont understand aap kya kahena chahte ho??😕😕😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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That's quite alright teeya, if you don't understand ki main kehna kya chahti hoon. The post was self explanatory and the four pages of subsequent posts clarify it even more.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast


</div>excuse methat was the time when he was totally confused what the date somewhere in jan
<div>he had not commited to gauri at that time

when did heconfess to gauri , i think much later, after that i have never ever seen jagya romancing anadi, give me any scene of jagya anadi romance after he confessed to gaurithat he loves her,

if u can find that for me , i will be very grateful😛



Beg to differ here. Even as you say once Jagya committed to Gauri, he never romanced Anandi, then what would you call his emotional cheating of G when he was thinking about A on SR with G??? Even in channe ki khet, he was thinking about A. If you call that commitment and consistency in love towards G than I feel very sorry for G. Another point, the man is so COMMITTED to his 'wife' G that he never misses an opportunity to defend her (sarcasm) 🤣
Edited by parri814 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: woman11

1. I guess Anandi is referring to Jagya's husbandly acts before they had a showdown regarding Anandi's education. There are plenty of instances where Jagya still played the loving husband with Anandi while he was romancing Gauri. Yes he did abuse her, but he used to apologize to her as well. Once he had screamed so much that Anandi had moved out of their bedroom. But Jagya apologized and convinced Anandi to move back with him, saying he had shouted just at the spur of the moment. I remember many scenes where Jagya is visualizing Gauri while being intimate to Anandi, Jagya lovingly pacifying a crying Anandi on the terrace, Jagya convincing Anandi with his lies every time Anandi suspected him or was sad. It was only towards the last phase that Jagya had openly despised Anandi, even breaking up with her over the phone. But before that he did act like a cheater and never came out clean.

2. I am glad Anandi could see Gauri was being deceived too. At least she has the sense of perceiving who is the real culprit and who is the victim in the whole fiasco. And as a woman, she is sensitive to the plight of the other woman and has thus never blamed Gauri for stealing her husband. That's precisely what Gauri lacks------she doesn't have the sensibility to understand Jagya is the main culprit here and instead goes and blasts Anandi.🤣 It's funny how the gawar ladki has more sense and can see things more rationally than the educated sahri daactaarain who punches out on the victim herself🤣

Well said...👏.. ur pnts r very true.. tho i didnt c J-A's phase of 5 yrs whilst J was with G too.. bt i gather from ur pnts tht tht was real infidelity.. ...
i remember the 1st thng A asked J after learning abt G was tht Y didnt J confide in her abt G.. y didnt he bother to discuss the topic after thr breakup.. if not as a wife, as a friend.. he shud have apologized and answered her mail.. he only feel guilty after returning to haveli.. wen everybody was shunning him..

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