Today's precap - dont understand anandi - Page 4

Anandi is wasting her breath on J. She herself said - he's already replaced her in his heart and there can be no arguments to undo that so what is the point ?

wow antara...super like to ur post!!👍🏼

Originally posted by: hooked

Anandi is wasting her breath on J. She herself said - he's already replaced her in his heart and there can be no arguments to undo that so what is the point ?

When she refused to clarify the marriage issue and also stopped the family from questioning J and G or denying them Ashirwads - in FACT madam went so far out as to make everyone understand Gauri's PAIN...!!

So why does she want to question J about his behaviour now ? What is she trying to achieve ? Dimaag kharab hai - she never does anything at the right time. Even when J left for Mumbai and said he's never coming back - B, S and Dadisa thought her parents shud be informed - Anandi stopped them. DS had to practically lie when her folks had once called...Anandi said she doesn't want her parents to be told anything until it is all resolved...she always ends up putting off things and walks about with a 'Main Bechari' face.

Have tried often times to understand her psyche and realized too that she is a much kinder, more forgiving, gentler perosn than myself - BUT to lie down and let people walk over u like a doormat is tooo much...

There's a beautiful poem about self-help that I hope she can read -

'khud ko kar buland itna, ki har taqdeer se pehle

khuda bande se khud poochhe, bata teri razaa kya hai'

Anandi is strong - she shud cut her losses now and think about her career plans - berating J is not going to get her anywhere - J did not even keep DadiSa's faith - who else cud he ever care for ?

When did she have time to ask for explanation ?? she emaild him he didnt answer...came back with a 2nd wife who screamed like a banshee whenever she saw J and A together so she never had a chance for his explanations...and she deserves an answer...
she deserves kicking Jagya where it hurts the most...
by the precap it didnt seem like asking for answers it seemed she's taunting tht he was 2 timing both of them...thts a polite way of saying ur a 2 timing creep.

Originally posted by: khusi_*

wow antara...super like to ur post!!👍🏼

ur 2 points...anandi didn't know when J got into the relationship with gauri...and...pyaar ka naatak didn't mean... getting physical

perfect points...!!

yeah he said that...tu parayee nehin...coz...he was afraid of gehena's taak jaak...😆

now...what would the meaning anandi understood at that time!..

she might have the tought...still lots of hope left in this relationship...only problem was her education...but dr sahab toh...G ke khayalon main goom!

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now...one didn't say that i love u...then...conclusion is that...there is nothing left in a relationship...is baseless!!

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if ignoring the 1st relationship means J thought he broke all ties...is too funny!😆😆

before getting into a 2nd relationship...u have to break ur 1st relationship completely...no matter what..it is a unhappy,forced,troubled one...u have to break the 1st...

if not...it is called as cheating!

and u r a cheater!😳

what anandi is saying...that u cheated ...is right...but my problem is why so late...!!😕

she should say it...much before...!!😕

My point exactly!!!! Why now???😕 These questions and dialogues should have been done and dealt with initially when she was kind of asking for an explanation. They have been in the haveli for so long and already so much has been done. Why bother now and just exactly what would kind of explanation can he give?? He is a liar and a cheat and has cheated and lied to everyone right from DS to his parents to Anandi, Guari, friends (gosh the list is so long, how and when did this jagya become such a creep!!! How the characters have deteriorated thanx to lack of imagination on the CVs part😡). It just seems CV tactics to drag this drama from some more time. In my eyes by now Anandi's attitude should be whatever!! Go on, get going and to put it like one of the most famous dialogues "Frankly my darling, I dont give a damn."

i'VE been thinking about why she brought Gauri's dhoka into the picture -- I think she feels that even if Jagya was an ass, Gauri would not have fallen so fast and hard if she had known that he was married right from the start.

Yes even i got confused.by pyar ka natak she meant that u remained in relationship with me for five years dint tel about gauri. pyar ka natak was nt the right word used.

Its a pity the creatives it seems have lost track of what they want to show..till jagiya gauri got married..i used to look forward to an episode of balika vadhu..now i havent watched for weeks...i try switching on..but switch off in minutes if not seconds at the nonsense they are showing...they themselves are not clear...are they demoting child marriage??...or promoting it???...are they promoting education and intelligent thinking???...or demoting it?????...directly or indirectly they are causing bigtime confusion amongst viewers...who i am pretty sure are getting fed up..and will switch off eventually incase this non sensical track continues!!! What was the need to make gauri jagiya stay in the house..whats the significance of that...what was the need for dadisa dramatic plan which seemed useless in the first place...i had thought anandi will move on...but no..instead this ever lasting love track for jagiya...and continuing dumbness...when she went to bombay to meet him he cheated on her there and then..and so openly...i mean how he treated her...still she overlooks all that and prefers to acknowledge it as love...😆...its too ridiculous...

Even though its been weeks for us , since they have arrived at the haveli, its been just few days since that entrance. So Anandi now asking QUestions to Jagya makes sense because

a) She had to fully get over the trauma of J and G together. Finally getting over it. It took her a while ( the first episodes where she was shown devastated at seeing them together)

b) Seeing is believing, so even though Jag was with Gauri in mumbai, it did not hit home until he came LIVE in Action with Gauri.

c) DS illness

d) Family not accepting too much commotion and trauma

e) Anandi finally accepting that they are married even though not legally but , no point crying over spilled milk.

f) Getting herself together

h) Jag hurting DS the final take. Now Anandi realizing that Wow! Jagya is a LIER!!

I think cheating DS probably gave her the final shook that if this man can cheat her. Then emotions relationships have no meaning for him. I


not only lied to her but to gauri as well. That he is not sincere in anything he does.

So Now, Anandi will FINALLY MOVE ON! that no point waiting for this looser (hoping this to happen) he will always lie and cheat. He is not sincere to anyone not to his family nor gauri.

Of course when BHago and khajan comes shouting at DS, she will trash htem by saying they were in fault as well and have to suffer for what they did. Child marriage and thus shutting their mouth.

She will stay in haveli as the family left their son for her. At this moment of weakness and need she will not leave them. Which is good.

Cause even though she is the bahu of the house (legally too) they have always supported her and to leave them will make her seem selfish.


Anywayz I am glad she will stay in the haveli. She deserves the comforts and the opportunity to make her dreams come into reality. Which might not happen in khajan's home due to financial issues.
So great : )