Woman 11 - all this (romancing) happened in the first year diwali vacation. After that he came home once and insulted her about the 10th standard exam and her coming first. - After that there was a three year leap and then he broke up with her on phone. The announcer announced "three years passed, and jagya never came home except briefly for a few days each year, and even when he did, there was a lot of tanaav". Then after the leap he told her on the phone not come. But by that time she had figured it out.1. I guess Anandi is referring to Jagya's husbandly acts before they had a showdown regarding Anandi's education. There are plenty of instances where Jagya still played the loving husband with Anandi while he was romancing Gauri. Yes he did abuse her, but he used to apologize to her as well. Once he had screamed so much that Anandi had moved out of their bedroom. But Jagya apologized and convinced Anandi to move back with him, saying he had shouted just at the spur of the moment. I remember many scenes where Jagya is visualizing Gauri while being intimate to Anandi, Jagya lovingly pacifying a crying Anandi on the terrace, Jagya convincing Anandi with his lies every time Anandi suspected him or was sad. It was only towards the last phase that Jagya had openly despised Anandi, even breaking up with her over the phone. But before that he did act like a cheater and never came out clean.