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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

wht a big problem??😆 u r going to decide the matter of life but making enquiry abt the person with whom u hv to spend ur whole life , particularly if u know he hd been hidding his identity for 5 yrs, is such a big deal. this is jus funny😆. Jogia belongs to haweli, which is well known not only in tht village but even in surrounding. its not necessary tht u hv to go to haweli to enquire anything. in village u can find connection easily and particularly knowing abt famous families r not very tough job. whn we go for arrange marriage, people dont go directly to tht family to enquire anything but they do it thru connection, which is very easy in village as everybody know each other. and checking abt Jogia-Anandi relation is not very tough job, particularly whn G parents very well know abt haweli. but of course if u r in so much hurry tht even cant wait the normal one month period for registry marriage, thn there r problem?? 🤣🤣 if there is will there is way. rest is just rubbish😆😆

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: intruderfast
exactly tanvi , kyaa kar leti investigation karke, jagya actions proved that he loves her, she already knew family has disowned him
and talk to anandi, oh yeah hello anandi u know i am going to marry jagya , how do u feel abt it,😆😆😆

, cmon aisa kabhi hota hain kyaa , and i agree with hima, why would anyone trust ur husband ex

the family is trying really hard , sabne keh diya jagya anadi love is pure gr8, but jagya has been firm on it.

i am so happy ds kaa plan superflop ho gaya, yeh lagaa ds ko dhakka , finally

Anmol Jogia bahut kuchh kahta hai, but the main question is his credibility😉😉 i believe in action and not words, and know one thing if u r with ur love, u forget the world and not remember SR or romantic moment of of ur EX🤣🤣thts tell more thn wht Jogia say by word🤣

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woman11

@woman11

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: hima_123

yeah these options are pretty sensible...though I'd assume she had already grilled Lal Singh..and he told her whatever he had to...what else was her to ask abt "Lal Singh...were they intimate in their bedroom?"..."Any sacrifices you can recall Lal Singh that Anandi made for Jagya that I should take into account?"...What else could Lal Singh tell her apart from being

Abt Bade Papa...how could he have known what she didn't know abt Jagya---(liek how could he have figured out what went in between Jagya and Anandi behind closed doors--for that matter how can ANYONE find out intimate details between a husband and wife)..!!

Abt parents...why would any girl send her parents to a place where they might be potentially insulted.

Frankly speaking...the only thing according to me, Gauri could have done in her circumstances was find about the legality of her marriage..Apart from that, I believe...her decision was less rash compared to Bhairav's decision of allowing his child's marriage...even though Bhairav is a great guy.

I don't think intimacy between Anandi and Jagya is the real issue here. Anyone who is marrying a divorced or married man knows that her husband is not a virgin. So I am definitely not talking about Gauri finding out whether Jagya was intimate to Anandi or not-----------because I think she can't expect her husband to be a virgin, whether he loved his first wife or not. The point is finding out what kind of a person Jagya is. Questions like--------why did his first marriage break? Did he do anything to his wife? What is the state of the wife now? What kind of person is this man I am planning to spend my whole life with? Is he trustworthy even after lying to me for 5 years? Why has the family disowned him? Is he financially secure?---------are common questions that every girl should ask before marriage. And I think bade papa could have helped her come to decisions about these issues.

Regarding her parents' involvement, it was only fair that her parents make their move if Gauri was planning to involve Jagya's parents. If she had moved to Mumbai directly, without bothering about the Singh haveli, then it was enough for her to know and assess Jagya as a person. But Gauri wanted the involvement of the Singh family too------in that case she should have found out about the family and whether they are ready to accept her and her family or not. That would have saved her a lot of trouble.

I understand that it is impossible for a girl to find out everything about her husband before marriage, but the way Gauri went ahead with a 2 min marriage, given Jagya's horrible history is just absurd.

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

Absolutely Ankit! Btw Lal Singh was not grilled by Gauri. All he did was give Jagya's real address and name to Gauri and told her go see for yourself what the truth is. When she arrived at the village and found out Jagya was married and when she saw Anandi's photo in the haveli she should have enquirer further like an ABNORMAL person. She could have gone back or called Lal Singh for more info but no she preferred to believe Dr Liar like a NORMAL person. Selective recollection going on here. ??? 🤣

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hppppp

@hppppp

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: ankit111
wht a big problem??😆 u r going to decide the matter of life but making enquiry abt the person with whom u hv to spend ur whole life , particularly if u know he hd been hidding his identity for 5 yrs, is such a big deal. this is jus funny😆. Jogia belongs to haweli, which is well known not only in tht village but even in surrounding. its not necessary tht u hv to go to haweli to enquire anything. in village u can find connection easily and particularly knowing abt famous families r not very tough job. whn we go for arrange marriage, people dont go directly to tht family to enquire anything but they do it thru connection, which is very easy in village as everybody know each other. and checking abt Jogia-Anandi relation is not very tough job, particularly whn G parents very well know abt haweli. but of course if u r in so much hurry tht even cant wait the normal one month period for registry marriage, thn there r problem?? 🤣🤣 if there is will there is way. rest is just rubbish😆😆

checking out what??

Find out what?

the villagers knew Jagya was married to Anandi...she knew it too.

the villagers knew that Jagya had gone to study Daakteri...she knew it too!

the villagers DID NOT KNOW that Jagya had fallen in love with her...but she knew that too!

the villagers DID NOT KNOW that Jagya wanted to marry her...but she knew that too!!

whats left?

Bedroom intimacies of Anandi and Jagya? What kind of talks they have?? First WHY will the villagers know that...and why will they share it with an outsider? ...even if they did WHAT EXACTLY could have come out of it??

.lets assume they had hidden microphones or a gossipping maid---who probably heard Jagya shouting at Anandi probably sometime the previous year...!!! FIRST--WHY would they share that gossip with Gauri?? If they shared the gossip...WHAT could she have infered from the grape-vine??...it feels weird to even find out...

for arranged marriages makes sense, because in that case you know NOTHING about the future partner...in this case she knows much more than villagers do...why even go there and take the risk of getting insulted?

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hppppp

@hppppp

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: parri814
Absolutely Ankit! Btw Lal Singh was not grilled by Gauri. All he did was give Jagya's real address and name to Gauri and told her go see for yourself what the truth is. When she arrived at the village and found out Jagya was married and when she saw Anandi's photo in the haveli she should have enquirer further like an ABNORMAL person. She could have gone back or called Lal Singh for more info but no she preferred to believe Dr Liar like a NORMAL person. Selective recollection going on here. ??? 🤣

exactly what info...I am pretty curious to find out...exactly WHAT info Gauri could have found out?

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: hima_123

checking out what??
Find out what?

the villagers knew Jagya was married to Anandi...she knew it too.
the villagers knew that Jagya had gone to study Daakteri...she knew it too!
the villagers DID NOT KNOW that Jagya had fallen in love with her...but she knew that too!
the villagers DID NOT KNOW that Jagya wanted to marry her...but she knew that too!!

whats left?
Bedroom intimacies of Anandi and Jagya? What kind of talks they have?? First WHY will the villagers know that...and why will they share it with an outsider? ...even if they did WHAT EXACTLY could have come out of it??

.lets assume they had hidden microphones or a gossipping maid---who probably heard Jagya shouting at Anandi probably sometime the previous year...!!! FIRST--WHY would they share that gossip with Gauri?? If they shared the gossip...WHAT could she have infered from the grape-vine??...it feels weird to even find out...

for arranged marriages makes sense, because in that case you know NOTHING about the future partner...in this case she knows much more than villagers do...why even go there and take the risk of getting insulted?

last line of my post (now in red) say everything. i hv nothing to add😆

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ankit111

Anmol Jogia bahut kuchh kahta hai, but the main question is his credibility😉😉 i believe in action and not words, and know one thing if u r with ur love, u forget the world and not remember SR or romantic moment of of ur EX🤣🤣thts tell more thn wht Jogia say by word🤣

gr8 thats ur thinking, its not a rule naa😆😆 i dont go into too many details, shows mein itnaa detail search karna

faaltu kaa time wastage hain

simple logic use karta hoon , throughout his stay he has never expressed a desire to go back to a, bas thats enough for me to decide😆

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Intimacy does not mean literally just physical intimacy. Spiritual and emotional connections aka chemistry Can be visible to anyone who wants to see it. No one is inferring bedroom intimacy. Gauri could have found out about the inseparable nature of Jagya and Anandi's relationship they way Phooli expressed it.
Also about Jagya consistently declaring how much Sacha pyar he has for Gauri and only Gauri. If this was so, how come he is always so reluctant to protect her from the insults hurled at her? At least he used to be brave enough to always fight for Anandi's rights but here he has no conviction to stand by his 'legal' 'wife'. 🤣 🤣 🤣

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: intruderfast
gr8 thats ur thinking, its not a rule naa😆😆 i dont go into too many details, shows mein itnaa detail search karna
faaltu kaa time wastage hain

simple logic use karta hoon , throughout his stay he has never expressed a desire to go back to a, bas thats enough for me to decide😆

i will say my thinking na and not others😆😆

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