So the greatest enemy is Anandi !!! - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: woman11



Agree, that's Gauri's logic but that's a very stupid and selfish logic. Transfer this logic to a different scenario and you can see the stupidity of it. Suppose I apply for a job and try my best for that position. However, the hiring committee has a better candidate in their list and they take her. Now if I start cursing the other candidate instead to realizing why she was hired, that's utterly stupid.

Similarly, Anandi has done nothing to torture Gauri or jeopardize her marriage. In fact Gauri should realize that it is her who has claimed what was earlier Anandi's.


Lol...so true...its like yew slam urself against a wall and blame da wall when yew get hurt...da wall was alwz der its up to yew to choose either yew slam ur self against it or nt and if yew do..yew should be ready to face da pain rather than to blame da wall...plain stupidity...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
gauri...somewhere deep down knows she is responsible for anandi's pain.

everyone is the family has shown their anger frustration regarding the situ
ation to gauri..but anandi...despite of all..has maintained her cool and dignity. that is something gauri cant take.

normally they say..the worst punishment for a person who is at fault is forgiveness.. i think that is what which is coming into play here.

After guari and anandi conversation couple of days ago when anandi said " i wish i was in ur place ..but even if i was i will never make ur mistake and i will never want to fail. " so indirectly anandi slapped her and told her u failed in ur life, u threw away the gift of freedom and i will never be like u. So now gauri is hell bent on proving that anandi is a fake.

GAURI NEEDS HER REVENGE. she is stupid to think so. She thinksshe knows it all and has been thru every thing. no one else has faced such life challenges as she did ..and now she is suprised why no one sympatises with her... and approves of her...

and ppl like gauri exist in real life...some times she feels almost real..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the answer to this is that people traget the easiest prey available.here anandi is the easiest prey.if she say something to j,his parents or ds she will be hated and most of might even be thrown out.she will not be accepted by d family which she wants at any cost.according to her anandi is taking away her so called right.
its always the weaker person everyone traget to show their.even when people bully others its becos of their own insecurity and anger aat someone else.gauri is doing the same.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#14
The answer is CVs have no imagination. They can only write sauten vs. sauten type of stories.

I've been shouting from roof tops that this is how BV is going to be and my prediction is coming true. Gauri is directing her anger at the wrong target and CVs are to be blamed.

CVs, please wake up and smell the coffee. The BV forum members have sophisticated tastes. Please dont insult our intelligence with the same ghisa pita story line like those of 100 other stupid serials. Give us something fresh to like.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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No one any easier target than Anandi...thats y she does that... she has to remain in the good books of everyone else in the family cause she has to live with them as they are her hmmm supposed INLAWS...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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DS has a very expectant wait and watch look on her face !!!

I wud dearly love to hear her mutters to herself about what she is actually waiting for. To some extent I think its ok to let Gauri rave and rant at A.

If I have something precious and someone comes in and claims it as theirs and tries to take it away from me - will i put up a fight ? I sure as hell will...
in fact any real person would...
So why shud Anandi not put up any fight for J ? If she loves him as she says - she shud fight to keep what is hers. Maybe DS too is waiting to see this spark in her. Gauri maybe illegal in her shaadi but she has snatched J and is hell bent on getting haveli + village's acceptance...by any means...no matter how inaffectual or comical. Shouldn't Anandi try to figure out what is happening and try to find a solution instead of just helping J if she can and running off to her iskool ?? She likes to play the saint and let everybody else feel sorry for her and fight her battles...and that makes her a user too.

Now try to imagine DS in a similar situation as Anandi. She wud have taken care of both J and G on the first day they came here and left nothing for any of the other family members to sort out...she's a doer..a hawk. Anandi is a dove...wish DS wud give Anandi a nice talk about self sufficiency and fighting to protect what's ones's own some day...itna jyada Gandhipana bhi theek nahi hai
Edited by hooked - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Gauri's shouting like a manic...even when someone's angry they dont scream and shout publically.She's shouting in front of ther supposed in laws and entire village !!!

Itna hi gussa hai to control karo na...civilized ppl dont shout like this in public...if there r issues it can be sorted out privately.Gauri needs some manners trainning...she is behaving like a slum deweller...its not expected behaviour from an educated person.
Atleast have some respect for the elders we dont speak loudly in front of elders even when they r wrong.
I consider Gauri also as a victim and I can fully understand her situation but her screaming is not making things any better for her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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gauri is selfish girl n she is thinking all the hatred that she is getting from the singh family members only bec they love anandi to extreme level. she is unable to digest this. that's y she hates anandi
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why is G so amused if ppl are doing A A all the time? Why does she wants them to accept her and give her their blessings when she didnt even give 2 hoots about what they will feel if she marries their son like this and to top it he is already married. Didnt she had even a l'll brain to just go and check what kind of a relationship J and A shared earlier.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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My personal feeling is that regardless of any member of the family shouting at her...she will not be able to vent at them because it is, after all, their blessings that she is wanting.

But in her insecurity due to her being either ignored by the family members, she feels Anandi is the cause of all this...because everyone is showering all their love and gives Anandi the position that Gauri craves for.

Besides who else can she vent her anger on, now that she has seen even Jagya running after Anandi...

Insecurity, lack of knowledge about her true standing in the house (which all the others know about except for G and J) plus what she feels as ill treatment by J's family have reduced her to this state.

Sometimes, as a child when you suffer a trauma, it never leaves your psyche and inevitably comes back to haunt you and affect you in ways that you least expect or like...Besides she does not even know what it is to be a part of a household since you were brought in as a child bride and have literally grown with them in all these years...that is something she cannot comprehend.

I do not say this to make excuses for Gauri as for me she is just a depiction of a character in a fictional serial but I think for myself, I would like to try and understand why a bright and intelligent girl could have changed so much in such a short time and go against all that she believed and preached about.😕
Edited by groucho - 14 years ago

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