If What Jagiya Done Was Right...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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If Jagiya believes what he has done is right and just, when Anandi was leaving why was he bowing his head down and not looking at her. The person who does that is someone who is embarrassed of their actions, ashamed of them or someone who feels guilty. Acting like this shows that somewhere, even if its some deep corner of that heat of his, he realises there is something that is not just with the situation and the way he has handled it all.

Also, when Gehna was talking about the past, like when he came back after 5 years and spent all the time with Anandi, (the sindoor scene, the ankle scene, standing up for anandi, those loving looks and the consummation) why didnt he say anything in retaliation, those instances where used to show the flaws in his reasoning, so why didnt he justify himself. He didnt because again he knew deep down what Gehna was saying was all correct.

So he can harp on as much as he likes, saying it wont change what the truth is, and the truth is that he did love Anandi, even though he so vehemently denies it now. The only reason he is denying it is because otherwise his actions wont have any justification or foundation to stand on.


Just my two cents.
Edited by Illyria - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jagya is standing on loose sand, he cant justify anything. When he wants to get away from Anandi he blames it on balvivah and then when he wants to get gauri accepted he again takes the help of balvivah.
Clearly he is the real gawar unpad in the story who has no wisdom other than mugging up some books. Pity on him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Doesnt he realise he is contradicting himself. First he says anandi and him shouldnt be together because they were married they were young therefore it was wrong, but then says that he and gauri were destined to be together because they were married when they were young, and in adulthood it was destiny's way of getting them back together.

I dont think he is processing what he is saying before he is saying it
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts. J has always tired to put the blame of his actions on someone else or some situation. He claiming that he did not love A is just his way of satisfying his guilt feeling in my opinion. Anyway the episode and Gehna's words said it all.

For one he cannot think for himself logically and is such a spoiled brat that he just has to have what he wants even if it means trampling over everyone's feelings. When he doesn't want anyone to interfere in his business why does he want their blessings then? he knows they are not going to approve of it then just walk away. They continued to stand there forcing everyone with their lame emotional blackmailing of child marriage. Sorry guys for harsh words. this character disgusts me so much that even if i decide not to write about him I cant stop myself.

But I am happy the CVs did not portray that J was never in love with A but instead fell out of love. what else can one expect from a selfish person like him?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illyria

If Jagiya believes what he has done is right and just, when Anandi was leaving why was he bowing his head down and not looking at her. The person who does that is someone who is embarrassed of their actions, ashamed of them or someone who feels guilty. Acting like this shows that somewhere, even if its some deep corner of that heat of his, he realises there is something that is not just with the situation and the way he has handled it all.

Also, when Gehna was talking about the past, like when he came back after 5 years and spent all the time with Anandi, (the sindoor scene, the ankle scene, standing up for anandi, those loving looks and the consummation) why didnt he say anything in retaliation, those instances where used to show the flaws in his reasoning, so why didnt he justify himself. He didnt because again he knew deep down what Gehna was saying was all correct.

So he can harp on as much as he likes, saying it wont change what the truth is, and the truth is that he did love Anandi, even though he so vehemently denies it now. The only reason he is denying it is because otherwise his actions wont have any justification or foundation to stand on.


Just my two cents.

i am agree with you
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What with the police sirens drphill, i dont think we have said anything offending.

Exactly, I think that the CV has shown it like this rather then J not loving A ever. But then if that was true maybe i wouldnt be so against J.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with you, jagya found difference in Anandi after Gauri entered his life
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think him helping dadisa get better will be a saving grace for him with the family as they will feel indebted to him for saving dadisa's life. Jagiya will eventually start to feel remorseful about how he has handled the situation (at least i hope so anyways).
He has yet to apologise to Anandi for the way things has turned out. At least as a friend he should have informed her. If nothing they did use to be good friends
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illyria

I think him helping dadisa get better will be a saving grace for him with the family as they will feel indebted to him for saving dadisa's life. Jagiya will eventually start to feel remorseful about how he has handled the situation (at least i hope so anyways).


Family should not be indebted to Jagdish because by profession he is a doctor and doctor's first duty is to save/help the patient. That should not be the ground for the family to forgive or feel indebted to him.
Edited by sweta01 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think more than guilt feeling it was his cowardness/arrogance.. to accept he was wrong .. if he was feeling guilty he wudve asked for A's forgiveness... afterall may b he would never see her again and mostly coz A again stood beside him... aah.. he is such a selfish person..👎🏼
or may be simply he was acknowledging tht yes Anandi has no rights now to live in his house...👎🏼... otherwise he would have stopped A. and asked to help her out..
i jst cant understand J..😔
Edited by achiever - 14 years ago

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