How to be a Door Mat- The message of the show? - Page 6

Originally posted by: priya_remix

Every serial starts with great promises of being novel and having something new but ends up in typical saas- bahu cadre series! The serial is showing what women in rural areas go through but they forget that unless they show their lead women emerging strong and victorious things are never going to change. Don't they realise that media has a great impact on the mindset of people and can inspire many! If they continue to portray teary and silent women as ideal bahus, then any person who fight for their right will be considered as a vamp or selfish character!!

Originally posted by: priya_remix

Every serial starts with great promises of being novel and having something new but ends up in typical saas- bahu cadre series! The serial is showing what women in rural areas go through but they forget that unless they show their lead women emerging strong and victorious things are never going to change. Don't they realise that media has a great impact on the mindset of people and can inspire many! If they continue to portray teary and silent women as ideal bahus, then any person who fight for their right will be considered as a vamp or selfish character!!

I had expected a lot from Anandi's character but it has disappointed me totally! Why is it that Jagya gets all the freedom and rights while Gehna, anandi are restricted to their kitchen?

That is the CV's idea of going from one end of the spectrum to the other. Only in this case the speed bumps come every 2 episodes and the car rolls backwards instead of forwards. So we are still in the beginning of the message (if there ever was one) and the bahus are firmly fixed to the kitchen.

exactly aditi... its really one step up and two steps down, the way the show is going so far... but on a cheerful note - may be they are taking some serious efforts now to revive the show by bringing the focus back to the prime issue - i.e child marriage... and also the side tracks like early widowhood.... and they are also trying to show how an early marriage affects a girls education and how it handicaps her.

Hi all,

Today our Anandi finally found her spine. She was quiet good, but i wish it was chotti anandi telling all those dialougues, she would have been much better.

But anyways creatives are finally awake to our criticism and they continue like this.

yeah pallavi... but chhoti anandi toh ye kabhi nahi keh paati... coz she was speaking of all she LOST... and lil anandi was only LOOSING - perhaps the creatives wanted it to be some on regretting it all in retrospect.

Originally posted by: sudss

yeah pallavi... but chhoti anandi toh ye kabhi nahi keh paati... coz she was speaking of all she LOST... and lil anandi was only LOOSING - perhaps the creatives wanted it to be some on regretting it all in retrospect.

loosing,loosing.........................LOST🤔🤔....

true theres no replacement for avika... me too missing her 😔 but then the show must go on na 😔

Originally posted by: sudss

true theres no replacement for avika... me too missing her 😔 but then the show must go on na 😔

it will go on but sometimes 😍i wish they would find a way to bring back aVika - 😉after seeing promos of 20 year leaps in laado...😆

Originally posted by: sudss

u mean as anandi jr.?? 😉

kaise bhii chalegaa😛 just saw her today receiving award for BV and she said "i Reallyyyyy miss balika vadhu" a little sadly .....and i started missing her all over again🤔...

hmm... as always... the show must go onnnn... but who knows! the CVs may bring her back as Jr anandi very soon as u sadi 😉