My views on BV until now - Page 5

@divyamathur 😆 chalo yaar, khush rahe banda, 😉 binaa mathlab ke press conferences main time waste na kare 😆 😆

Originally posted by: pjyo

You are so right about the''try to bring small changes'' ...its the little things that bring big changes later on as time passes--boond boond se hi ghada bhartha hai..
Iam not saying had she studied she would have become collector or anything,(although that would have been fun with dadisa taunting her as 'collectaraain' 😆 ) but atleast she should have had the opportunity to study,i still remember anandi reciting poem 😭 at school function with tears in her eyes at the thought of never been able to go to school again..And after watching recent episodes i wonder kya yeh wohi anandi hai ..it almost hurts at this character assassination ..
Personally i was never in favour of time leap,so not judging pratyusha -as i loved the kiddie jodi too much,so i could be biased 😉 but the hairstyle does seem weird at times,although 😉 i think we cant call it hairstyle ,seems like hair extension to me 😆 maybe pratyusha doesnt have looong hair like avika..
keep on with the 😉 lambaaaaaa posts,its fun reading
😆

i agree abt the character assassination of anandi..i can give a little leeway to her not studying coz of the societal and daadisa norms bt to completely forget abt studying is so not anandi..i mean,she was at her parents place all these years..daadisa was not there to sit on her head..y cud she not study??

You are so right about the''try to bring small changes'' ...its the little things that bring big changes later on as time passes--boond boond se hi ghada bhartha hai..
Iam not saying had she studied she would have become collector or anything,(although that would have been fun with dadisa taunting her as 'collectaraain' 😆 ) but atleast she should have had the opportunity to study,i still remember anandi reciting poem 😭 at school function with tears in her eyes at the thought of never been able to go to school again..And after watching recent episodes i wonder kya yeh wohi anandi hai ..it almost hurts at this character assassination ..
Personally i was never in favour of time leap,so not judging pratyusha -as i loved the kiddie jodi too much,so i could be biased 😉 but the hairstyle does seem weird at times,although 😉 i think we cant call it hairstyle ,seems like hair extension to me 😆 maybe pratyusha doesnt have looong hair like avika..
keep on with the 😉 lambaaaaaa posts,its fun reading
😆

yeah,to TOTALLY forget about education is just not anandi's nature.She could atleast look at jagya's books when old lady is not around.. i couldn't continue my education due to health problems but even i try reading whatever i find on the net,just to expand my horizons ..Next she will be busy with dadisa's idiotic cooking pareeksha .What will she do after the "hawtness" factor" cools down,jagyaa will go back to school/college have fun with buddies,so will phooli..To be left behind in life when all your schoolmates surge ahead is a sad,sad,SAD feeling.......
Thank god iam not the only one feeling like a 'dadima' 😉 many members in the forum are so excited at the fluffy romance that when i write about anandi's education i feel like iam spoiling their party

I beg to differ on only one point. So many people here have commented that it's unnatural for a young rural couple to get intimate so quickly , given the 5 year separation period and no tangible attraction prior to the reunion. In fact it would be the opposite. Marriage at an early age and social conditioning will inevitably cause them to develop an attraction only to their spouses. For a city person at 18, you are not tied down to one single person and hence, attraction is permissible with several persons. If you were married and were very good friends with your spouse at age 13, then a sad separation and hormonal teenage years would ensure that at age 18, you would pine for that one individual you've made promises to. City youths have issues with trust because of previous failed relationships (or potential break-ups) and prefer to take things slowly, but these inexperienced first-timers have no reason to not trust a childhood friend/spouse and will get into the thick of things pretty quickly. Let's not forget the letters exchanged and the whole mystery surrounding "I haven't seen him/her in 5 years" - I mean, that's exciting stuff. So, it isn't a surprise that they've ended up with a lot of pent-up sexual energy. That's how most 18 year olds are anyway and I don't imagine they're manufactured any different in a village. Why does Basant think it's ok to sleep with an unwilling new wife? I expect it's because young men get this attitude hanging about and gossiping with equally inexperienced bumpkins and subtle subliminal messages from the family and society as well. It's the same for Jagya, and peer pressure exists as well. His demands are not that extraordinary then.

Partially the viewers' response here is because we're trying to apply our pre-sentiments about social behaviour of rural folk (again, conditioned by TV) and ideas about modern love. Why do we want this to play out as a sweet, suitably paced love story? All this talk about "Hawtness" as a purely business motive by the creatives, but what about "Idealness" expected by TV viewers ? Let's not pretend this is not about entertainment - we want to be entertained albeit on our terms. That's what the writers aspire to bring to the screen - what the audience wants. Perhaps the CVs have not done their research properly because those love scenes were very cringe-worthy. Honestly, I didn't even watch them fully because it was excessive ! But I doubt it would be very far from the truth in real life. I can picture a young immature couple doing exactly the same things (and more) given the freedom they have as husband and wife. Also, there were no books, magazines, school kids imparting sex-ed to the first man and woman. They figured it out and so do the most socially isolated people. We keep yearning for "real" serials without the exhausting rona-dhona but when we are shown something as real and uncomfortable as a sexual initiation, we balk.

I do agree about the original track going awry. Wish the girl would've continued her studies and grown up to be more sensible. Her questions and statements make me do the eye-roll🤔 so often. I do not however think they've caused scandal with the horny bits, I just wish they'd have shown it in neater and more compact manner. It did not deserve 3 days of TV time.

^^ wow...tat was so good....wish i culd explain it as well as u hav done 👏

@Persephone- Very well written dear. 😊

Ok I agree with u that all boys and girls are manufactured in the same way - be it rural or urban.
They have the same hormonal urges at 18 or 20 of age and want to do romance or more.

now coming to the situations-
I agree with the point where as in urban areas they have the different options and hence they can slow down picking their options.

Now, coming to rural area, here kids get married and the idea of forever together- no chance of anyone else - is implanted since they were 5-7 yrs of age.

My point here is that the kid-couple were separated for 5 yrs-
5 yrs is a long time - even with letters and the eagerness to meet each other. 5 yrs was a long period to build your own thinking process and having a little bit maturity in life and building certain ideologies towards a person.

When u meet the person u have not met in 5 yrs , not talked, not seen, do not know anything abt his character .............going for a physical thing is a bit rush.
I dont want them to sit n talk and know abt each other neither I want them to consummate stat.
I just want to see them getting comfortable with each other at first and then jump on each other.
I hope you got my point. 😊

I see that u r a newbie and this was ur first post/reply on India forums.
I am glad that u started or opened up ( if u were a silent member) thru my post.
Keep writing.
Bhavi 😛