Mr Softy Vs Devil - Page 4

@sin..what a wonderful post..

Originally posted by: oh-wow

...........actually the whole thing of fake pregnancy is so confusing.......
what did DV & Maata g think.....that A had a one night stand in meerut?
......soon after Radhey death? .....and Bhashan queen gave in??......

.......ok so maybe DV is so insecure in love & with the sword of A leaving him
hanging on his head .......he is afraid of any & everything....so fell for this silly jaal thrown by puny....
........but so unlike DV.....and then of course the panchayat thing ......
........Cvs need to do some damage control.......and spin this another way

Originally posted by: AnjanaToronto

@Sin - fantastic topic 👏 👏

DV started of as one helluva selfish character. He got what he wanted by charm, fear, manipulation, or force (wat's the hindi saying saam-daam, dhand, bhed). And nobody and nothing could touch him.

But, Amoli slowly n surely became his Achilles' heel...at first it was lust, but the more she fought the greater grew his obsession to the point where he prioritizes her and his need for her above everything else... in the beginning, he didn't want his passion intervening wit his personal/family life...later he didn't give a damn...so, he sacrificed first Chandana ka future then later Urmilla n radhe, his most loyal gadhe, to his obsession...marriage to Amoli made him secure on the level that he thinks that she is legally his & can't be anybody else's now...so, the battle is purely btwn himself n Amoli and btwn them, he is willing to sacrifice himself for her (be it poison or jail or letting go spend life alone). The only person who can come btwn them is Amoli ka willpower not even his shadow na...

At the first mahapanchayat, he was distracted with the impact his actions may have on Amoli and kinda indifferent except to ensure that he retained his power. So, he let the woman's husband set her punishment... In the second instance, as he admitted to his mother - he choose the option that protected his junoon/obssession/chahaat... the one thing he cannot loose...

In the 3rd instance, I think he was blindsighted by Puny n namak- haram Dhaani. He would have picked up on Dhaani's imminent betrayal on the phone had Amoli's presence (entering the room) not distracted him. The thought of her pregnant by someone else was also weighing on him whether he wanted to admit or not. Also, Amoli herself eroded his power at the panchyat by having them stone him at the last one... So, his power before the panch was muted by her.... Had they truly started throwing then he would have fought them on a physical level by himself like a sher protecting cub because he distractedly fell into Puneet-Dhani ka chakraview... (Personally think CVs made mistake becoz they want him for now to retain the softy image...if janwar comes out then bye bye Amoliji)

Later at the mansion, he was in full force (power back) becoz 1) He or rather Amoli was in the right n 2)He has time to punish them at leisure now whilst he did not have that luxury in the moment at mahapanchayat.

As for mataji n DV - they hav oddd relationship where she sets down the law wit him n he defies it if it doesn't suit him...they r kinda turn a blind eye to each other's misdeeds outta respect/love

His acceptance of her baby was a smart move to ensure she did not leave him for the baby daddy

Also, note he tortured Puny in private not before Amoli, who prefers his softer side

@Sin

Another interesting topic i ponder as i watch this show is the eternal power struggle btwn men-women....esp within the context of the "rising" of the oppressed women through various forms all inspired by Bhashan Q Amoli....n so, she is slowly destroying "Thakurs" ka satya in tat way slowly but, surely

1. She is the one that ultimately cleared the cobwebs from Urmilla's eyes as she was one who steadfastly refused to marry Thakur until he had gun to gadhe ka head; And she is the one that inspired Urmi to leave i think...

2. She empowered Shobna to stop living in the past and embrace the present including her baby;

3. She liberated her "spinster" sister along wit a little aid from Ronnie of course from herself n society's opression of shy/wy girls

4. She keeps "komodi" alive by treating her as a human being not a prostitute

5. I think she & thakur inspired Kajri to seek her own revenge from Puny n Kajri is doing samaj seva with her patidev seva

6. Hopefully, they will empower Chanadana to leave Dipsy at some point too...

@Sin - the only thing i should ponder next week is my paper on how my adopted country deals with "true" world evil (alleged/actual war criminals)...

But, Amoli as a character is interesting for sure - Bhasan Q unlike most Ekta Mai heroines neva given in or up....its not that she isn't self-sacrificing, but she just like DV, an independent thinker and does watever she feels is "right" without letting the situation "best" her