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Posted: 9 years ago
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I've been wondering for a while...These women want to throw Rajni out of the house - if they were to succeed, hypothetically, then what would happen after that? If Shaan were to get married to another girl, even if she were Surili's choice, wouldn't the rest of the women be annoyed with that girl, too? Shaan doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would marry any random airhead. He seems like the kind of guy who probably wouldn't get married at all, if left to his own devices.

Before Shaan married Rajni, I used to think Surili was amusing and sophisticated, above the sort of petty scheming that she is now taking part in...There were some moments with Shaan and Amrish where she showed that she isn't a heartless caricature of a mother/wife/socialite. I'd like to see Surili's ego be whittled away at, hopefully sooner rather than later, even if the process is a gradual one. Even if Surili doesn't show it on the outside, I'd like to see at least some begrudging approval of Rajni's actions and words once in a while. Is her ego worth so much more than her son's happiness?

I also thought at least Aishwarya would be on Rajni's side, given their lovely little interaction after Shaan-Rajni's wedding. But nope, Shoguta-who-speaks-in-third-person had to arrive and ruin that. I find Aishwarya to be more bearable than the Kant women - and that's saying something. The less said about Maggie/Sharmila, the better. Even Kuhu knows how obnoxious the older women in this family are!

I sincerely hope these women learn their share of lessons in respect and humility and humanity. When a robot is more humane than actual humans...Well, I have a feeling that is part of the message...Hopefully, for the Kant women, the only way to go from here is up. So here's hoping...
Edited by MelodiousDreams - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
Agree with you.
I have no big expectations from Maggie, Saugata & Sharmila but at least expected Surili to have a change of attitude.

Sharmila even after realizing that Rajni helped Dhyan is still acting like a blind hater.

Aishwarya has NO reason to hate Rajini and that too after the respect Rajni showed to her on the wedding day, I expected her to have a change of attitude but NO :(

After the Dhyan incident on friday I am expecting Surili to be good towards Rajni by seeing the promo but I also have my doubts.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agree with u all
surili behaviour should now be changed towards rajini. if she cant praise her then atleast cant plot against her. in initial epsiodes her character is classy but now she become typical saas who only plot against only one bahu. she is also becomming irritating character like other kants ladies.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhigya24

Agree with you.

I have no big expectations from Maggie, Saugata & Sharmila but at least expected Surili to have a change of attitude.

Sharmila even after realizing that Rajni helped Dhyan is still acting like a blind hater.

Aishwarya has NO reason to hate Rajini and that too after the respect Rajni showed to her on the wedding day, I expected her to have a change of attitude but NO :(

After the Dhyan incident on friday I am expecting Surili to be good towards Rajni by seeing the promo but I also have my doubts.



In my opinion Sharmila is the worst! Even after knowing Rajini helped her husband, she is too selfish and jealous to show any gratitude to her. That is just cheap. Even Ashiwariya has no reason to plot against Rajini. Surili of course is becoming a huge disappointment. From a 3 dimensional character she has become a typical evil Saas plotting to get rid of her Bahu! It's really too stereotypical now.

The story is going a bit haywire I feel. They are not bringing in ANY changes in the attitudes of these selfish women! It's beyond belief now. Can people be this blind in their jealousy of someone, and this insecure about their own place in the world that all they do is plot against that person?


At least Bubbles is not a blind hater, she actually thinks Rajini is a Dayaan! LOL. But the rest of the women are Dayaan's themselves! I really enjoyed this show. But I wish they would at least redeem one of these characters, because their behavior is really unrealistic. Especially Shramila after knowing Rajini helped Dhyaan. Surili who seemed like a smart woman, is now acting like a Gawar female. The whole thing is fake looking now!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I second you...
I too think exactly the same... none of the women has any work to do except plotting and scheming. Not everything can be ignored in the name of fiction.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally agree!!!

If they represent working women then how come working women have the time to plot and scheme around in the house all day? .. It has become like a typical saas bahu soap with only the difference of the bahu being a robot. The ladies of the house have become hell annoying especially Surili.. and after Friday's episode, it has surely crossed limits when Sharmila and Surili were still trying to find out ways in blaming Rajni and not let go of their ego 🤢
Edited by jenny156 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: .navi.

I agree with you..at least surili shld show some gratitude towards rajni..now a days her character is hell annoying 😕 she is like babo of diya aur baati serial. 😆



Do agree with you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sweet_Ashum

But had they not shown them this way we wouldnt have been able to see Rajni execute the Adarsh Bahu program 😃

Her features are mainly highlighted because of them acting like regressive ladies
And that is also how they are making a mockery of Adarsh Bahu soaps😆
Its a two sided coin
They are just showing the bot executing the features installed in her
And aise toh every show shows saas and nanand and jethani devrani as plotting scheming ladies
Hence our Rajni😆
enjoy the show, remember its fiction and cheer Rajni!!🥳


It maybe fiction and a satirical comedy but like you pointed out her adarsh bahu program is the reason why others portrayed like that gives out the message that working women are evil, jealous and scheming compared to housewives while it's rarely true in only some cases which in turn makes this show no different from others. I mean career women like men are most of the time focussed on their work or their rivals in work atleast the modern women would, I frankly don't think they'll waste time scheming against the bahu of the house who mostly means well. The makers need to keep their target audience in mind. If they're targeting the younger audience with an appetite for comedy and sci-fi then they should avoid this nonsense like saas-nanand-jethani vs bahu/devrani drama. Frankly we're anything but interested in that and also lately the show is doing poorly in terms of comedy which was the reason why I followed this show but now all I find is unnecessary drama. It's a light-hearted show either let remain that way or bring in a more interesting track. BTW what happened to the Matthew-Dev misunderstanding?? I'm pretty sure that track is good enough to help the show progress ahead.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SamV

its the journey of the characters to find their way thru lost paths.


Really?? How by plotting against Rajni 24x7? Why aren't these women shown doing something productive besides this? I know you'll are mocking the regular saas bahu shows by showing this adarsh bahu program but honestly how antagonising the regular non robotic women justifiable here?
And like someone pointed out why are only the women antagonised in this show??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ TM
Agree with you completely
Someone tweet this link to officials or cv's of the show..
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