Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #37 - Page 44

Originally posted by: purplenpink

@ bold- hain na? Matlab hadh hai idiocy and taking the audience for granted ki

Same to same on Nandu.. I liberally use the ff button 😆

Very little that’s likeable about the show honestly- you keep hoping it will get better and they keep disappointing.

Maybe a couple of maha episodes as BH suggests and we get out of our collective misery 😆 I’m interested in the Nandu reveal mostly- the rest doesn’t seem redeemable

Same here, i want nandini reveal only. I am waiting for that since Anjali track tbh. Vo wake episodes to zarur dekhugi 😆

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Same here, i want nandini reveal only. I am waiting for that since Anjali track tbh. Vo wake episodes to zarur dekhugi 😆

200 episodes in and abhi toh koi hint bhi nahin hai that anyone suspects Nandini. Bri se kuchh hopes thi pre- leap but she has dashed them after the leap and become quite unlikeable too

At this point I’ll take someone, anyone really finding out her true colors- even Tarun chalega 😆

Originally posted by: tournesol

Oh God, Priya almost had a slip of tongue and spelled it out for Ram, his similarities with Pihu. This guy still doesn't take the hint. I can't even 🤣😭

Pihu has same eye colour, same cupcake fancy, same medication habit........dimag ki batti jali nahi...Now Priya literally tells him.....

maybe like those 'better earlier days' song is being played in the car..... only this time, the song happens to be..... 🤣

"Yeh kya hua, kaise hua, kab hua, kyun hua,,,,,, arre chhodo, yeh na socho!"

So this Banda has taken out his business sharp do take ka brain and thrown it out of the window wrapped in 400X 20 dandi worth of flowers.😉

Now let us recite the same song, every time we watch the episodes.😆

I liked Sandy's sassy remark and her dialogue delivery today. She put Nandini in her place! I wish Priya had learnt it from Sandy in all these years. Aaj hum log kuchh mast dekh rahe hote!

Originally posted by: purplenpink

200 episodes in and abhi toh koi hint bhi nahin hai that anyone suspects Nandini. Bri se kuchh hopes thi pre- leap but she has dashed them after the leap and become quite unlikeable too

At this point I’ll take someone, anyone really finding out her true colors- even Tarun chalega 😆

Mene to bri se hopes Holi ke pehle se chord diye the.

Idhar koi character worth nhi hai. Ek bhi nhi. 😆

Ab shayad tarun hi last hope hai.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Vahi to dumb*se he is 😆

He took priya at face value once and lost everything. Now he is not taking her at face value. Not once priya told him after leap that pihu is krish's daughter. Everytime he brings Krish she goes silent and starts hiding her eyes from him. He is not taking her at face value bcz she is not giving him any proper answers.

In bakery priya said pihu is only her daughter, she left Mumbai without Krish the supposed love of her life she was meeting after yrs. Which mother takes her child away from father in the middle of the night like that?? Also she didn't tell Krish where is she going?? If Priya and Krish are so good that he changed her so much why doesn't they know each other intimately??

These are common questions. He is not putting things together bcz of his anger, pain and jealousy. He feels so betrayed that even if he gets to know the truth he won't believe it until priya will say it herself.

Sometimes i think Ram can feel that Priya had hidden something from him and trusted Krish with the secret.

Ram is either not seeing these things or he doesn't want to make sense of it until priya says something earth shattering.

Also his behaviour towards pihu is so weirdly understandable.

Like he is the child who wanted to share a certain icecream with his best friend. But that best friend chose to have that icecream with another friend over him. Now, the child feels hurt, neglected, betrayed and acts out saying that the person wasn't a good company anyway and the icecream flavour is BAD in taste to pacify himself. But the reality is he wants to experience that specific icecream flavor with his best friend only.

So now, he keeps taunting that person about that experience bcz he wants the attention he once had. Simple.

He wants pihu but he knows her father won't let that happen so he keeps finding ways of fighting with her and saying bad things about her so that no one can see that in reality he just wants his wife and their child.

That's why when pihu refuses his company it hurts him. Bcz it reminds him that even if he could somehow get priya back pihu's refusal of him will keep priya away from him.

And also if he fights with pihu it will hurt less when he will later see her with Krish.

Hi Ritika, I respect your insight, but unfortunately I can't agree with you. I can't agree with the justification/ I can't reconcile with such behaviour of Ram (and Priya) due to the following reasons:

1. We were promised a mature love story, and it's not mature anymore. Esp not with Ram and Priya behaving like this. Ram is not supposed to hurt a child (even emotionally) because he himself is like a child. Adults can't avert their responsibility of being responsible by behaving like kids themselves. Look what happened with Shivina when her childish actions were never stopped.

2. Priya is not answerable to Ram anymore, (regarding her love life. About Pihu's truth she is answerable.) which is why Ram shouldn't expect any proper answer from her ( about whether she is with Krish or not). I hope Priya tells him how happily single she is now. 😅 And if Ram really wants answers from her, he should learn to ask for closure respectfully.

3. It's not realistic that a person stays angry at their ex for 5 long years. Five years is a very long time. There are five stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance. Anger is one of the early stages of dealing with grief. Realistically speaking, Ram should have been past that stage by now, and be somewhere around the second last stage.

Priya's character could also be written better, but since we were discussing Ram, I stick to the topic 🤗

One thing I agree though, that they have dumbed down Ram beyond repair 🤦🏻‍♀️ Now only the 5 year old Pihu can run his business with her deal cracking skills 🤣

The whole leap is to introduce Pihu and restart RaYa story from a fresh start. The writers made a mess of pre leap track to get to the separation. The least they could have done is not mess with Ram and Pihu bond .

They made a mistake in making Ram mean at Pihu . No matter what how will they justify Pihu acceptance after the truth is revealed.

Priya is not answerable to Ram anymore, which is why Ram shouldn't expect any proper answer from her. I hope Priya tells him how happily single she is now. 😅 And if Ram really wants answers from her, he should learn to ask for closure respectfully.

Priya is not answerable to Ram about her love life. She can be single, dating Krish ,living together with Krish or even married to Krish or anyone else. Ram has no right to expect answers from her at this point .

But Priya is answerable to Ram for hiding his daughter. Ram didn't reject his kid yet. Priya lied to him about it. So if the truth is revealed later, Priya should be held answerable for that because it was his kid as well.

We know Priya had her reasons but Ram has the right to make her answerable for hiding the truth.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

she’s comparing now, but didn’t she tell him on his face that the kid is Krish’s? So what’s the point comparing now? The lead characters destroyed their lives themselves…. Now what’s this twisted way to prove Pihu is Ram’s. I hate both the leads now…. Nothing they show now has any impact anymore……

Priya did not compare Pihu with him intentionally 🤣 Honestly, I don't know what's the point. Both the leads acting so dumb these days, that it has got difficult to relate with them. 🤦🏻‍♀️

One thing I agree though, that they have dumbed down Ram beyond repair 🤦🏻‍♀️ Now only the 5 year old Pihu can run his business with her deal cracking skills 🤣

Dumb ML and Mahaan FL. Perfect characters and perfect couple🤣.

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

Priya is not answerable to Ram about her love life. She can be single, dating Krish ,living together with Krish or even married to Krish or anyone else. Ram has no right to expect answers from her at this point .

But Priya is answerable to Ram for hiding his daughter. Ram didn't reject his kid yet. Priya lied to him about it. So if the truth is revealed later, Priya should be held answerable for that because it was his kid as well.

We know Priya had her reasons but Ram has the right to make her answerable for hiding the truth.

@Blue: 💯 agreed.

Somehow I missed this aspect while writing (maybe because I was elaborating on Ram). Yes, true, Priya hiding the existence of Ram's kid from him is not at all right and she should be held answerable about this. And about all her lies.

Priya had been shown as a righteous lady who hated lies. It makes no sense how she can live so peacefully after telling such lies to the love of her life.

Priya mustn't tell lies 😆 (HP reference)