Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #29 - Page 77

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Yeah, it was more of an infatuation.

With Vedu, he never felt like placing his own happiness (with Vedika) before his family's happiness

With Priya, he desires to be selfish (which is new for him)

that is the future. He will choose Priya over his family as he was never sautela in the first place

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

MM ka haters - uska bhi time aayega .. poor lady, tum log uske peeche kyun pad rahe ho? We are victim of circumstances. Each react to situations differently … She is from old school of thought where divorce is seen as a big taboo … we all know women who still stick to their abusive partners … world is changing, accepting single mom is happening slowly
Coming to MM’s acting, she is from theatre, hence she is overdoing things .. I think she is kind of respected in her circle ..

frankly, if I was in a situation like MM with 4 kids, cheater husband … not sure how would I have handled it differently. at least she taught her daughters to be independent

I can’t believe I supported MM … but I do see my maid in her who is still sticking around her with her drunkard husband for the sake of their children

Even today there are a lots of educated , professional women who go through domestic violence/toxic relationship and silently accept it as a way of life. They are scared to come out of wedlock even when their life is in danger because they fear what the society will talk about them. They are scared that they will be blamed. So MM fears is understandable. A person like MS is dangerous to be around kids and him trying to get Sara married is way of getting an upper hand to control MM.

Acceptance of an unwed mother in a traditional society is very difficult. Ideally it shouldnt because whether to be parent or not is a personal choice wed/out of wedlock. Judging a person's moral values based on that is not correct. But sadly that is how the world runs and it is this fear to keep everything intact for her girls is what is keeping her quiet.

Bade Achhe Lagte Hain

I wanted put some of my analysis hear about some of the characters of this season.

Varun :

He is a selfish man who married Sara for money, even after the marriage he never took the responsibility of the family, so Sara had to work two jobs to take care of him as well as her son, hear I’m not against woman Bering the bread winner and man being the home maker but he even never took care of the house because in the initial episodes we saw Sara running to her house for feeding her kid, if he was a homemaker he would have taken care of that but no. When Priya said to Akki that this is what happens when you marry the love of your life, maybe even Priya knew Sara had a bf and the pregnancy thing but all of them are in illusions that her bf was Varun. Varun knew that he can only be living a happy life without doing anything is to keep her son in his good terms so he waded a difference between the mother and son relationship and became every thing to that kid and use that in the appropriate time. Let’s wait and watch, even after knowing his real colours Sara( though unwillingly) will support him just not to loose her son because he is bridge between the two.

Ram. :

He is one who always gives, he has always loved every one in his life irrespective of the return. He never got back the same amount of love back, he knows that and he was ok with it until Priya entered his life. He is understanding the equation of give and take. He is getting all the attention and love for Priya way more then he is giving her. So now he understood the meaning of true love.

Vedika :

She was some rich spoiled child who always wanted the best, and during their college Ram must be most sorted out guy among all the girls, so she wanted him as her bf and got it, but when it was to take a thought decision she choose her luxury and married Shashi and ditched Ram, it would have been very difficult if she truly loved R, but he was just a trophy for her so she was ok ditching him and moving on.

Nandini. :

She was all she used all long as Ram loved someone because she know him too well he will love any one who is in his life without expecting any thing form the other, so she was ok when Ram fell in love with Priya, but her scare now is that even Priya loves Ram and for the first time in his life there is someone who loved him in real. He was getting back all the love, respect and all the understanding which he gives to everyone around. So her insecurities a heightened. Yesterday he confirmed Nandini’s fear, he is becoming selfish for the first time in his life for Priya.

Priya. :

She is also someone like Ram, even her love is unconditional, though she says she hates her father but she never humiliated him due to her love for her mother. She still address him as app which is surprising for me, give the circumstances any one will stop doing that but she loves her mother unconditionally so she doesn’t disrespect her father for her.

Coming Neeraj, thought he broke her but she doesn’t hate him because of her love for Maitri, as she told during her drunken session during the birthday kaand, I’m happy as long as you keep my sister happy, that is her.

Now Ram, she has started loving him even before him, she was hurt when she came to know about the annulment papers but she is used to that kind of heart break in her like as not to show it on her face for her mother’s sake, so she responded in a very normal way and wanted to leave him before he becomes her weakness, but she pulled back every time by Ram, because Ram is some one who doesn’t let go of he cared so people so easily. With him she knows that she can rely on him but still her fear is quite deep rooted so still that pull back form her side to confess her feelings.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/-Wbx4iA0J78

Did you all see this. I really want to see Shubhu supporting Priya . I want to see that Bhabhi - Devar relationship. I want to see Shubhu changing for good. I want to see Akki changing Shubhu's perspectives abt life . I want to see Nandini's plan fail. Shubhu should understand that one can live happy even with out plotting and planning.

Originally posted by: Zanutix

I had a crush on him after I watched Dil Bole Haddipa 🤣

Uske baad I started hating him (because my best friend's mum hates him and it kinda got inducted in both of us for no reason🤣)

Then we made another friend (we're a close knit trio!!) and we induced our hatred into her and now she hates Shahid too 🤣😅

I had seen all his movies up until he was with Bebo then I came to know about his dirty behaviours and didn't see him until Kabir Singh. I didn't hate him but I disliked him for his womaniser behaviour.

I still have a thing for Bebo, I grew up loving Poo (no judgment please).

What to expect this time?

Kangan is back on the right hand.

https://twitter.com/TheIshita/status/1521408478505750528?t=Htp6J_1eVhYbPrY2mNJqwA&s=19

Originally posted by: Hero_Coconut

Oh which background song you didn't like? From the moment they use a song, it becomes theirs overtaking the movie/actors in it. After watching each scene a gazillion times, I really can't help it.

Why did Ram take out the bangle from Ps hand... Another MU? So soon?

That kangan is proving to be some totem!!!! Kaand khatam hi nahi hota... :)

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

Why did Ram take out the bangle from Ps hand... Another MU? So soon?

Priya hurt her hand and the kangan was making it worse. No MU.